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So,theres this girl that I used to be friends with,and now she thinks she's so popular.She'll walk around like no one exists,she'll wear REALY revalling clothes(Short skirts and crop top with no under shirt,we are in 6th grade),and she's turning my other friends against me.I hate the way she acts and treats other people.She is so annoying! I even had to remove myself from the dance was at last night because of her.She recently started a roumor about me having this head-over-heels crush on one of my really close guy friends.It irks me how many people think shes the sweetest thing in the world wile she puts me down.She tells me I'm no good at anything.Is there any way you can help me with this?Thanks.

Hey girl,

Sorry your friend's being unkind -- she probably just wants attention. If she's putting you down, there's no reason to keep spending time with her, so try to do things with other friends and disregard what she says.

Meghan D.

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by BeastArmadillo on 1/21/2012 12:33:23 PM

 
 



MODMODMOD! No other mods have responded so i hope this is different Smile okay so i really like my bgf, which is also the brother of my friend on my cheer squad. he has told two of my friends he likes me, and he knows i like him, but he told my friends he liked me maybe a month ago, and nothing has happened since. i see him a lot at my cheer competitions and i dont really know what to do, especially with my first middle school dance coming up. any ideas? thanks SmileSmileSmile

 

I think you need to talk to him. Try starting up a convo and just get to know him. That will help him notice you and will get the ball rolling. Good luck! xoxo kerra


Kerra S.

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by kenzi143 on 1/15/2012 8:32:16 PM

 
 

Hey Ladies! Do you need advice? I would love to give you some! I will answer any questions, or just talk to you when you are sad. I can give you advice about friends, guys, family, food, sports, school,growing up, or even yourself! I would be absolutely happy to help! I will give you an honest answer ASAP, and hun, nothing is too personal so don't be afraid!Thank you(:

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by gracieb123 on 1/13/2012 10:43:00 PM

 
 

so basically you only think hes cute? you dont know his personality! you should learn some phrases in the languauge he speaks! i bet he'd be really inpressed and thankful he can talk to someone

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by mckey101 on 12/30/2011 7:27:47 PM

 
 

need guy advice? or have good advice to give to other girls? join my new club boys and crushes found under guys/dating thanks!

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by bubblegum270600 on 12/25/2011 12:11:55 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!So i think this guy is really cute and i wanted to get to know him better, he said he liked me too. I just found from a friend that they used to date and he played a lot of games and cheated on her. I wish i could say that i don't want to get to l
know him but i do. how do i get him out of my mind?




Hey girlie,

Well, if you do want to move on and get him out of your mind, you should surround yourself with friends, keep busy with sports/activities, and always stay open to opportunities to meet new potential crushes. But honestly, just because he cheated once doesn't mean he's a bad guy! It doesn't mean he'll act that bad again - maybe he learned his lesson. Personally, I'd probably get to know him a little better but, knowing his reputation, be a little on your guard. But if he respects you, makes you happy, and treats you right...maybe he's grown up a little and will be good to you! It's almost always good to give someone a second chance. But if he turns out to be a game-player, at least you know you did your research and can move on confidently <3
Lauren C.

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by speaknowforver on 12/23/2011 9:53:48 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!
ok well i like this kid in my 2nd and 8th period class but hes really shy so i tried to be nice and so i would say hi to him like once a day when i saw him. he is also really quiet and dosent talk much. i tryed to make small convos but he just gives me one answer then stops talking to me! i dont know what to do and i try to get his attension and idk if he even knows i exist because hes so quiet! also when im around his i get nervous and kinda act not myself like i become kinda hyper. i need help
sry its so long
thanks

 

Hey girl,

 

Some guys are just naturally shy, so it's hard to tell whether it's his personality or whether he's just not interested. Keep trying to strike up a convo, and if he's still not responding, try playing a game or sport with him. Maybe with the distraction, he'll open up!

Meghan D.

