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by hawii12328 on 10/22/2012 6:46:38 PM
I want a boy that likes me but no one does. All my BFFs have boyfriends. And I told alot of boys that I like them but they dont like me back.
by ldwatkins1 on 9/10/2012 9:13:10 PM
Plans to get a BF
Make sure u do a different hair style.
want to have sex
by Selassie on 7/28/2012 10:15:43 PM
1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS
by jessann on 2/20/2012 10:35:28 AM
by swazyelover2497 on 2/17/2012 8:57:29 PM
i am dating and he is my first boyfiend...He told me that we were going to kiss tomorro...how are you supposed to kiss? I dont know
by kellbell94301 on 2/9/2012 3:02:26 PM
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by Queenbook on 2/1/2012 7:23:59 PM
Hey littlemissawesomeness, talk to him and drop some hints that you want to go with him. You could by asking if he's going and if he has a date. You could then tell him you'd like to go but don't have anyone to go with. He should get the clue and ask you. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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i have a BIG crush on this guy. i have two classes with him. i know that he likes me but i know that he just likes me a little. he also likes my friend alot, but she has a boyfriend. there is a valentines day dance and i want him to go with me. what should i do? thanks! Lynae P.
by littlemissawesomness on 2/1/2012 6:36:48 PM
by otter727 on 1/29/2012 8:25:35 AM
by swazyelover2497 on 1/28/2012 12:13:15 AM
by coccinelle4 on 1/26/2012 1:12:03 PM
Hey fedorachick189, no I don't think it's too early to hold hands. He's your boyfriend so why not. And maybe if you show more signs of affection, e will. Hope this helps! Xoxo
hey, so my "boyfriend" and I havn't quite declared our "thing" as an official relationship yet, but we've talked about PDA (lmao)and spending more time with each other instead of being awkward about everything...he's kinda nervous around me sometimes, so he's not too good at showing affection; do you think it would be a bit too pushy at this point if I tried to hold his hand? We're 14, still newbies at this, lol neither of us have been in a relationship or kissed before Lynae P.
by fedorachick189 on 1/25/2012 7:35:56 PM
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by hermione&ron on 1/25/2012 7:31:40 PM
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by ButterflyGirl18 on 1/21/2012 10:20:26 PM
by Pugglegirl1008 on 1/21/2012 9:49:05 PM
by Pugglegirl1008 on 1/21/2012 9:40:25 PM
I luv Valentine's Day......but I lost my valentine a long time ago....the pain is too much, I might not celebrate Valentine's Day this year...... :'(
by clem10 on 1/21/2012 9:02:03 PM
Hey coldplay12, no there isn't a specific weight. You're perfectly fine girl. Xoxo
MOD MOD MOD! hey, how much should you weigh when you get your period because i am only 93 pounds and i already got my period. So, is there a specific weight or not?
<3 Lynae P.
by coldplay12 on 1/21/2012 8:36:46 PM
Hey Lindsey Frinzy, since your friend won't talk to you confront the boy who who told her you called her names. Get him to tell her the truth, and hopefully she'll talk to you again. If not girl, it may be time to get your mom involved and to make some new friends. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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So I'm in 7th grade and recently my beastie from last year has not been herself. everyone sees her as the queen bee, and she's been acting like one too. She searches for attention and pushes people down to get what she wants. This has made me really sad, and I told her she wasn't the same and I ask her if everything was going ok. She told me no because I wasn't the same either. She told me she didn't like the names I called her. Then I said I didn't call her any names, I would never do that. Turns out a boy that really likes her said that to her. So now she told everyone I needed space. Aka, ignore her. So the whole school is ignoring me, giving me the silent treatment. I come home crying everyday, and sick to my stomach everyday, sometimes I have to throwup. My momwants to get the printable involved because its bullying. But I don't cause she'll mention the names I never called her then who's in trouble. What should I do? Lynae P.
by LindseyFrinzy on 1/21/2012 8:22:09 PM
-_-' I've been taking medicine for my ADHD since I was 5 years old. It helps but only fir hyperactivity. I still talk constentally and still feel insecure. T-T Nothing seems to work.
by Smartpaws on 1/21/2012 8:19:02 PM
Hey smart paws, have you ever considered taking medicine for your ADHD? It would probably help you become less insecure and nervous. It would help in giving you the confidence to talk to people. Hope this helps! Xoxo
Well I don't think THIS would help me cause i probably will NEVER go on a date. | Why? I have ADHD and very insecure. I don't like making eye contact with a person I don't know too well or even be able to walk up to a guy and chat even. Talking constantly is part of ADHD too which tourments me as well. What's odd is is that I can stand in front of my class mates in theater and perform a monolog but can't talk to people. I also get nervous when people look at me. DX Wha! Please help. Lynae P.
