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Do guys only care about chest size?

My breasts aren't fully developed. How am I supposed to get a guy's attention?
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There's this boy in my class and we were talking and I've liked him for a while, he told me he'd date me if I got bigger boobs!! I think boys fantasize too much on appearance then they do with personality (no offense to boys)

by bumtree on 5/20/2013 11:28:56 AM


So, I've been texting this guy who I used to go to school with and we got really close. We never really got to hang out and so he gave up on me. I still have feelings for him? What do I do?!

by delaney.rae on 5/13/2013 7:38:45 PM


there's this guy in my grade and he acts like a pervert to me and says my boobs arent developed to EVERYONE (on 13 and a C cup.)its gotten to a point to where i just wanna cry. what do you think i should do about it? oh and talking to him wont help it just makes it worse Frown


Hey girlie, try ignoring him. He's making fun of you to get a reaction. So if you stop giving him any kind of reaction, he'll get bored and move on. 

Lauren T.

by awkobarbies on 5/6/2013 7:23:41 PM


sometimes this guy in my class he'll walk by and just like poke me in the back and pretend it wasn't him. then one time i was at my locker and he walked by and just like shut it then he held my gaze until he went into the class room. does that me hes flirting or like just being weird

Hey girlie,

He might be being flirty or just like playing pranks on you, it's hard to tell just from a poke or shutting your locker! Maybe you could get to know him as friends and see if he acts flirty around you then!

Meghan D.

by toribear101 on 4/20/2013 10:06:43 PM


I love guys and are so attracted to them but their brains just work different. I think a lot of guys may even feel peer pressure to say they like a girl only with big boobs, I am no where near big and get a lot of attention, more than I need. Smile so it isnt my chest attracting them. I dont know why they do that. When we say we like a hot guy we kind of do the same thing with their body shape and type but because our chest size is so visible I think society makes it seem important. With guys all we really see in public is their abs and we all like hot abs. But some things are attractive thats why we see so many bra ads and infomercials and all that male enhancement stuff for a guy's down there area.

by fashionqn on 4/19/2013 5:04:00 PM


Trust me girl, you do not want a large chest. I'm 34c/d and it sucks! I feel like a walking sex object and its horrible! Guys look down my shirt when I speak to them and I wear baggy shirts and shapeless and not-so-cute things to draw the attention away, but it's really traumatic. I'm only in eighth grade and its disgusting. And girls like me- it's not your fault! It's the Media's fault for creating this image of women being just beauty objects and it shouldn't be our problem at our age to try and close of our objectification. It makes me so angry! Frown(

by Lolzy8484 on 4/17/2013 1:13:21 PM


SO there is this dude who started flirting with me the first day we met and of course I flirted back. So now we talk almost everyday and I sorta grew feelings for him BUT he has a girlfriend and now I feel bad for flirting with him because his girlfriend seems nice. How do I cut out the flirting?


 Hey iloverds_143, just keep thinking of his girlfriend. Tell him you can't talk with him (unless it's as a friend) until he's single. If he is a faithful boyfriend he should understand that. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile

Lynae P.

by ilove_nerds143 on 4/16/2013 5:33:38 PM


So this guy zack and I use to like each other a lot, we never dated we just flirted and well the relationship just never worked out. He got a girl friend and for a while he would pretend or play like he liked me and me being a dummy fell for it. When I finally got over him we went our separate ways and never did talk any more. Recently I have started dating his best friend and I can tell something's bothering zack. At times I'll catch him staring at me but its not like a flirty glance more like an upset or disappointed look. Which I don't understand because he was over me! And he played me!! What's the deal?? This the 1st time I've dated someone, so could he now realize what he had but then lost, especially to his best friend who he is not as close to anymore? Sorry it's so long but thanks!!

Hey girl, if you're dating someone else, then why worry about an old crush?  He might feel bummed that he missed his opportunity to ask you out, but you can't be sure.  If you're happy with your current BF, then focus on the present.  Good luck! 

