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There's this boy in my class and we were talking and I've liked him for a while, he told me he'd date me if I got bigger boobs!! I think boys fantasize too much on appearance then they do with personality (no offense to boys)
by bumtree on 5/20/2013 11:28:56 AM
So, I've been texting this guy who I used to go to school with and we got really close. We never really got to hang out and so he gave up on me. I still have feelings for him? What do I do?!
by delaney.rae on 5/13/2013 7:38:45 PM
by awkobarbies on 5/6/2013 7:23:41 PM
by toribear101 on 4/20/2013 10:06:43 PM
I love guys and are so attracted to them but their brains just work different. I think a lot of guys may even feel peer pressure to say they like a girl only with big boobs, I am no where near big and get a lot of attention, more than I need. so it isnt my chest attracting them. I dont know why they do that. When we say we like a hot guy we kind of do the same thing with their body shape and type but because our chest size is so visible I think society makes it seem important. With guys all we really see in public is their abs and we all like hot abs. But some things are attractive thats why we see so many bra ads and infomercials and all that male enhancement stuff for a guy's down there area.
by fashionqn on 4/19/2013 5:04:00 PM
Trust me girl, you do not want a large chest. I'm 34c/d and it sucks! I feel like a walking sex object and its horrible! Guys look down my shirt when I speak to them and I wear baggy shirts and shapeless and not-so-cute things to draw the attention away, but it's really traumatic. I'm only in eighth grade and its disgusting. And girls like me- it's not your fault! It's the Media's fault for creating this image of women being just beauty objects and it shouldn't be our problem at our age to try and close of our objectification. It makes me so angry! (
by Lolzy8484 on 4/17/2013 1:13:21 PM
by ilove_nerds143 on 4/16/2013 5:33:38 PM
by Reba22:22 on 4/16/2013 3:47:22 PM
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by KenzieC84 on 4/16/2013 7:34:23 AM
by redvelvetluv on 4/15/2013 8:30:26 PM
by Foodiejr99 on 4/15/2013 6:07:37 PM
I'm pretty flat-chested and I've never had a problem with guys. Guys that ogle over girls' boobs are so immature. Not worth it.
by jo_crox on 6/14/2012 11:54:38 PM
i have a really mature body, how do i tell if a guy likes me or my body
If a guy genuinely seems interested in you as a person, and not just like he's trying to get on your good side so he can hook up with you, I think it's safe to say he likes you, not just your body. See if he even cares about a friendship, or if he just doesn't really seem to want to put in any effort, then you know to ditch him. Jordan S.
by mustachio54 on 6/13/2012 6:59:32 PM
by Themissannie24 on 6/11/2012 7:15:26 PM
by luckykel on 5/24/2012 1:40:42 PM
im like 12 and i have really large boobs and i sometimes don't know if that's the only reason guys talk to me how can i tell if they really like me?
by mustachio45 on 4/16/2012 3:15:29 PM
there is this boy i really like like and he looks at my butt and my you no whats and checks us out if we are the right one for him he looks at us and he thinks we are not looking but we are and every boy in my class and the other class they put a April 23 is nashel grab boob day but the good thing is they don't really do it becas of the teachers. by sandra2 1:46 A.M 3/18/12
by sandra 2 on 3/18/2012 2:49:14 AM
Guys stare at my boobs, and im like hi, hello, HELLO?!? My eyes are up here dude. Whatsshould i do? my bgf teases me sayingthat im perfect for my age and that itz not thier fault that my boobs are awsome but i dont know wat to do, becauz im class he stares at them too!!!!!!!! Pleazzzzzzz help me!!!!!!!!! channa r.
by tiger17 on 3/16/2012 1:43:36 AM
meg, I think what you are feeling is natural. Its not only me but I know my friends say things to their bfs through txts that we may not truly mean. Things can easily get out of hand when we flirt and discuss things like that. I wouldnt let him do that unless you are ready, so just let him know you were just being flirty and that he will have to wait.
by luckykel on 2/16/2012 8:28:10 PM
My boy friend and i love each other then he asked if he could feel me up threw text messege and i said yes now it seems all he talks about when we are texting each other is feeling me up and it really bugs meplz help.