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by *MusicGirl16* on 1/21/2012 7:56:12 PM
lol i know this is off topic but in the photo for this article I have the exact same jacket that girl has xD
by agentcheese on 1/21/2012 7:52:06 PM
Hey ecolife, you have to do what's right for you not anyone else. So if you want to go out with this guy, do it. You are your own person free to make your own decisions. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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hey, ok so this guy started texting me and in the begining i thought that i would never like him .. but after i got to know him he was really sweet and cool. but the problem is that he has a not so good reputation with girls, he has been known for dumping girls then quickly getting a new one. and all the girls at my school think he is like bad for dumping all these girls .. but he told me that im different && that he wants to change. he told me all about his family and how he really likes me .. and i really like him back. so today i was texting him he asked me out , and i said yes but if i tell my friends im afraid that they will freak out on me .. i need help FAST , please! Lynae P.
by ecolife on 1/21/2012 7:48:18 PM
Hey Alley-oop, talk about anything girl. Movies, music, tv, videotapes, school, friends, etc. Talk to him about the same things you do with your friends. After all a boyfriend is your friend. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a couple of weeks now, and whenever we are alone I don't know what to talk to him about. Do you have any good topics?
thnx Lynae P.
by Alley-oop on 1/21/2012 7:42:59 PM
Hey sarah4eva, yeah I think so. Have you made it clear to him that you're still interested? Maybe he hasnt made a move because he doesn't know how you feel. S flirt a little and chat with him at the next party. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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ok so i like this guy in the grade above me. A week ago we both went to a party and we talked most of the night and were partners in waterpong. When it was time to leave he walked me home and we hooked up (kissing).(: But then the next night we hung out again and nothing happened. We havent really talked since, and he doesnt seem like a big texter. Do you think that theres a shot of it happening again? or should i just move on? thankss Lynae P.
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by krazykotabug on 1/21/2012 6:58:16 PM
Hey yorkielover88, mod is short for moderators. Moderators are girls like me who help you chicas with any questions or concerns you might have. So let me know if you need help! Xoxo
this isn't like super I NEED ANSWERS PRONTO type of mod but what does "mod" mean?? Lynae P.
by yorkielover88 on 1/21/2012 6:56:06 PM
Hey jennntheswimmer, bringing up the fact that you have a boyfriend will let him know. Whatever you guys are talking about you can say "yeah my boyfriend really likes that too" that way he'll know you guys are just friends. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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My boyfriend goes to a different school than me, so a lot of people at my school that i dont know super well dont know im dating someone. Sometimes random guys flirt with me but i just ignore it, and they usually get the clue that im not interested.
Anyways, me and the guy i sit next to in biology started talking, since we have to work together on projects and stuff. Its always been obvious that he likes me, but now that we are becoming friends i think he is getting the wrong idea and thinks that im interested.
How can i gently let him know that i just want to be friends and that i have a boyfriend without embarrassing him or making him think that i led him on?
Thanks!! Lynae P.
by jennntheswimmer on 1/21/2012 6:44:42 PM
Hey LizZy11, you just have to force yourself to stop crushing on him. He's defintely off limits since he's your friends bf. Once you stop focusing on him so much, you might find a guy for yourself. Hope this helps! Xoxo
My crush is really cute but he also happens to be one of my best friends boyfriend. I've liked him for a really long time and have tried to get over him, but I can't. What do I do? Lynae P.
