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A li'l pee problem

I think I might have a weak bladder. Do I have to go to the doc?
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My mom won't let me wear tampons ( I haven't started yet but I wanted her to buy me some just in case) because I'm still a virgin! I don't understand that because she let my sister start wearing them before she wasn't a virgin anymore! Please tell me how I can convince her.

Hey girl, calmly explain your confusion to your mom and ask for her to clarify her opposition to you using a tampon.  Once a girl has started her period, she's able to use a tampon, whether or not she's a virgin. 

Karin E.

by Minecraftlover2620 on 3/11/2013 5:02:14 AM


So hey I had that question about it sorta hurts when I pee and it would be red when I wipe? Well I just drank cranberry juice and it was gone so yay. But since then, like some things changed. So I can just be standing and being normal, but then all of a sudden I need to pee sooo bad. And I can't hold it in at all! UGH I hate it. I've been having to change my underwear like 3 times a day because sometimes so much pee would leak out. Could I just all of a sudden have a weak bladder? I mean maybe that whole pee thing like changed my bladder?



Hey Girl, I think you should definitely go see a doctor. Sorry I can't help more.

Hannah H. 

Hannah H.

by neonroxursox on 12/18/2012 1:51:21 AM


So starting yesterday I had to go to the bathroom a lot... like I would go and a minute later I had to go again. When I would pee, it was only a little and then it would hurt when I was done going. When I wipe there would be like blood on the toilet paper! Two years ago when I was 10, [I'm 12 now] the same thing happened. But it went away the next day.
So far it's been going on for 2 days. I didn't get my period yet... So I dunno if this could be it. Should I seek a doctor? Is it a bladder infection? Please help!!!


Hey girl! That is a mystifying situation...I would talk to your parents about visiting the doctor to check up on that. Hope you're alright!


Katie L.

by neonroxursox on 11/28/2012 2:40:45 PM


Hi- So, I have some questions. Ah,ok,so I am 12 years old, and I am in 7th grade, but I am small. I have people constantly guessing my age,( I have had guesses all the way to 7) but anyways, I don't know much about my down there, boobs, and all that. I haven't had a "talk" with my mom about any of that. Last April, I started wearing a trainng bra. I had to do scoliousis testing(whole school) and when I told my mom, she said I should prob. start wearing a bra,So, up till last week, I wore a trainning bra. I was going through one of mr dressers when I found some padded bras. I looked at myself and figured, well maybe it was time to wear one.(girls in my clss are, and a couple are going through "it" One girl is my BFF. When they talk about it (basicly) is gym, I feel leaft out, because she will say something to my other friend about her "p", and its like they are talking in "code" she acts like I know nothing about it. One time my bff, after she made a comment to my other...........

by friendship4578 on 11/16/2012 6:30:56 PM


this is really emberassing but i was wondering like why the front part of my uerthra is like turning white >.< the part that you see if ur on the toilet and u open ur flaps ... it is normal to be white? I have been having some discharge lately could that be the cause? pleasee help!


Hey crescentdawolf, since discharge is white or clear, that could be what you're seeing. Just be sure you're washing really good down there and you should be okay. If you begin to notice any irritation I would head to the doctors. Hope this helps! Xoxo 

Lynae P.

by crescentdawolf on 10/22/2012 12:16:27 AM


Mod MOd MOd
Whenever i use the bathroom, there seems to always be this stuff in my underwear, im 12 years old and i dont know if this is normal!?

Hey girl, 

the white stuff in your underwear is just discharge--- completely normal and nothing to worry about!  Here's some more info: 

simone s.

by chandler218 on 8/7/2012 4:03:57 PM


How do i ask my mom to buy me more pads? Thanks :p


hey! Just find a time when you're alone and come straight out and ask. it won't be that bad i promise Smile 

Helen S.

by fantastic8805 on 8/6/2012 6:31:33 PM


hey, my stomach hurts alllll of the time! 24/7! I dont know why. I mea, I've never had sex so I know I'm not preganant. Just please help me.

by bmjluv on 7/29/2012 1:29:36 AM


I'm having trouble with putting in a tampon. I mean I know how to put it in, but like i kinda find my vagina hole is it because I havent had sex yet? & also when I shave my vagina it leaves red dots & they kinda irritate me. is this normal? Write back ASAP PLEASE.

by bmjluv on 7/29/2012 1:27:10 AM


Okay, So my Mom says I can't wear a tampon until I have Sex. Is it true?
Please Help! Thanks. (:

Hey girl,

No, you can wear a tampon while on your period even if you haven't had sex yet. Tampons do not go far enough in your vagina to break your hymen, so you are fine!