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by wowza13579 on 12/21/2011 4:39:49 PM

 
 

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Is it bad that I like him? Should I move on?
So.. I met this girl,Katie that my other friend introduced me to. Shes one of my best friends now. But that's not the point. The point is, she had this boyfriend, Kaden. He is a total player. He even told me that. He says he "plays" girls. "Wraps them around his finger" and more player stuff like that. Then, in tech, he started to say he "loves me" everyday. Then he got a girlfriend, stopped and now we switched electives and we have chorus together. He broke up with his other girlfriend, and he is telling me he loves me again. He always gives me hugs and hugs me for a long time. He is also a perv!!! He looked at me, and a part of my skin was showing through my shirt and told me I looked hot. Then, Katie hates him, but I can feel that they still like each other, but their not dating. I can tell he still likes her, too. I don't no, but I think I sorta like him.. He had TONS of girlfriends before, also. Should I stay away?







Stay away. He doesnt love you. I know its rough to hear but hes saying exactly what he needs to to get you "wrapped around  his finger." Stay far away from this guy. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

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by LoveHappens on 12/20/2011 6:58:38 PM

 
 



MOD y dont my profile show 2 others!?Like i put it in a showing mood thing did someone repost it?! Wat did i eva do?I mean i rote things but me self n thts all no harmness at all!Frown




Hey babe,

Every time you make a change to your profile, it has to be approved by the mods before it becomes visible to everyone. Try to be patient! We get a LOT of profile requests each day and are working through them! 
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by Susmita24 on 12/18/2011 11:52:33 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD
my friend likes this guy, and he talks to her a lot. but the other day she said their convos just end up awkward, like neither of them know what to say. she congratulates him when he does good in a basketball game, but what are some things she can say or ask to have a better, less awkward convo with him? thank you!




Hey girlie,

She kinda has to keep an open mind while she's talking to him. Sometimes, convos do die - and there's nothing we can do about it. But there are usually ways for her to ask a follow-up question, or offer her own opinions/experiences on the subject, or send a link to a video/news story/funny photo to start a new topic. Just remind her to take a deep breath and think of all the ways this could go - then choose one. It's like a "Choose your own adventure" book... YOU decide the next step to take! Smile
Lauren C.

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by pinkguitar98 on 12/18/2011 11:23:15 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!
so there is this guy I really like, and I think he is kinda shy but only around me. Like I went to ask him about singing for something he does and he just was like really fidgety and like nervous looking and of course I was too! Lol but idk if he just doesn't like me at all and is trying to avoid me or if he likes me and is just really nervous around me...'please help! And any advice on how to show him I like him would be greatly appreciated also;) thanks!




Hey girlie,

It might help to chat with him a little online/through text first. That way, he can grow more comfy around you and settle down a little! Who knows why he acted so fidgety - maybe he likes you back, maybe he gets nervous around girls, maybe he was stressing out about something else, maybe he heard you like him and isn't sure of his feelings right now. Whatever it is, break the ice this way first and then try in-person chats later Smile 
Lauren C.

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by chapelgirl on 12/18/2011 1:34:37 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!! please help me! I really like this guy and he is our exchange student. He is Mexican and a total hottie! The only problem is, is that he likes me but won't admit it! At our school dance he talked to me for like and hour and the dances are like three hours only. Please help me. I really like him too but how can i get him to ask me out?
Thanks and Merry Christmas <3




Hey girlie,

You just have to be persistent! Talk to him lots, flirt/compliment/tease/joke with him, text or chat online and, after some time passes, even try to hang out outside of school. Since he's an exchange student, you don't have a really long time to grow closer, but you can still take some time to get to know each other as friends! Once you're more comfy around each other and he has gotten the hint that you're crushing (from flirting with him), getting asked out is much more likely Smile
Lauren C.

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by Sofe1998 on 12/17/2011 11:40:33 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD Okayyyy, so there's this guy I like...but my friends absolutely hate him. No lie. They think he is the worst guy in our grade. So they don't really know I like him. But me and this guy..we don't talk all the time, but he's friends with my bgf and my bgf likes me. I'm debating with this guy from my class, and while we weren't in the classroom, the guy i like says to my bgf 'so, larson, you jealous devon's gettin some tut action?' He knows my bgf likes me. I mean, I know he was joking, but still. And he knew I knew, but he didn't care at all. Of course, I don't know how he meant it..I was hoping you could give me a little insight over his behavior...because he's driving me crazy(: Thanks! Happy holidays!