Karin E.

by Reba22:22 on 4/16/2013 3:47:22 PM


I'm not tying to brag but a LOT of guys stare at but I'm so shy and awkward that I usually look the other way but the thing is that the guys who are starring are usually older
like 18 21 maybe sometimes even 30 and 50 year olds I'm 15 but I look older still
30 and 50 year old men should not be starring at me that's so gross
one time at old navy there was this guy working at the cashier
I'll admit he was cute but he was older maybe in
his early twenties it seemed like he was flirting with me he kept
smirking and whispering things what should I do? it's so awkward having old men gawk at you

Hey girl, hold your head high and walk confidently.  If you're directly speaking with someone, look them in the eye which should remind them not to be looking elsewhere.  Do your best to ignore their unwanted stares.  Good luck, chica. 

Karin E.

by redvelvetluv on 4/16/2013 9:50:33 AM


Hey! I know I probably asked this once (I can't remember which article I was on). Well, my boyfriend had apendicitis, and he had surgery on Sunday night/Monday morning. They released him from the hospital last night at 6:00. I was very scared. I cried myself to sleep after his mama told me what was happenning. Well, after we had texted for a little while, I decided that I was going to surprise him with candy, a card, and a baloon. I'm going to give it to him this afternooon. I'm kinda clueless on what to say to his parents. I know I'm going to thank his mom, but what do I say to his sisters and his dad? If it helps, I haven't had the chance to meet his family yet... Sorry it's so long! Thanks for your help!

Hey girl, all you have to do is look them in the eye and say that it's nice to meet them.  A nice handshake and saying "hi, my name is..." would be great too.  All you have to do is be polite and friendly, and they'll love ya.  Good luck! 

Karin E.

by KenzieC84 on 4/16/2013 7:34:23 AM


I'm going to be ordering some makeup online
and two of the things are primers for me and one of my sisters the prob is
the packaging is glass and fragile I would probably give it to my sis when me and my parents go over there
or she would pick it up after work what could I use to protect it like stop it from breaking?



Hey girl! You could probably wrap it in a small blanket or towel to give it some extra padding! It should be fine if it's being mailed to you!


Taeler L.

by redvelvetluv on 4/15/2013 8:30:26 PM


MODMODMODMODplease reply asap
So I really like this guy in my la class, and I want his #. The thing is, i get so nervous that my heart starts racing and I start to sweat and shake and I can barely get the words out! I tries to ask him today but I just could bring myself to it. He's popular, and I make all of these scenarios in my head about him giving me a fake # (tho I know he wouldn't) and then tell all his friends and they'd laugh at me! Please help!


Hey girl! The key is to be brave and go for it. If you're still not feeling up to it soon, just try talking to him more and getting to know him. You might feel more comfortable if you're more used to being around him. Then you can gather some confidence and go for it! 



Taeler L.

by Foodiejr99 on 4/15/2013 6:07:37 PM


I'm pretty flat-chested and I've never had a problem with guys. Guys that ogle over girls' boobs are so immature. Not worth it.

by jo_crox on 6/14/2012 11:54:38 PM


i have a really mature body, how do i tell if a guy likes me or my body

Hey girlie,

If a guy genuinely seems interested in you as a person, and not just like he's trying to get on your good side so he can hook up with you, I think it's safe to say he likes you, not just your body.  See if he even cares about a friendship, or if he just doesn't really seem to want to put in any effort, then you know to ditch him.
Jordan S.

by mustachio54 on 6/13/2012 6:59:32 PM


Mod mod
I have a small chest and I heard that massaging your boobs for 30 mins everyday for 30 days will increase your bra size. Is that true?

Hey!  Sorry to disappoint, but this is untrue
Helen S.

by Themissannie24 on 6/11/2012 7:15:26 PM


My bf seems to be fascinated with them, just as you say but I have caught him looking at other girls and noticed that some of them practically throw their chest in his face. There have been times where I have walked up and caught him starring and the other girl pushing up against him. What can I do to stop this because this makes me feel upset? Just recently I have started to develop so it seems like I am catching up with other girls my age, so do you think he may stop?

Hey Girly,

Yep-guys can be fascinated with girls' chests. That doesn't mean it's okay for other girls to throw theirs' in his face. If this makes you uncomfortable, tell him. Say you're not cool with him ogling other girls right in front of you. But remember, this isn't a reflection of how he feels about you. Just because he notices the body of another girl doesn't mean he wants to date her. 