Meghan D.

by Avery. (: on 7/13/2012 10:45:53 PM


Lately my butt has had red dots that are raised in between the cheeks they do not itch or anything but i don't know what to do also sometimes my but is like raw inside the cheeks it hurts when i walk or run and it is like moist in between the cheeks also my butt and VG itches and smells weird

by lol9586 on 7/3/2012 10:35:35 PM


how do i join a club? thanks

Hey girl!

Just clink on this link,, and join your favorites. If you don't seen just the one for you, make a new one!

Have a blast! 

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by softballgal72 on 5/9/2012 12:02:55 PM


this is kinda weird but when i sit down on the floor and shift my vagina hurts...... can you reply asap? thanks in advance

Hey girl,

It might just be the way you're sitting, but if it doesn't go away, you should probably talk to a doctor to be sure.

Meghan D.

by YayaYuiki on 4/28/2012 12:12:55 AM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!! okay so I have a few questions about shaving my vagina. I shave regularly down there, but not the whole thing only about halfway... I'm 14 and I have been shaving down there for about six months.
1. Should I tell my mom that I shave my vagina?
2. I don't shave my whole vagina, but is it bad to shave it bald, like just the front not the lips or further behind?
3. Why do I get those red bumbs every time I shave, what direction should I shave in.?

Hey babe,

You're welcome to tell your mom if you want, but you don't have to.  No, it's not bad to shave entirely as long as you don't irritate the skin.  It's best to shave going with the direction of the hair, and the red bumps are likely to be either ingrown hairs or irritation on the skin.

Jordan S.

by Tayincali on 4/9/2012 8:21:48 PM


MOD MOD MOD Hi I need a ton of help. I know this is going to be VERY embarrassing for me to say but lately, my "VJ" is getting really itchy and wet. I have gotten my period for a little over a year. It's not quite regular, but I track it and it says it's supposed to come tomorrow. I have a lot of hair down there too and sometimes I will get little cuts down there. This gets really annoying and I am not sure if I have a yeast infection but I don't know if I should tell my mom... Please help!

Hey chica! Don't worry, not embarrassing at all Smile

I'd tell your mom though, in case you do have a yeast infection or something else. Maybe she can run your symptoms by a doc, just to make sure.

Becca G.

by kyluvsjoe98 on 4/3/2012 12:29:21 AM


Mod Mod Mod I have a promble i got my period in june and i came about ten days late in jaunary on the came on the 2 and it was over by the 6 th and i have the period tracker on my phone and im 18 days late wats going on ??? And im nt pergant i no that

Like many things in nature your period cycle is imperfect. This happens to many girls. Your body just isn't ready yet for some reason or another. If you know for certain that you are not pregnant, then there is nothing to worry about.  
Amanda P.

by Dray7999 on 2/20/2012 3:20:19 PM


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by swearias on 2/10/2012 4:02:51 PM


I don't subscribe to the Mag. so how do I see if my Q was answered?!

Hey girly! stop by a wal-mart and pick up our latest issue to check it out and see if you made it! 
Ana D.

by emvhorses on 2/10/2012 12:30:44 PM


Hey! It's me again!! SORRY! I didn't mean to be confusing. <3 The post was called "Got a down there sitch you're too embarrassed to ask anyone else about?" I haven't seen anythings yet in reply to that post. I sent a few questions as well and I was waiting for you guys to make a post and answer the questions. Do you know when the new post will be?! Thanks so much!! ~Emily <3 Xoxo

Hey Doll,

Down There questions are going to be featured in GL, so e-mail your questions to, and they could be answered in the magazine! 
Rachel N.

by emvhorses on 2/10/2012 9:38:34 AM


Hey! It's me again!! SORRY! I didn't mean to be confusing. <3 Smile The post was called "Got a down there sitch you're too embarrassed to ask anyone else about?" Smile I haven't seen anythings yet in reply to that post. Smile I sent a few questions as well and I was waiting for you guys to make a post and answer the questions. Laughing Do you know when the knew post will be?! Laughing Thanks so much!! ~Emily <3 Xoxo

by emvhorses on 2/9/2012 4:51:15 PM


MOD MOD MOD When are you guys gonna answer the questions we sent in an email listed on the post after this one?