by LiZzY1171 on 1/21/2012 6:14:03 PM
Hey baileybluu, of course a gf can get her bf something for valentines day. Think about what he would like. Is he a chocolate type of person? Does he like stuffed animals? Make a list of things he'd like, and once you've narrowed it down select what you think he'll like best. Hope this helps! Xoxo
Hey, so guys know flowers, teddy bear, whatever. but is a girlfriend supposed to get her bf for valentines day? my bf said well when i get you something for valentines day.. but idk what to get him!thanks Lynae P.
by baileybluu on 1/21/2012 5:52:32 PM
Hey SuperrGirliie, when they tease you about liking him act like it doesn't bother you. They probably only make fun of you for liking him because they know it embarrasses you, so the more you act like you don't care they'll stop. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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i used to like this guy a lot but because me and my friends and his friends always hung out and so one of my friends started liking him. and once she likes someone, they start liking her back and they end up dating. but he is still my best guy friend that i just like as a friend and i hang out with him and his friends sometimes at festivals when my friends run off somewhere. we used to text a lot until something happened so here goes...
i oh like this guy as a good friend because we are truly very close almost like me and my friends. but since i text him "that much" they say that they don't believe me saying that i don't like him. they say my name in class and say "DON'T DENY IT, YOU DO!", they tell me at lunch and recess, and just all the time. i feel like i can't trust them that much anymore because of this too. them saying all this stuff is also the reason why i stopped texting him. what can i do so they believe me that i truly don't like him? thanks (: Lynae P.
by SuperrGirliie on 1/21/2012 4:55:03 PM
Hey caseysister2001, since he just broke up with his girlfriend I would give him some time to get over her. Once it seems like hes ready to move on, then ask him. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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I just moved halfway across the country. I got an email from my BGF and crush (same person) that his GF just broke up with him. His old GF used to be one of my BFFs. I've been dreaming since 1st grade about him. Should I ask him out via email or just let him go? As I said, I've wanted to be his GF since 1st grade. Thanks. :S Lynae P.
by caseysister2001 on 1/21/2012 4:53:32 PM
Hey stary20008, try talking to A more. When you have convos with him flirt a little. Joke around, compliment him, and ask questions about his interests. Whenever you're talking to B make an effort to join A in on the conversation. Try to sit next to him too. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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So there's this dude I like (let's call him ) and I'm always mistaken for liking his friend (let's call him (B)). Is there anyway that I could make it seem like I like , not (B)? I'm won't ask out or anything like that. But when we are all sitting there having a conversation I don't want to think I like (B). Because I've had someone say that before and it was just AWKWARD. I talk to (B) a LOT more than I talk to so I have issues balancing out the fact that I like , not his friend (B). Any help would be great, thanks. Lynae P.
by stary20008 on 1/21/2012 4:43:35 PM
Hey mckey10, I don't think this guy likes you girl. If he did he would respond to your texts, call you and not be so mean. I think you can do so much better than this guy. He doesn't know what he's missing out on. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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this guys mean to me but he always laughs in a friendly way when i jokingly call him a bully or something. He always laughs at my jokes and i catch him looking at me a lot but he didnt save my number in his phone and doesnt answer when i text him... do you think he likes me? Thanks!
-mckayla Lynae P.
by mckey101 on 1/21/2012 4:23:51 PM
Hey PuppyCT, I think it's better to have a crush on a guy from your school because you actually have a chance at dating them. Celebrities are always traveling and have hundreds of girls chasing after them. Hope this helps! Xoxo
MOD MOD MOD is it safer to have a crush on a celebrity or a guy from school? i've been weighing pros and cons but i suddenly get caught up on one or the other. which one is better, celebrity crushes, or crushing on guys from school? Lynae P.
by PuppyCT on 1/21/2012 4:10:20 PM
Hey Mary_16, I think you should give this guy a chance. Anyone can change, and it sounds like he has. Instead of dating him, just get to know him since you can't have a boyfriend right now. Become his friend and get close to him so when you are old enough to be in a relationship, you'll be ready. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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I just found out that this guy likes me... a lot. My BFF told me. She also told me that he his too embarrassed to ask me out. So, he told her to do it for him. I like him too, but I found out earlier this year that he did some bad things and now I heard that he quit doing them. I said yes to him, but I'm not sure I did the right thing.
