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@tori1016- Yeah, it's OK if their adults, but at her age...

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by e2000 on 11/26/2011 2:41:12 PM

 
 

thats kind of crazy to be dating someone 11 years older than u. thats like me dating a 24 year old and a 13 year old dating a 2 year old, thats just plain wrong

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by luv798 on 11/25/2011 7:22:38 PM

 
 

im sorry but yeah i think that is way too big of an age difference i once dated a guy 4 year older then me and even then it was way to much, i ended up doing some stuff that i ultimately regret, and for what? we dont even talk any more. whats worse is everyone told me that it was a bad idea but i didnt want to listen to them because i really liked him, but now i cant stand how obnoxious he is and he basically used me and im thinking this is what your guy is doing to you, it might not look like it at first but it will soon get to that point, so i suggest ending ASAP! (if i had the chance to go back i would have done that too)

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by beliayazmin on 11/25/2011 5:48:12 PM

 
 

ok, girlie, i would seriously consider dumping him!!!!!! this could cause some problems for you, plus, it's kinda strange (not to mention ILLEGAL!!!!!!). It's your choice, but I HIGHLY RECCOMMEND you go find someone your age! There are plenty of other fish in the sea...fish that aren't 11 years older! Tong Devin A.

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by sweetpea185 on 11/25/2011 3:07:03 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I really liked this guy a lot and he was all flirty with me too. Everyone said we would make a really cute couple. I was head over heels for him but yesterday was the last time I saw him because he moved to Canada. I already miss him so much and don't know what to do. I can't get over him. I feel so upset, I was crying all night and I just can't get over him. I am so heartbroken!!!!!!!How can I feel better????Plz Help!!! PS I am 14 years old in ninth grade.




Hey babe! 

I know it's really hard, but since it would be impossible to really pursue a relationship with this guy, I think you have to move on. That being said, there are some guys that you'll just always like and wonder what it would be like if you dated them. I think this guy will probably be one of those guys for you. Invite a bunch of friends over, eat Ben and Jerry's, and watch sappy movies. You will be better with time. xoxoxo
Devin A.

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by nycutie786 on 11/25/2011 2:27:27 PM

 
 

No offense, but I honestly just don't understand how some girls could be so niave like that. I mean, seriously. Come on!! How do you even think he likes you? Not to be hateful, but I'm going to assume you are about 15 or 16. So eleven years, he would be...27?!!?? Oh yeah, that IS
crazy. If you are older, like well out of your teens and you marry someone 11 years older, sure go right ahead. But thats downright wrong and quite frankly, just a bit illegal. Just break up with him. Is it that hard to find a guy you age or with a 1-3 year difference?

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by jennifer0709 on 11/25/2011 12:03:49 PM

 
 

to be honest... he is using you. not to be mean or anything.

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by mileyluverxx on 11/25/2011 10:38:00 AM

 
 

My parents are happily married and they are exactly 11 years and 6 days apart. it doesnt seem like such a big deal when you are older because my dad is 48 and my mom is 37

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by tori1016 on 11/25/2011 8:56:44 AM

 
 

um 11 years my sister liked someone 4 years older and i was against it thats insane and to be honest what guy truely likes a girl 11 years younger i find that downright disturbing its nasty!!!!!!! how old are you!!!!! does your mom know???!!! this is insane beyond words!!! good luck with that relationship!

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by sparrowchavez on 11/25/2011 1:05:57 AM

 
 

Omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that dude should be ashamed of him self! does your mother know about this?!! come on 11 years!!!!!??????? my parents would kill me even if i was dating someone 3 years older me! omg girl seriously this guy should know better. most likely he is using you no offense. but this is crazyyyyy.

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by j4zm09 on 11/24/2011 11:39:46 PM

 
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