by meg9922 on 2/12/2012 12:49:47 PM
boys stare at mine.especially my crush,i had to SNAP my fingers to get his attenion....
by veronicav11 on 2/7/2012 8:32:47 PM
If some guy doesn't like you because you dont have big breasts, than he was never even worth having any feelings for. You really got to look out for those jerks.
by JessiJo77 on 1/31/2012 6:44:03 PM
Hey FootballG2518, mhmm this is a tough sitch. If he doesn't want to date you until you're older, then there's really nothing you can do. Take this time to get to know him so when you two can date you'll be ready. Just be his friend for right now. Hope this helps! Xoxo
HELP! Okay the guy I like love is 4yrs older than me. We hung out and talked slot this summer but we don't talk at all anymore because he think I'll go tell my friends I'm talking to him and wouldn't want anyone to know if we did cause he thinks it will look bad on his rep. He stares at me a lot and told my friend I'm really pretty and that I have a nice butt. He's kinda told me before that I'm pretty. He was thinkin bout doing it will another girl and I flipped and told his friend to tell him I'd think about it if he could wait 2or more years an he said I'll think about it. But he's started talkin to another girl that's more his age. He still does the same things like before he was talkin to her. He says he'd think bout going out with me when I'm older. I don't know what to do HELP please!! Lynae P.
by FootballG2518 on 1/28/2012 5:40:20 PM
Hey GigiWuzAHere, ask your friend if she told or not. I'm sure she would tell you the truth if she did. Since your crushes always find out you like them, it may be best to keep your feelings a secret. If you don't tell anyone they won't have a way of finding out. Hope this helps! Xoxo
On Saturday night I told my best friend, Nicki, that I like her brother , Matthew ( he's her little brother but he's 2 years older than me) and she didn't act they way I thought she would ( thank God!). But on Monday night at Awana, Matthew smiled at me!
Then he played doge ball with the other boys. I'm afraid either she Nicki told ( doubt it), or he found out him self, because even though I don't send of
signs that I like a guy they still find out! ( Had that experience with Matthew's best friend almost 3 years ago!)
So anyone that can help me, PLEASE DO!!! Lynae P.
by GigiWuzAHere on 1/25/2012 5:51:08 PM
You need to move on, hun. He's totally not worth it. I he loved you forever, he wouldn't have broken uo with you. Find a more mature guy... maybe 7th or 8th grade Good luck, tell me how it goes!
by SunnyDelite on 1/20/2012 5:53:53 PM
i love bill and dave...but when he said too much pressure! after talking about the girl a guy ogles..idk if i'm taking this the wrong way or not but like does he mean that it's only pressure if the girl's like super hot? ...there's no pressure for girl's who aren't as pretty? That's kinda how i took it and don't really think thats right:S am i taking it the wrong way?
by lili545 on 1/19/2012 11:12:26 PM
I sure hope not.
Plz join my club: S.O.C.K.S (Socks Often Can Keep Strength) For those girls who need help with themselves and helpin gthem feel as beautiful as they really are
by Sammy14ever on 1/19/2012 6:15:16 PM
PLZZZZ HELP!!!!!! MY BOYFRIEND (LETS CALL HIM ACE)..
WE HAVE BEEN DATING FOR ALMOST 2 MONTHS!!! THEN HE TXTED ME SAYIN " I GOT IN TROUBLE & MY MOM SAID I HAVE 2 BREAK UP WITH YOU" I WAS SO UPSET THEN I FOUNDOUT HE LIED AND IT WASBECAUSE ANOTHER GIRL( CALL HER ANNIE)ASKED HIMOUTHE SAID YES THEN BROKE UPWITHME!!!!! NOW HE KEEPS ASKING ME Y I WONT TALK TO HIMAND I SAW HIM 2 DAY INTHE HALLWAY( HES IN 6TH GRADE & IM IN 7TH) AND HE WAS GOING UPSTAIRS BEHIND ME & HEPOKED MY BACK SO I TURNED AROUND AND JUSTSMILED...IM TORN, HE SAID HE LOVED ME 4EVA BUT I GUESS ANNIE WIPED IT AWAY( ANNIES IN 6TH TOO) PLZZZ HELP NONE OF MY FRIENDS CARE & I FEEL SO ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by alli520 on 1/19/2012 5:07:35 PM
Girls... Yes, some boys are perves... But that's life. But if you like a guy and he only likes you for that, he's certainly NOT good enough for you. I have found a guy who doesn't care about any of those things, and one day I hope you girls will find the same. Good luck, girls <3
Hopes & Hugs,
by SunnyDelite on 1/16/2012 5:38:40 PM
thats the same problem with me but i dont pay any attention 'cuz i put school work first then boys(plus seventh grade is an important year for high school n im in 7th so i dont care)
by cutiepie14231 on 1/15/2012 8:54:51 PM
if a guy likes you (or doesnt like you) be cause of your chest size, Honey that is NOT the kind of guy that you want to go out with. trust me!!