On the other hand, My parents don't allow me to have a boyfriend. I think that that is CRAZY!!!! I'm almost thirteen(I'm going to turn thirteen in May) and I can't have a boyfriend. Do you think I should reject the uy and do what my parents think I should do, or just go out with the guy behind my parents back.
PLEASE help me!!! I'm really confused on which decision I should make. Thanks!!! Lynae P.
by mary_16 on 1/21/2012 3:32:24 PM
Hey Varchang, well first you need to look at the awkward moments or things in your relationship. What are those? I'll be glad to help you with them. Write me back. Xoxo
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I really like this guy but he's a Freshman and I'm in 8th grade. But we are only 3 months apart age wise. Anyways, I had a bf and we texted like all day and saw each other but I broke it off cuz it just got way too awkward. Now I feel like I'm doing the same thing with this new guy! I dont want to ruin another relationship and make it all awkward. What should I do? Thanks! <3 Lynae P.
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by soccerlover99 on 1/21/2012 3:18:54 PM
Hey liddywitty, for conversation starters bring up things you talk to your other friends about. Movies, music, tv, video games, school, embarrassing moments anything. Ask him about things he's interested in, his goals and other things about his personal life. As long as you approach him calmly and simply ask him to the dance he'll know you want to go just as friends. You could try saying " Hey are you going to the dance with anyone?" or "Wanna go to the dance with me? I really want to go but I don't have anyone to take yet." Hope this helps! Xoxo
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Hey! so i was thinking of asking this guy to sadies, we are sorta friends but not that close and i just wanted to go as friends, what is a creative way to ask him, and to make sure he knows that i just want to go as friends and also how can i make it not awk and stuff like some good convo starters! thanks so much!!!!! Lynae P.
by liddywitty on 1/21/2012 3:06:30 PM
Hey singergirl56, I hink you should ask him what's up. The next time you two text ask him why he won't message you for weeks. Maybe he's used to talking to girls like this, so just let him know you're not okay with it. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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Ok I have a dilemma
I like this guy named Nolan. He will txt me and we will talk for a while then he won't text me for a week and won't answer my texts. All my friends say he likes me, but why won't he answer me? I don't know what to do?? Thanks in advance!!! Lynae P.
by singergirl56 on 1/21/2012 3:04:13 PM
Hey gym brat, yep sounds like he likes you to me. Why else would he have asked you out? And you know someone's really crushing on you when other people mention it to you. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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so the other day i was on facebook and and one my guy friends asked me if i wanted to go to the movies with him and a couple other friends. so i said yes. then one of my friends messaged me and told me she thought he likes me but she wasnt sure. she said he always looks at me we we are together or when im far away. does he like me?? idk if we are going to the movies though cuz of my parents.. Lynae P.
by gymbrat on 1/21/2012 2:21:52 PM
Hey wxyz22, I've actually never heard of babysitting classes. Search google to see if there are offered near your city. Hope this helps! Xoxo
do you know where I could take babysitting classes? Lynae P.
by wxyz22 on 1/21/2012 2:18:30 PM
Hey natbe19, check out the links below to read articles on flirting. Hopefully these will help you and your friend out girl! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/06/07/Is-there-a-way-to-flirt-without-being-obvious.aspx?cp=all
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i have 2 questions
1. so my friend has no idea how to flirt and hte guy she likes doesnt have a gf anymore so she really needs help cuz a lot of other girls like him too,
and 2.i have the same problem as her(different guy) and i want to talk to him more but i have no idea what to talk about!please help Lynae P.
by natbe99 on 1/21/2012 2:14:30 PM
ok so theres this boy that i like and he likes me back he gave a note to one of his friends to give to me but he dropped it so i picked it up my friend was there with me so we both read it. After school i texted him asking who the note was for he said it was for me. But now he wont ask me out again what should i do?
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I wish me and my BF weren't so shy when it came to this stuff. Sigh. Whatever!
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by *a_good_life* on 1/21/2012 9:33:11 AM
I love vday but i got no one to share it with.
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by rolapa on 1/21/2012 7:40:28 AM
I Love Valentine's Day!!!! But if u r like me and don't have a boyfriend.....not so much!!!
by singergirl56 on 1/21/2012 7:38:08 AM
This is great, GL! 🌺 I just hope I can find a guy in time. I never really seem to have much luck with boys these days.
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