Hey emvhorses, I'm confused. What were the questions and what was the post called? Write me back girl. Xoxo 

Lynae P.

by emvhorses on 2/8/2012 6:08:32 PM


i need a pee when i read these. like i do now it happens all the time it feels like i am going to wee myself sometimes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MOD MOD MOD MOD


Hey girl! If you are drinking a lot of liquids throughout the day, that could explain the problem. Try wearing a pad to prevent any leakage. If you are having major concerns, I'd suggest talking to your doctor about it! 

Colleen K.

by sarahrose on 2/6/2012 1:17:52 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD when this happens to me i just sit back down on the toilet and put a pad on so the pee can go on the pad not my undies is this normal??? it does really work but you do feel wet. once i did a huge wee while wearing a pad then i just carried on walking around and doing normal stuff in my own wee is this normal ? please reply ?xx


Hey girl, wearing a pad is a great idea and it's totally normal! My only suggestion would be to change your pad or panty liner frequently to avoid the growth of bacteria. Otherwise, it's possible that this could lead to infection. Just make sure to change it regularly and you'll be good to go!

Colleen K.

by sarahrose on 1/30/2012 11:51:25 AM


MOd mod mod
I am such a lOser!! I peed my pants in school Friiday! The worst part is that I had PE right after that class, so everyone saw that I had an accident. I'm in 8th grade!! Its so pitiful that I still have these Problems. How am I supposed to go back tO school monday and face my class mates and teachers? Help me please! I'm desperate and I feel like I just want to die! How can I have a normal life if I'm a freak?

Hey girl,

You're not a freak! It's actually a totally normal issue and a lot more people are dealing with it than you think. Personally, I would give my doctor a call and explain the situation to him/her. A professional can help you come up with ideas to control it! As for your friends, it might be hard for a couple days...but chances are, the weekend has made them completely forget or lose interest in the fact that it happened. In middle school and high school, "scandals" like this are quickly replaced by other gossip-worthy things. So even if they are talking about it Monday, they WON'T be for long <3 Hang in there!
Lauren C.

by Lbradshaw35 on 1/29/2012 3:13:25 AM


dont worry sis, its ok it happens to all of us, especially me and my 2 friends Ashley, u no what we do.? we just wear pads like we have r period. well the 2 ashleys do. i dont, i feel so alone, but anyway it caches the pee. it works especially if u have ur period and use pads anyway!

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by katniss4evergreen on 1/23/2012 1:47:49 PM


Mod mOd mod
I have a lil pee prob too. I ALWAYS have to pee. It's kinda like a nervous bladder, except even if I'm waiting for something, sitting in class at school, eating, watching tv, or everyday things like that I hav to go! It's like a serious urge like "potty dancing". Bit when I do go, only a lil bit comes out... If I have my mind on something else, it doesnt create a problem, but as soon as I have free time, my mind drifts off to how bad I gotta go! Idk what to do and it's starting to get really embarrassing. Oh and if I dRInk a bunch of liquids, then I have to go, but it's a different urge, I can feel that my bladder is full and I don't have to dance around to gold it. What is wrong with me?!

Hey babe,

Nothing is wrong with ya! This is totally normal and lots of girls experience this sometimes. It could be a sensation caused by excitement and adrenaline, but either way the exercises in this article can help to strengthen the muscles down there and make the "Gotta go!" sensation seem less urgent. But as the article says, it might help to talk to your doctor about this. You don't have overactive bladder (like actually peeing way too much), but it's still a problem that's getting in the way of living a normal day! <3
Lauren C.

by Lbradshaw35 on 1/22/2012 2:56:16 AM


Im always scared of my basement! how can be unafraid? ps im 12.

Hey girl,

Why not go down there with a flashlight or when the light's on, or with a parent or sibling? If you have light or someone else with you, you'll be able to see what it looks like in the light so it will seem less scary in the dark.

Meghan D.

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by melaniegrace<3 on 1/15/2012 6:06:39 PM


MOD MOD-Please Help
Help, Sometimes when I get around my bf and its not all the time but maybe when I want to feel close if you know what I am saying, it always feels like I have to pee. It just happens and then when I go and try to pee it seems like not much comes out. What is going on? Its getting kind of frustrating.

Hey babe,

This is a total normal body response to being around a guy who is super cute, attractive to you, etc. Nothing to worry about, but it's also not something that's going to stop - so don't get frustrated! Ya gotta get used to it <3
Lauren C.

by luckykel on 1/13/2012 11:03:24 PM


my hands get really sweaty and i dont know why or how to stop it....

Hey girlie,

Luckily, you're not alone with this problem! We've got some articles that can help ya Moral of the story: don't be afraid to talk to your doc about this!