Marisa D.

by luckykel on 5/24/2012 1:40:42 PM


im like 12 and i have really large boobs and i sometimes don't know if that's the only reason guys talk to me how can i tell if they really like me?

by mustachio45 on 4/16/2012 3:15:29 PM


there is this boy i really like like and he looks at my butt and my you no whats and checks us out if we are the right one for him he looks at us and he thinks we are not looking but we are and every boy in my class and the other class they put a April 23 is nashel grab boob day but the good thing is they don't really do it becas of the teachers. by sandra2 1:46 A.M 3/18/12

by sandra 2 on 3/18/2012 2:49:14 AM


Guys stare at my boobs, and im like hi, hello, HELLO?!? My eyes are up here dude. Whatsshould i do? my bgf teases me sayingthat im perfect for my age and that itz not thier fault that my boobs are awsome but i dont know wat to do, becauz im class he stares at them too!!!!!!!! Pleazzzzzzz help me!!!!!!!!! channa r.

by tiger17 on 3/16/2012 1:43:36 AM


meg, I think what you are feeling is natural. Its not only me but I know my friends say things to their bfs through txts that we may not truly mean. Things can easily get out of hand when we flirt and discuss things like that. I wouldnt let him do that unless you are ready, so just let him know you were just being flirty and that he will have to wait.

by luckykel on 2/16/2012 8:28:10 PM


My boy friend and i love each other then he asked if he could feel me up threw text messege and i said yes now it seems all he talks about when we are texting each other is feeling me up and it really bugs meplz help.

by meg9922 on 2/12/2012 12:49:47 PM


boys stare at mine.especially my crush,i had to SNAP my fingers to get his attenion....

by veronicav11 on 2/7/2012 8:32:47 PM


If some guy doesn't like you because you dont have big breasts, than he was never even worth having any feelings for. You really got to look out for those jerks.

by JessiJo77 on 1/31/2012 6:44:03 PM


Hey FootballG2518, mhmm this is a tough sitch. If he doesn't want to date you until you're older, then there's really nothing you can do. Take this time to get to know him so when you two can date you'll be ready. Just be his friend for right now. Hope this helps! Xoxo

HELP! Okay the guy I like love is 4yrs older than me. We hung out and talked slot this summer but we don't talk at all anymore because he think I'll go tell my friends I'm talking to him and wouldn't want anyone to know if we did cause he thinks it will look bad on his rep. He stares at me a lot and told my friend I'm really pretty and that I have a nice butt. He's kinda told me before that I'm pretty. He was thinkin bout doing it will another girl and I flipped and told his friend to tell him I'd think about it if he could wait 2or more years an he said I'll think about it. But he's started talkin to another girl that's more his age. He still does the same things like before he was talkin to her. He says he'd think bout going out with me when I'm older. I don't know what to do HELP please!! Lynae P.

by FootballG2518 on 1/28/2012 5:40:20 PM


Hey GigiWuzAHere, ask your friend if she told or not. I'm sure she would tell you the truth if she did. Since your crushes always find out you like them, it may be best to keep your feelings a secret. If you don't tell anyone they won't have a way of finding out. Hope this helps! Xoxo

On Saturday night I told my best friend, Nicki, that I like her brother , Matthew ( he's her little brother but he's 2 years older than me) and she didn't act they way I thought she would ( thank God!). But on Monday night at Awana, Matthew smiled at me!
Then he played doge ball with the other boys. I'm afraid either she Nicki told ( doubt it), or he found out him self, because even though I don't send of
signs that I like a guy they still find out! ( Had that experience with Matthew's best friend almost 3 years ago!)
So anyone that can help me, PLEASE DO!!! Lynae P.

by GigiWuzAHere on 1/25/2012 5:51:08 PM


Dear alli,

You need to move on, hun. He's totally not worth it. I he loved you forever, he wouldn't have broken uo with you. Find a more mature guy... maybe 7th or 8th grade Smile Good luck, tell me how it goes!

