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49 Comments | Add Yours
by farmer16 on 5/13/2012 12:08:45 AM
by SkilletLover0810 on 3/7/2012 10:33:54 AM
Y would anyone be okay 2 be a slut!
Good thang Im not lyk tht or
I wouldnt have the BEST BF EVER!!!!
by Susmita24 on 2/17/2012 4:11:06 PM
caroline-No on the sexy pics,
I wouldnt be sending any pics like that to some guy who isnt even your bf. Guys ask for thong and bra pics all the time, and I know a lot of people send them and worse and guys even send us worse.
But if you want him to respect you I wouldnt be sending them just for his pleasure. Who knows what they do with them and who they show. I think its a bad idea. I know people wont all agree with me but that is my opinion.
by luckykel on 2/11/2012 1:06:02 PM
Guys HATE sluty girls trust me most of my friends are guys
just dont be a slut if thats u then ok but if you want guys to like you then dont be a slut!!!!!!!
by Gymnast#1 on 2/10/2012 6:34:03 PM
Ok so one of my best guy friends,i don't have any girls who i am really friends with, he asked for a pic of me in my thong or bra i told him no. So he went and told all his friends. Should i just send a pic so it will clear things over with him? I need help respond please!!!
by caroline;* on 2/10/2012 6:14:45 PM
theres this girl in my grade whos been called a slut and it really bothers her but she also cant help who she is and she deffinetley isnt changing anytime soon so reallly all i have to say is that if ur going to act like that around guys u have to be able to pay the price
by kpecina65 on 2/9/2012 4:10:04 PM
no offense, but u shudnt b "ok" with being a slut
by girlsjustwannahavefun333 on 1/31/2012 5:57:23 PM
I hate how guys can act all horny and be rewarded for being a "man" but if girls dress provocatively or act promiscuous they are labeled sluts. It's a double standard and it's just wrong. And to answer this question, First of all don't think of yourself as a slut. Second of all, If you like a guy, try to channel your attention to him and only him.
by earthyartist on 1/18/2012 8:21:06 PM
My friend thought she was pregnant once...... She wasn't though ......
by favcolorgreen on 1/18/2012 5:21:52 PM
by mkdancer98 on 1/15/2012 2:03:26 AM
Guys can be sluts and no one even cares or says anything negative about them. We act slutty or dress provocatively and its the end of the world. What a weird double standard. Personally I believe its better not to act that way (even guys shouldnt) but we are all different. And I dont think I would want a bf who was spreading his love all over the school.
by luckykel on 1/13/2012 10:12:38 PM
i have a friend who's a slut. i was totally shocked when she told me she wanted to be a playboy bunny or a prostitute when she grows up! she already goes to a counselor, but her problems just get worse. she wears clothes that might not even be QUALIFIED as clothes in summer, and in winter, she wears these gauzy shirts that you can see her bra through. what should i do? if i tell her that she's kinda a slut, im afraid our 7-year friendship will be shattered!
by CupcakeCutie_21 on 1/13/2012 9:11:54 PM
u have extreeeeemly low self esteem if ur ok with being a slut. slut=bad, if you think badly of yourself thats not good. if any of you find urself in this position talk to someone, and they will show u how much you mean to the world.
by smg135 on 1/13/2012 8:21:17 PM
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by tampagirl<3 on 1/12/2012 7:55:36 AM
Hey beaniebag12, yep sounds like he likes ya to me. He probably already knew what the homework was but just wanted to talk to you. Now the question is do you like him?
MOD MOD MOD MOD
Okay so me and this guy are pretty close friends. We text a lot, joke around, but it's kind of awkward (i used to be really shy and weird around him but i'm over that). He texted me today asking for the science homework, but I was sitting right next to him when he wrote it down earlier. Is he just doing this to talk to me and is there a possibility he likes me? Lynae P.
by beaniebag12 on 1/11/2012 7:40:48 PM
Wait!!! Ur OK with being a slut????!!!!! Thats not kool! Theres ONE guy out there for u and u wouldn't like it if he was with all the girls in his school! So u shouldn't be doing the same thing!
by CupcakePanda on 1/11/2012 3:41:46 PM
that is the complete opposite for my school the only girl guys date are sluts!
by tampagirl<3 on 1/10/2012 6:15:07 PM
Whether we are a goody to shoes or are kind of slutty remember there is that one guy for you. We all wonder if someone will like us for who we are and get all concerned if we are normal. We should just be ourselves. If one person doesn't like it, too bad because you need to be who you are.
If you are saving yourself for that one special person stay strong and be confident, if you aren't then at least be smart and take the precautions about what you are doing.
