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Yeah, my crush life is kinda weird too. I kinda like this one guy and sometimes when I talked to this one other boy, I could sometimes even hear him moan. He also opens the door for me after school. He's only in my math and gym class. This stinks because I am really bad at gym and we never get to talk to anyone in math. So I am still trying to figure out if he definitely likes me or not. Because in gym, he was throwing a dodge ball and threw it at his friend but it hit me in the face instead. Also when we had to have groups for gym, I didn't get put on his team and whenever I get out of the locker rooms, he like stares at me. It's kind of creepy. Also when I was laughing with my friend about something, he was laughing with us too. I turned around and he didn't have any of his friends around so it was akward. There is so much more to this story. But the one thing he doesn't do is talk to me or anything. So I am confused. Does anyone think he likes me?
by Gabriella123 on 1/19/2012 10:37:48 PM
I need help i like this guy and we barely see each other he likes me too. The only tIme i can see him is if my dad were at this meeting then we can see each other wat do i do
by hello100zero on 1/13/2012 8:06:56 PM
by mimi_girl12 on 1/5/2012 4:49:30 PM
by lovepurple244 on 1/3/2012 2:28:49 PM
by HorseGirl2998 on 12/29/2011 2:58:02 PM
by LAS625 on 12/29/2011 2:09:05 AM
by jamieelee on 12/27/2011 1:31:50 AM
by Blushing-Beauty on 12/25/2011 5:05:46 PM
by Susmita24 on 12/22/2011 4:51:54 PM
by Randafanna2 on 12/22/2011 4:01:35 PM
by hazelnutapril on 12/22/2011 12:34:23 PM
by NOTMOTAB on 12/22/2011 10:37:23 AM
Girl if you are still with this guy I have nothing to say to you. You are a strong, independent woman and if your boyfriend doesn't see that in you he doesn't deserve you!
by lucascousin on 12/21/2011 6:41:44 PM
for swazyelover2497 i had something pretty similar happen to me im not very good at math and there is a guy in my class who said he would help or tutor me afterschool i kept messing up and getting a lot of wrong answers he was really sweet i started to like i gathered up the courage i told him i like him lets just say i havent been single for over 2 months <3 however you wanna tell him you should it might pay off
by Monkeygirl2011 on 12/20/2011 2:12:16 PM
You should tell someone!!!!
by SavannaBieberxo on 12/20/2011 1:12:55 PM
I think you should make the decision for yourself. If you think he was disrespectful I would find another bf but if you think he was just being caught up in his male hormone thing you should talk to him and see if he plans on being more respectful. I think some guys are pigs but I also think there are nice guys who cant help their urges but that still doesnt make it right.
Maybe he thinks we liked being touched like that and maybe some of us do but you need to make him realize you arent ready for that.
by luckykel on 12/18/2011 12:52:35 AM
by dancer8608 on 12/16/2011 9:16:12 PM
For my school play, I have to dance with this guy. Since I just started high school, I met this guy like 3 weeks ago. He's an amazing dancer and even when I mess up a lot (I'm not exactly a great dancer) he doesn't get mad and hes soo sweet about it. So I like him but i don't know if I should wait a little longer to actually show that I like him bc we kind of just met. And also, when I do how should I show it? Oh by the way, I'm a freshman and hes a sophomore.
by swazyelover2497 on 12/15/2011 6:48:40 PM
by mkroberts96 on 12/15/2011 2:22:50 PM
wow....this guy sounds like a loser..he shouldn't be doing that....i would DEFINITELY slap him next time...
by dReameRfoReveR on 12/15/2011 2:14:40 AM
This guy is just s perv. There's boys like this in by town left and right. Don't go around telling your mommy unless you absolutely feel it's a necessity.
Just deal with him by yourself. Stand up to him and tell him off.
by Malgal22 on 12/14/2011 11:26:27 PM
When a guy touches on me like that and i like it then i don't feel uncomfortable . But if i don't like that guy , then i'd smack the crap outta him .
And trust me , i would ; ha , you should try it .
by babyygirl7 on 12/14/2011 10:48:10 PM
I had a similar situation happen to me be4. There was this guy who liked me and we both went to a day- camp thing for fall break. He kept rubbing my leg and my sides. It was VERY uncomfortable! I finally told an adult and he stopped. It was a little awkward when i told her, but all the teachers were really nice about it Don't be afraid to speak up! Xoxo
by kaylarocks2000 on 12/14/2011 9:40:52 PM
by ilovesaturdays123 on 12/14/2011 8:46:38 PM
by pottergirl135 on 12/14/2011 8:18:31 PM
if a guy did that to me, id smack him silly. no joke.
by athena1006 on 12/14/2011 7:57:09 PM
by Sugarandspice123 on 12/14/2011 7:27:54 PM
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My bff told me that one of my guy friends likes me. He doesn't want to tell me unless I like him back. He's a total sweetheart (very loving and caring) and I love the boy, but I don't think I like him the same way. We've been texting a lot lately and I've been thinking about it (my bff keeps asking me to) and I still don't think I like him like that, but he has a chance (I need time). I've been through a lot and I don't want to get hurt for hundredth time. Am I being protective of myself when I say I don't like him, or do I really not like him? If I don't, how do I tell him without hurting him? Also he's a year and a few months younger than me. Am I convincing myself I don't like him because of this?