--Kayla <3

by SunnyDelite on 1/20/2012 5:53:53 PM


i love bill and dave...but when he said too much pressure! after talking about the girl a guy ogles..idk if i'm taking this the wrong way or not but like does he mean that it's only pressure if the girl's like super hot? ...there's no pressure for girl's who aren't as pretty? That's kinda how i took it and don't really think thats right:S am i taking it the wrong way?

by lili545 on 1/19/2012 11:12:26 PM


I sure hope not.
Plz join my club: S.O.C.K.S (Socks Often Can Keep Strength) For those girls who need help with themselves and helpin gthem feel as beautiful as they really are

by Sammy14ever on 1/19/2012 6:15:16 PM



by alli520 on 1/19/2012 5:07:35 PM


Girls... Yes, some boys are perves... But that's life. But if you like a guy and he only likes you for that, he's certainly NOT good enough for you. I have found a guy who doesn't care about any of those things, and one day I hope you girls will find the same. Good luck, girls <3

Hopes & Hugs,

by SunnyDelite on 1/16/2012 5:38:40 PM


thats the same problem with me but i dont pay any attention 'cuz i put school work first then boys(plus seventh grade is an important year for high school n im in 7th so i dont care)

by cutiepie14231 on 1/15/2012 8:54:51 PM


if a guy likes you (or doesnt like you) be cause of your chest size, Honey that is NOT the kind of guy that you want to go out with. trust me!!

by starry~16 on 1/13/2012 10:13:07 PM


a boy like this is just gonna cause problems later on if he becomes ur bf. plus dont u think it would be better if someone liked you for YOU not just ur chest. i would ignore any dudes like that

by smg135 on 1/13/2012 8:16:44 PM


I have a little larger chest than most girls in my class. And so when one of my friends tell me that my crush was looking into my eyes, another of my friends jokingly says, "Ya sure he wasn't looking at her shirt?" It drives me crazy. :L

by CupcakeCutie_21 on 1/12/2012 10:16:52 PM


My breasts are normal for a girl my age.(11) And I don't want that kind of attention. Unlike some other girls.

by katgrace11 on 1/12/2012 1:47:47 PM


I am one of those girls who isnt blessed in the chest so I dont get the attention that some of my friends get. I know they get it because of their chests and we are fine with that (they are fine with the attention, and I am fine with not getting any because of my chest). And we are fine with it because we know guys cant help themselves. They are so easily controlled.

by luckykel on 1/11/2012 11:11:46 PM


I'm one of those girls who is as they say blest in the chest and trust me it's really awkward to have guys staring at ur chest all the time exspecially when they are your crush's friends and you don't even like them as more than bgfs. Darn iPod wouldnt let me type bgf at first. Why does technology have to so difficult!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by HungerGamesRox99 on 1/11/2012 7:50:46 PM


If that's seriously what they're caring about, they're not worth it.

Join my club, 'Orchestra Nerds and Band Geeks.' It's a loose and fun club where we talk about anything and everything- But especially music Smile Go to my profile to join!! svds

by svds on 1/10/2012 8:09:57 PM


don't worry about that. Catch them with your personality instead.

by AyyJayy22 on 1/10/2012 7:40:10 PM


I really, really like this one guy that goes to my church. At our church retreat, we held hands while praising and he put his arm around me, even though we didn't talk. He asked a friend of his about me, and looks at me often. Now that we're back at church, we don't talk to each other because we don't know each other that well. How do I get closer to him and become friends with him without seeming creepy? Thanks!!! (BTW we're FB friends if that's anything)

by <3<3<3 on 1/10/2012 6:44:26 PM


They love them because it's something they don't have. I'm a 38 C so don't think big books get u anywhere lol

by Girlygirl22werock on 1/10/2012 5:56:15 PM


Please answers quickly!
1.) Okay so we have a winter formal dance at our school and its just a slow dance. this guy has a crush on me and i like him. one problem, we have never even been introduced to eachother. Wierd right? anyways my friend is gonna try and get his # for me but how should i introduce myself to him? and once i get to know him how should i get him to ask me out or to the dance?
2.) My bgf might ask me to the dance to cuz he likes me but i dont like him as anymore than a friend. How do i let him down easy?
Thanks in advance xoxo


Hey girly,


For the first problem, see if you both have a friend in common. Then, that friend can introduce you to each other. If you don't have one, just bite the bullet and wait for a moment when you're alone and just strike up a conversation. For the second problem, just be nice to him and let him know how you feel if he asks you.