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by briana13 on 1/8/2012 1:13:03 AM
by eco_chica on 1/7/2012 11:25:43 PM
by Babygirlilla on 1/7/2012 9:24:45 PM
by txtingirl on 1/7/2012 8:54:15 PM
Hey emilyb, you have to stop focusing on the history and start paying attention to the present. This guy doesn't sound like he's any good for you, so why keep hanging on to him? He drives you crazy because he knows he can, because you won't ever do anything about it. So cutting him off as a friend will let him see that he can't treat people the wrong way. Hope this helps! Xoxo
by emilyb on 1/7/2012 8:52:11 PM
To all the girls who are like "OMG! They used the word slut! How inappropriate!": Grow up! Also, there are a lot of other words they could use instead of slut. What word would you like them to use?
by loveTC247 on 1/7/2012 8:23:28 PM
You can do what you want but if you want to change your image just be a slut with one guy and not a bunch of them. We are looked at differently than guys, they can sleep around but if we do we are labeled slutty. Thats the way it is so if you want to change, think about being with just one guy you like and not a bunch.
We all have friends like you, and we have heard about the talk shows that have had teens on who are doing things with multiple guys, so if you dont want to be like that then just make that decision. I know its hard, I have a cousin who is kind of like you. She tells me she wants to stop but she cant, I think you can stop if you really want to.
by luckykel on 1/7/2012 7:59:53 PM
It said you made your reputation like that.... Don't be okay with that. Guys shouldn't blow you off... You need to not only change your image but your confidence and how you think of different things. Respect yourself.
by amileofroses on 1/7/2012 7:00:00 PM
@nosynewt The photograph pertains to the subject, so it makes sense. And this is pretty awesome advice.
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by svds on 1/7/2012 6:49:19 PM
I agree with nosynewt. Find a different pic!!!
by DaNcInGQu33N9812 on 1/7/2012 6:47:21 PM
um, hello? OF COURSE it has something to do with it!!!! No guy want's to be seen with a slut. Sorry, gotta face da facts
by DaNcInGQu33N9812 on 1/7/2012 6:42:33 PM
Okay,I need to talk to you,as a friend. There is nothing good about being a slut,or being OK about being one. Honey,guys will now just use you because they know that they can um,play you with no problem. Also,I'm sorry but it's kind of obvious that some guys think of you. I think you shouldn't sell yourself short like that. I'm wishing the best for you,and I'll pray for you also♥
by iluvmusic♥ on 1/7/2012 6:39:23 PM
maybe you could try something different like maybe not girly girl or tom boy but somehting rigght in the middle
by miamac01 on 1/7/2012 5:25:13 PM
Hang in there, girl! I'm sure this ISN'T the kind of reputation you want to have as you go into high-school and beyond, as you want to start getting serious with boys and all they want to go is hook up, so it's never too late for a new beginning! And 2012; year of the dragon is DEFINITELY the year to start(:
I am honestly praying for you.<3
by Malgal22 on 1/7/2012 4:44:33 PM
"when i get older, i want guys to use me!!"
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by jennifer0709 on 1/7/2012 4:19:36 PM
Huh... She calls herself a slut, but doesn't understand why guys think less of her... Also, I feel like the photo is extremely inappropriate for a site called GIRLSlife.com (Hint on GIRLS) I suggest you take this down...
by nosynewt on 1/7/2012 4:16:28 PM
oh and i forgot to warn u that u might catch something from that ;)
by jennifer0709 on 1/7/2012 4:14:31 PM
oh yeah because being a slut is totally cool. *sarcasm*
self respect; u have none
u did this to urself
by jennifer0709 on 1/7/2012 4:13:25 PM
Wow. Why would you be proud of being a slut? Girls these days....
by biffo on 1/7/2012 3:30:38 PM
Hey FigureSkater08, yeah I think he was just nervous too. Not all guys are confident in making the first move and talking to girls. So you'll probably have to start some of the action with this guy girl. Maybe next time you can go up to him. Hope this helps!! Xoxo
MOD MOD! yesterday the friend of the guy I like said the guy I like is having his bday party tonight and we shud ding dong ditch him so I said ok! And then me my two friends my brother and his friends drove to his house and they were outside playin ball so my brother nd his friends went up to them and they started talkin and the guys ended thinking my brother was cool and then me nd my friends walked out there too but the guy I like and his other friend were kinda standing off to the side just watching us and I was wondering y he didnt come over to us and my mom said she thinks it's bc he might have been nervous to come over to us bc my brother was at this school event w his gf and he was nervous to talk to her. Why do u think he might have just stood there and he didn't look mad he was just kinda there but he was like walkin w us but n the backish help pleasee! Thank u! Lynae P.
by FigureSkater08 on 1/7/2012 1:33:31 PM
by crazydreamer16 on 1/7/2012 11:44:56 AM
by katgrace11 on 1/7/2012 10:41:42 AM
by smiley.<3 on 1/7/2012 10:20:18 AM
by abbygirl12 on 1/7/2012 10:14:29 AM
My mom doesn't even let me say the word "slut"! One day people called me that and I came home and cried!
by pinkguitar98 on 1/7/2012 9:50:04 AM
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by matkins8 on 1/7/2012 8:52:45 AM
by elevenbailey on 1/7/2012 8:48:51 AM
by snowver11 on 1/7/2012 8:39:47 AM
Whoa, I thought this site was appropriate, my mom would NOT want me to be reading the word "slut" on a website like this, in fact, I'm not even allowed to SAY the word "slut", wow, just wow
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