Hey girl, it could be either one. Maybe you are confusing your feelings for fear or you may genuinely not like him. You know yourself best, so ask yourself. If it's because you're afraid, who says this guy is going to hurt you? If you never pursue a relationship with him, you'll never know how bad or good it may have turned out. So give it a chance. If you don't like him, then explain that to him as gently and as nicely as possible. Let him know you value your friendship way more than anything romantic with him. Hope this helps!
by zoey_27 on 12/14/2011 7:13:13 PM
MOD MOD MOD this girl in my grade bought me this super super adorable makeup bag for the holidays. she is really nice but we're not exactly friends. should i give her something in return anyways?
Hey girl, yeah I think it would be nice if you got her something. I'm sure she would really appreciate it.
by PuppyCT on 12/14/2011 6:52:29 PM
@Lynae P. - YOU NEVER answer MOD questions! Start working a little harder!
by fungirl123 on 12/14/2011 6:50:06 PM
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So I like a guy and I swear he likes me back. Some people say he 's gonna ask me out, but I'm not allowed to date until I'm in 10th grade and my grade doesn't understand what dating is, they sit with each other every now and then and change themselves. What do I do?
by floridagrl123 on 12/14/2011 6:35:49 PM
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Yesterday I went to watch try outs for our schools musical when my crush grabbed my hand, put his arm around me, and made me try out. He told me he believes in me, he'll hold my hand the whole time, will give me a hug if i do it, and to focus on him the whole time.. All my friends say hes a total D-Bag but He's beyond sweet to me (: A lot of people hate him but I really like him.. He also suposivly has a really big ego and he told me that he wasnt that good. And I guess he's never said that to anyone else. And when my friends asked him how i did cuz he was the only one in the room besides the judges and he said i did amazing. he also like when he sees me in the halls he'll always say sup and do the little nod thing and he asked my best friend if i liked him. Does he like me? and if he does why won't he just ask me out? Thanks (:
by dancerchic_4 on 12/14/2011 6:28:56 PM
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by drosedogg on 12/14/2011 6:25:17 PM
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i accidentally clicked report on a comment but i didn't mean to!!!!
by Dancing Queen 14 on 12/14/2011 5:50:11 PM
Thanks Lynae P. you always seem to know what to say to help Guys can be a bit clueless sometimes...and its impossible to figure them out, thanks again
by pati5dance on 12/14/2011 5:31:22 PM
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ok well one of my best friends hates my boyfriend because he always bugs her. they fight all the time and yesterday she got mad because i always "take my boyfriend's side" and she just started going on and on about what a bad boyfriend he is, and how he's all i ever talk about now, etc. it got really bad....she said that she will never talk to me again because she has better things to do then to talk to me and my stupid boyfriend...that hurt. i'm not forgiving her....i actually don't know why she hates my bf! he's sooo sweet...i think that she is either jealous that i have a bf or she likes him.....what should i do? i just feel lost cause things will never be the same.
by Alykat18 on 12/14/2011 5:04:28 PM
my personal opinion is u shouldn't b dating him if he acts like that
by Princess Keziyah on 12/14/2011 4:25:00 PM
WHAT EVER YOU DO TELL SOMEONE!!!!! cause what if he tried to do this with someone else? or like a younger girl? its not funny. i hope you make the right choice to tell someone.
by j4zm09 on 12/14/2011 4:12:24 PM
Boy problem as per usual -_- I liked this guy n, he liked me back. we kissed one day, but the next day he kissed his best girlfriend who lives an hour away. he was planning to ask me out and had had a fight with her 2 months before. We kinda made up and i played the nice girl card and told him to go for who he likes and who maeks him happy. i wished him luck on his test (the one he had to ace to ask me out) and he texted me after his surgery (that i knew nothing about). We don't talk at all, he looks at me in class but thats it and it makes me sad i really want to talk to him and find out where we stand, but i feel that it should be his move to make not mine. What should i do?? please please please help
Hey girl, I can completely understand you wanting him to ask you about your relationship, but what if he doesn't? Boys don't always think with their heads so I say you take matter into your own hands and make this move. Maybe text him or catch him after class and ask how he's been. Ask if he's seeing anyone and if not, where do you guys stand. See if he wants to start back up again. Hope this helps!
by pati5dance on 12/14/2011 4:04:39 PM
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