Catie C.

by HorseGirl2998 on 1/10/2012 10:35:27 AM


MODMODMOD! IM 12 yrs old and the girls at my school all have bigger breasts than mine.its really embarrassing cuz my brothers thinks its so funny that they pretend to cough so they can say "flat chested" to me. I dont want to have REALLY BIG breasts but i just dont want to be flat chested my whole life. Sometimes i think about stuffing but whenever i run, you can see the white paper coming out of my shirt. please help1


Hey girly,


Don't worry. You still have plenty of time to get bigger breasts. Just be patient and they will come sooner than you think.

Catie C.

by charlie__6 on 1/10/2012 3:12:04 AM


Dont think that having big boobs gets you guys. Im a 38DD,
and I've never even been on a date.

by FairyOfLove on 1/10/2012 12:04:17 AM


MOD MOD MOD i have multiple questions Smile 1.) i like this guy whos a year younger then me.. will people think im desperate cuz hes younger? 2.) how do i ask him out without things being awkward? 3.)how can i get closer to him? he rides my bus but thats it... by the time i get to the bus all my friends are already on and so is he, i sit 2 seats behind him and sometimes move seats to be closer but i dont talk to him much! i wanna get in the friend zone before i dare asking him out!




Hey chickadee! If you like this guy and he likes you... and he's a good guy... then it doesn't matter what other people think! They're not the ones who will be dating him... you are. A year isn't a big difference at all, so I wouldn't worry too much about that. If you like him, then go for it! As for talking to him, do you know of anything that he likes? Like a particular sports team, or a band? If so, you could use that as an icebreaker to start a convo with him on the bus. Or, does he play a sport? You could compliment him on his most recent performance. Smile


Becca G.

by mckey101 on 1/9/2012 11:14:08 PM


I think guys are fascinated because its a body part that they dont have. It must be because of their hormones, so they become interested and sometimes obsessed. And not to stick up from them because guys are just weird creatures but it is a part of our body that everyone can see that changes and gets bigger. And its not like we can see their their main manly man part change and get bigger during their puberty because its hidden 'down there'. Smile

Plus advertising spends so much time showing and using our chest to help sell products and tries to makes us feel the bigger our chest is the more attractive we are, which just isnt true.

by luckykel on 1/9/2012 10:00:01 PM


MODMODMOD!!!!!!!! I have a few awkward chest questions. I'm pretty small up there (I'm 13). But still, if I'm not wearing a thick enough bra, i kind of.. well, show. I currently wear a 32 A (I think it's an AA) I don't know if my breasts totally fill up all of the bra in some places, but I need that much coverage. Should I try a smaller bra size? Also, is it normal for one breast to be a little bit larger than the other? Thanks so much in advance (Sorry for the awkward q's!!!!!!)


Hey chica! Don't worry... not awkward at all! It sounds like you should probably go for a professional bra fitting. Lots of department stores do them... JCPenney, Macy's, Victoria's Secret. They can help you find the perfect bra for you so that you feel comfy and confident! And, it's totally normal to have one breast bigger than the other. Everyone is unique!


Becca G.

by reesesgal16 on 1/9/2012 9:40:10 PM


Mod- I messed up- big time. I accidently found this flirting website and started talking to this guy. I even went so far that i gave him my #. We were talking innappropriately and my mom read our texts. I told her everything that is going on. I miss texting him already!It's taking everything me not to text him. We found him on fb and it looks like he says who he is . Me and my mom got closer but I feel horrible for doing all what I did! Everytime i think about it i start crying. I did the worst thing i could do- let him be my happyness. I am scared to go to school because i think i'll break down. What do i do? My mom explained all what she thought about it, and one of the rules is not to talk to him. I'm heart broken!!! I've never felt like this, what do i do????? It's killing me not texting him. HELP PLEASE! Thank u so much! Smile


Hey chica! I know you feel terrible right now, but trust me, it'll get better! Sometimes it takes another crush to help you get over someone. I promise you, someone better will come along and you'll forget about this guy down the road. It doesn't feel like it now, but it'll happen. I've been there. In the mean time, keep busy with friends and school work, and anything else that you have going on. Your mom is just looking out for your safety. There are a lot of crazies out there who post fake pictures online in an effort to lure in young girls. It's totally possible that this guy is a normal, nice guy. But, I don't want to risk you getting hurt.


Becca G.

by kaylarocks2000 on 1/9/2012 9:33:44 PM


if a guy is so shallow that all he looks for in a girl is how big her boobs are then its sad that girls are falling for guys that think that way. guys can be idiots!

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