Lauren C.

by natbe99 on 1/12/2012 10:16:03 PM


Is it normal for the blood of your period to smell? My smells kinda strong, but not so strong people notice it.
Also, is it normal for the vagina to smell? I feel like mine smells bad, but my doctor and my mom says it's totally normal.

Hey girlie,

Yep, both are totally normal! Just make sure you bathe regularly to keep yourself feeling fresh and clean. If you need a little "clean boost" in between showers, try getting feminine hygiene wipes and carrying them in your purse. The only time this isn't normal is if any odor comes with an itch. If that happens, get to your doc - it could be a yeast infection and you need to get that taken care of! <3
Lauren C.

by Phoenix In Flight on 1/7/2012 10:51:45 PM


Hey Tayincali, just let her know you feel more comfortable in the thongs. She shouldn't get too mad. Hope this helps!! Xoxo

MOD MOD!!!! so today I went to the mall with my friend, and we both got thongs, so I got 2 thongs and and like 5 regular underwear from pink because they were having a big sale. I told my mom I got underwear but didnt tell her I got thongs, I only got them so I won't have pantylines when I wear my yoga pants, and my mom always saysoh were bigger underwear so you won't have pantylines. But I want to tell her I got thongs!! WHAT SHOULD I SAY???????? thanks in advance Smile Lynae P.

by Tayincali on 1/6/2012 6:37:07 PM


You're fine! I have the same exact thing, don't sweat it! Just don't rush yourself in the bathroom. Stay a little longer than you would normally. Trust me

by meowkitten on 1/4/2012 1:02:05 PM


So I have a question about our holes "down there". So we have one at our butt and then another in the front where we release eggs from (vagina), but do we pee from that same hole? I am assuming that we don't but if we don't, then from where?

Hey girlie,

Totally understand your confusion! (You've got it correct so far.) We pee out of a much smaller hole just above the vagina. It's normal to wonder/explore, so no harm in asking Smile
Lauren C.

by sabrita on 12/29/2011 7:56:12 PM


i play soccer and i had my period one time when i had practice. i wanted to try using a tampon so i went to the bathroom and followed the steps to insert it. it didn't feel right because it felt like it was going to one side. i decided to just take it out but when i tried, i felt like if i pulled it out, i would yank my inner organs along with it. it was so hard taking it out and took me a good 5 minutes until it was finally out and started to cry because it was painful. when i looked down there to see what was up, i noticed that my vagina has two holes! it looked like there was a wall of skin in the middle of it. it is like looking up at your nose. is there something wrong with me? will it go away on its own or do i need surgery or something? i told my mom about it but she just brushed it off.

by on 12/28/2011 4:36:21 PM


I am itchy "down there" and in my butt a little and I'm dizzy. Does this sound like a yeast infection?

Hey Girl,

A yeast infection won't make you dizzy, but it could be the reason your itching! Head to your doc for a test, or pick a home one up at your drugstore (they're made by vagisil).  
Rachel N.

by mimi_girl12 on 12/28/2011 12:45:24 PM


Okay, so just 10 minutes ago when I woke up, I had to go to the bathroom. So I take of my pants and such, and there is white, odorless, clumpy sticky discharge! EW! It was a clump and it was sticky and gross. What was this? I'm 12 and I don't have my period!


Hey girl,

Don't worry, discharge is totally normal! We have a whole post about this, read it here!

Kathryn S.

by LoveHappens on 12/28/2011 12:21:24 PM


Help! I have to go to this HUGE Christmas Feast in 5 Hours! I really don't want to go to it! I also DON'T eat pork and where I'm going, I think they're going to have ALOT of it! I don't like Family/friend Get togethers, they're always so AWKWARD! People always comment about how "TALL" I'm getting, then I get ALL of the attention for the REST of the event! I don't want all eyes on me, and I just DON'T want to go!!!!

Hey girl,

Sorry, but there's no getting out of this - you don't want to go, but you have to. It's a holiday - and holidays are best spent with loved ones! So try to turn around your negative thinking into positives. Instead of thinking, "Ugh I hate pork, I'll have nothing to eat," get excited about the pie desserts, or cranberry sauce, or green bean casserole, etc. Instead of focusing on those awkward "you're growing up so fast!" convos, think of the loved ones you'll get to see who you haven't seen for a long time (grandparents, cousins) - you're lucky to have a big family who want to pay attention to you, even if you don't like it so much. It's because they love you! Try to be thankful for the things you have and use today as a chance to enjoy that. It's only ONE day a year - you can get through this <3
Lauren C.

by Dee_Has_Cookiez on 12/25/2011 10:43:36 AM


Stand up over the toilet and then sit back down It will help the rest of the pee come out. I used to have the same problem.