by starry~16 on 1/13/2012 10:13:07 PM
a boy like this is just gonna cause problems later on if he becomes ur bf. plus dont u think it would be better if someone liked you for YOU not just ur chest. i would ignore any dudes like that
by smg135 on 1/13/2012 8:16:44 PM
I have a little larger chest than most girls in my class. And so when one of my friends tell me that my crush was looking into my eyes, another of my friends jokingly says, "Ya sure he wasn't looking at her shirt?" It drives me crazy. :L
by CupcakeCutie_21 on 1/12/2012 10:16:52 PM
My breasts are normal for a girl my age.(11) And I don't want that kind of attention. Unlike some other girls.
by katgrace11 on 1/12/2012 1:47:47 PM
I am one of those girls who isnt blessed in the chest so I dont get the attention that some of my friends get. I know they get it because of their chests and we are fine with that (they are fine with the attention, and I am fine with not getting any because of my chest). And we are fine with it because we know guys cant help themselves. They are so easily controlled.
by luckykel on 1/11/2012 11:11:46 PM
I'm one of those girls who is as they say blest in the chest and trust me it's really awkward to have guys staring at ur chest all the time exspecially when they are your crush's friends and you don't even like them as more than bgfs. Darn iPod wouldnt let me type bgf at first. Why does technology have to so difficult!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by HungerGamesRox99 on 1/11/2012 7:50:46 PM
If that's seriously what they're caring about, they're not worth it.
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by svds on 1/10/2012 8:09:57 PM
don't worry about that. Catch them with your personality instead.
by AyyJayy22 on 1/10/2012 7:40:10 PM
I really, really like this one guy that goes to my church. At our church retreat, we held hands while praising and he put his arm around me, even though we didn't talk. He asked a friend of his about me, and looks at me often. Now that we're back at church, we don't talk to each other because we don't know each other that well. How do I get closer to him and become friends with him without seeming creepy? Thanks!!! (BTW we're FB friends if that's anything)
by <3<3<3 on 1/10/2012 6:44:26 PM
They love them because it's something they don't have. I'm a 38 C so don't think big books get u anywhere lol
by Girlygirl22werock on 1/10/2012 5:56:15 PM
by HorseGirl2998 on 1/10/2012 10:35:27 AM
by charlie__6 on 1/10/2012 3:12:04 AM
Dont think that having big boobs gets you guys. Im a 38DD,
and I've never even been on a date.
by FairyOfLove on 1/10/2012 12:04:17 AM
by mckey101 on 1/9/2012 11:14:08 PM
I think guys are fascinated because its a body part that they dont have. It must be because of their hormones, so they become interested and sometimes obsessed. And not to stick up from them because guys are just weird creatures but it is a part of our body that everyone can see that changes and gets bigger. And its not like we can see their their main manly man part change and get bigger during their puberty because its hidden 'down there'.
Plus advertising spends so much time showing and using our chest to help sell products and tries to makes us feel the bigger our chest is the more attractive we are, which just isnt true.
by luckykel on 1/9/2012 10:00:01 PM
by reesesgal16 on 1/9/2012 9:40:10 PM
by kaylarocks2000 on 1/9/2012 9:33:44 PM
if a guy is so shallow that all he looks for in a girl is how big her boobs are then its sad that girls are falling for guys that think that way. guys can be idiots!
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