 

Hey girlfriend, it seems like he was just trying to make the other guy jealous. Or maybe he was throwing it in his face that he's talking to you. He probably likes you too. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

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by raerae815 on 12/17/2011 8:47:06 PM

 
 

Mod! I go to a smaller private school (about 40 people are in my grade). At my future high school the other small private schools meet up. About once a month we have a dance there for 7th and 8th graders. A lot of boys ask girls they don't know. How do I get a good boy to ask me? Thanks

 

Hey girly, make it clear to the guy you want to ask you that you like him. Flirt a little and hold convos with him. If he's feeling you, I'm sure he'll ask you out. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

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by kelaboo on 12/17/2011 8:35:43 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! ok thanks but i was planning on actually not bringing anyting. i was thinking maybe i could wear my hair up in a side ponytail...but um i don't really have any clothes that i don't mind getting dirty. i have a grapic tee, my fuzzy jacket(it will b cold) jeans and my converse i really don't have anything else that i could wear....do u think that could work?

 

Hey girl, yup things like that, jeans and tees. If you have any sweatpants bring them too.

Lynae P.

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by Alykat18 on 12/17/2011 6:34:50 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! OMG PLEASE REPLY OMG!! ok so i am a super girly girl....u know always has perfect hair, wears make up, and only girly outfits. well my BF is a 100% country guy. i love him to death but i am not country at all. and today he invited me to go to his grandmother's house and i said yes. then he told me that he wants me to ride their four-wheeler, go cart, and just go up to the barn and hang out with him......that's sooo not my thing!! i am so scared!! also i have noooo idea what to wear and how to do my hair...i want to look good but idk what to wear cause of all of that country stuff. PLEASE HELP!!! THANKS!!!

 

Hey chica, just wear comfortbale clothes you don't mind getting dirty. Try wearing boots, tennis shoes, long pants and shorts. Bring all your hair products, just in case your strands get a little messy too. Have fun girl! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

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by Alykat18 on 12/17/2011 6:14:21 PM

 
 

MOD MOD! i was with two of my bestfriends the other night, and i was sitting on one couch texting, and they were on the other. all of a sudden, they burst out laughing & looked at me. i was like "what?" and one was like "oh nothing!" eventually the other was like "Well we were talking about when you were gonna get your first kiss. & we guessed sophmore year." they always make fun of me for not kissing a guy/not dating a guy (were in 8th.)just cause they always have a new boyfriend/always kiss someone.doesnt help that the guys that i like always end up hitting on them. i feel like such a loser next to them. any advice? thanks&happpy holidays.(:

 

Hey girl, aww don't feel bad. Instead of rushing and forcing relationships and first kisses like your friends, your first times will actually be special. Because you wait for the right moment and the right guy to date and kiss, it will be more memorable and worthwile. So tell your friends that, I'm sure they won't laugh anymore. Hope this helps!!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

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by friendsrforever on 12/17/2011 5:20:26 PM

 
 

He speaks Spanish?! Wow this might be a hard relationship to make work....uh try learning some spanish! lol

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by maggie183 on 12/17/2011 5:17:24 PM

 
 

Haha, ay caramba means something that shouldn't be posted on here!

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by aislinn120 on 12/17/2011 4:21:35 PM

 
 

This is awesome I love this post!!

Join my club, 'Orchestra Nerds and Band Geeks.' It's a loose and fun club where we talk about anything and everything- But especially music Smile Go to my profile to join!! svds

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by svds on 12/17/2011 4:04:25 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD! Someone reported my profile! I don't have personal info, I don't treat people meanly! Why isn't it visible?

 

Hey missy, mhmm I don't know why it was reported then. No worries, it should be visible soon. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

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by fungirl123 on 12/17/2011 3:49:53 PM

 
 



MOD!
So my crush know I like him and he told me he likes me but its been like 2 weeks and he still hasn't asked me out. What can I do to seal the deal??




Hey girl, try to hint to him about it. Maybe you could write a note? I know it sounds cheesy, but we used to do it all the time when we liked a guy and was too shy to talk to them. 
lauren r.

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by jollymoemoe on 12/17/2011 1:48:50 PM

 
 

My bestie is crushing on a guy who moved from Mexico... he knows a little English, so they can talk. The sad thing is that he likes her but can't go out with her "because she's white." How horrible is that?

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by thecupcakequeen on 12/17/2011 11:26:09 AM

 
 

Hey girls! Join my club Mr. UNOpiggy. You know you want too...

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