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by ButterflyGirl18 on 12/23/2011 9:24:42 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! Ok well i keep my pads in this cute little jean pouch i made and i was wondering if i could pre-open my pads (to avoid lots of noise) and just put them in the pouch. Well can i???? Or is that unsantiary?! Thanks for your answer! <3


Hey girl, yeah I don't that will work. It's a little unsanitary and the pads may not stick to your underwear anymore. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by paramoregurl on 12/23/2011 8:54:19 PM


at least u don't smell fishy down there whenever ur on your period! (i have this issue)

by filaluvva on 12/23/2011 5:12:44 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!!! I have prickly heat on my chest. Is this normal and how can I get rid of it? I am alwys really embarassed to wear a swim suit or a lower top in public! Thanks!


Hey girly, I think you should ask your doctor what would be best for you to apply to get rid of it. Everyone's skin is different and you don't want to use something that will make it worse. You can still be fashionable while covering up your chest. You can always throw on a cute scarf, hoodie, or zip up jacket. Hope this helps!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by smiles48 on 12/23/2011 3:17:52 PM


I have a weird pee problem too.... .whenever I am walking home from school I have to go majorly haha it's weird.... Once I see my house, my pee meter realizes it full or something lol

by Girlygirl22werock on 12/23/2011 2:56:28 PM


I guess you get a weak bladder if you hold your pee in for too long, at least that's what my mother told me. This probably does happen to every girl once in a while so there's nothing to be embarrassed by. โ˜บ

by gldiva98 on 12/23/2011 2:09:07 PM


Do you hear that? That is the bullet-like whoosh of the writer(s) missing a pun by failing to name this "A Wee Problem". Sigh.

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by Princess Keziyah on 12/23/2011 12:04:21 PM


Mod Mod Mod I posted something relevant to this a few days ago, but I need some more advice. My mother doesn't like me watching Degrassi because some people have told her its not a good show. I would be devestated if I could never watch it again. It talks about normal teenage struggles, so I don't see a problem watching it. It has also helped me become more confident in myself. She says she has to watch it and approve before she will order me the Season 10 DVD. The only problem is that she won't talk about it to me and she will never watch it because she's too busy. She hasn't had a conversation with me this whole week because she's too busy working. What can I do to get her to listen to me? Should I write her a note or something? Every time I try to talk to her she says she busy. Thank you! Smile


Hey chicky, yeah try writing her a note. Since she's so busy you may just have to force her to watch Degrassi with you. Already have the movie playing in her room when she comes in. That way she won't have any reason to not watch it. Hope this helps!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by Georgie 4 on 12/23/2011 10:08:30 AM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!!! so today my mom and I are going to Victoria secret/ pink and I really want to get some thongs. Because I hate when I have panty lines when I wear my yoga pants and it makes me feel self conscious.. How should I ask my mom??!?!!?!?!?!?!? THANKS!(:

Hey girl! just pick up a pair and cutely ask "what about these??" if she says no, dont fight it or she will just get angry.  
Ana D.

by Tayincali on 12/23/2011 9:10:43 AM


Not trying to be gross, but you probably aren't wiping properly. A weak bladder would mean you go in your pants without even making it to the bathroom. Feel better chica! Smile

by basketballcutie11 on 12/23/2011 7:00:35 AM


That's definitely embarrassing, but she's right-- it happens to everyone. It's always nice to know that GL is here for us, even for the most O-M-G things.

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by Malgal22 on 12/23/2011 1:27:32 AM


ok, my best friend that ive known for 8 yrs still pees her pants when she laughs, i mean, its whenever she starts laughing hardish, she pees her pants. last weekend, my parents brought her on a trip, i made her laugh by doing something stupid, and she peed. same with the time b4 tht and the time b4 tht one too! i know 4 a fact its on accidents, i mean, it upsets her so much that she starts crying cuz it happens at skool(we r in 7th grade), out of skool, with friends, i feel bad cuz last week she had to sit in her pee 4 almost 2 hrs on the ride home. what is causing this? what should she do? any tips on what to do? anything will help! thx.

Hey girl! Some people just have some problems with their bladders and cant control what happens. The best thing to do is just be there for her and not make fun of her. Next time you go on a long trip bring an extra pair of shorts incase she starts laughing again.  
Ana D.

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