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Hey! Okay, so I'm a competitive dancer, and nationals are coming up really soon. I'm really nervous cuz I haven't been able to get any lessons to prepare. All the practicing I've been able to do is on my own! I'm really worried, cuz I've been looking forward to this and it's super important to me. Any advice? Thx-a-million! Xox<3

Hey girly! The best you can do is practice as often as possible. The more confident you are, the better you'll do. And, before the competition, make sure to get enough rest. You don't want to be tired up there performing. I'm sure you'll do great! If you believe in yourself, then the judges will, too. Good luck, and let me know how it goes! Smile

Becca G.

by Vjazzy08 on 6/17/2012 10:30:04 PM


My stepdad is driving me crazy!!!
He's all about me wanting to be a prefect Christian girl. I want to have a boyfriend, drive, and go to public school but he says I can't do that unless I join his tai kwon do class cuz he thinks every boy in the world is terrible. My mom is less strict about this stuff but I don't know what to do.
HELP ME!!!!!!


hey! try talking with your mom about how you feel maybe you can all sit down and come to a compromise on these things. If not, you have to accept his rules, or you'll be miserable. Trust me, you'll find ways to get through it if you can stay positive and never stop being you! 

Helen S.

by AMCfangirl on 5/4/2012 2:28:52 PM


Ok this may sound crazy but I'm real nervous cause my crush just asked me out. I've never been asked out by anyone and I actually didn't just wait for him to come up to me and talk. I've never had this happen and feel really scared and nervous but I have no clue why. Should I be nervous, how can I overcome this, and why might I be nervous?

by Smartpaws on 2/23/2012 10:14:15 AM


Ok this may sound crazy but I'm real nervous cause my crush just asked me out. I've never been asked out by anyone and I actually didn't just wait for him to come up to me and talk. I've never had this happen and feel really scared and nervous but I have no clue why. Should I be nervous, how can I overcome this, and why might I be nervous?

Hey Girl,

This doesn't sound crazy at all! I think it's totally normal to be nervous about a first date! I don't think you can overcome it though, but just think about it as excitement and not nervousness. This is going to be great, I'm sure you guys will have a great time! Have fun Smile

alicia m. alicia m.

by smartpaws on 2/23/2012 3:09:12 AM


mod mod mod
ok so yesterday i was hanging around with my bff(which now shes my ex bff),my crush n his we were all talking n my ex bff said to him ''who would u date me or her'' n he said ''u(ex bff)cuz she(me)is flat chested.'' so then i got mad and i found out what he thinks bout me and now i dont know what to do...HELP!!!!!

I think you are over reacting. Did your friend ask that question in order to see if he liked you or because she likes him. You should find out the truth.  
Amanda P.

by cutiepie14231 on 2/15/2012 2:46:00 PM


Hey! ok i like this guy in my grade. he is suppppppper cute! he's nice, kind, smart, funny, everything you want in a guy! i think he likes me! he is always looking at me! how do I get him to like me? i need help im running out of time! i only have 4 days until v-day!


Hey dancersport1999, try talking to him girl. Flirt a little and ask for his number. Ask if he has a Valentine and tell him you don't have one. Maybe he'll get the hint and ask you to be his. Hope this helps! Xoxo  

Lynae P.

by dancersport1999 on 2/10/2012 5:30:30 PM


Is it bad if a guy thinks you're older than you really are?

by Seensuper on 2/7/2012 4:57:47 PM


So there's this guy i know, he's really fun to talk to...and i really want his number. It's not like i like him or anything like that.... well... i fell for him ONCE. But anyways, how can i get his number without letting him think that i'm a stalker - or even worse... make him think that i like him? Do you know any ways? Please help! Thanks Smile

Hey girlie,

Do you have any mutual friends? Try to get them to plan a "hang out" where you can spend time with him, chat for a while, and get to know him even better. Then towards the end of the night, you could pull out your phone while you're in the middle of the good convo. Say something like, "Ok, you have to put your number in my phone. I might have to text you if I need music recommendations!" (Or something related to what you had been talking about in the convo - sports, movies, books, computers, whatever.) It's a casual and friendly way to snag his number - he won't suspect a thing Smile 
Lauren C.

by PurplePearlVoice on 2/3/2012 10:11:33 PM


thanx so much

by just another prob on 2/3/2012 1:42:56 PM


PLZ help me so there is this guy iv liked since 3ed and he knows and know that im in 8th i want to at least get to know him better. How can i ask or give him my number without it being weird or awkward he is like my best guy friend he trusts me help!

Hey girl,

If he knows you like him, how has he acted about that? Does he seem ok with it? Into it? Weirded out by it? Try to hang out with him outside of school so you can grow even closer as friends. If he's your BGF, getting his number (or giving him yours) should be no problem! Just snag his phone and say something like, "How do we not have each other's numbers by now? Crazy!" Then put yours in his phone. Try to be light-hearted and chill about the situation... he'll pick up on that and be the same Smile 
Lauren C.

by just another prob on 2/2/2012 7:49:33 PM


Okay so theres this guy who goes to my school and is in the strings ensemble at school with me. He notices me for sure we have no choice after all he is my fellow violist. But then today when I told him to go get his music one of the cellists commented that I had some sort of power over him and he also hid me from some younger kids who were chasing me. So....does he like me or not????????????????????????????????

Hey girlie,

It sounds like there's definitely a connection there! He could totally have a crush on you Smile Since we can't tell for sure though without him actually saying so, try talking to him more, asking him questions about himself, sharing things about you, and talking about things OTHER than strings. Get to know him better and see where things go!! 
Lauren C.

by CopperRose on 2/2/2012 5:43:42 PM


I'm a junior in high school and if never had a boyfriend. I'm not desperate just ready ya now? It feels like all I pass the hallway is couples. I'm not weird or anything I have friends who are "popular" and friends who aren't. Idk what it is! I guess a lot of its bad luck lots of times when I spot a guy he has a girlfriend or gets one soon after. I'm not that picky. I really want one I've been waiting since sixth grade and sick of it! It's getting hard to watch romantic movies because I want that so bad!! It's not like I don't talk to guys I do a lot. Maybe I'm not sending out the right signals or I'm too busy with volleyball but I just want a boyfriend and don't know what else to domiv tried everything! What do I do?

Hey girl! Not having a boyfriend is nothing to worry about and it does not make you weird. If you feel like you need one than open up a bit. Consider boys who you are already friends with, the best relationships start with friendship so look around and reconsider some of your friends. Hang out with different groups of people and make yourself open to possibilities. If nothing comes up dont worry, some guy will come along and you will know that it was worth waiting.  
Ana D.

by Hottqtpi on 2/2/2012 4:43:16 PM


Hey brimarie, it's important that no matter who he likes you guys don't let this come in between your friendship. You don't want a guy to break up your great friendship. Try talking to him. Ask about his interests and classes and see if you can get a feel for his feelings for you. Sometimes you can kinda tell if a guy is into you by talking to them. See if your friend likes him and if she would be okay with you guys dating. Hope this helps! Xoxo

ok so theres this guy who is insanely popular and really really cute. im not popular at all(and trust me i dont care) but im not really pretty because of my glasses. so anyway, this guy and i used to sit next to each other in english but then we changed classes and i have nothing with him now. we talked a little bit but pretty much about our english assignments and stuff. so my friends and i habg out in the library during study hall and so does his friends. my bff was telling me that he kept staring at us the other day. and at lunch his table is right across from us and they we all catch them staring sometimes. my bff doesnt have the same lunch period as me though. but he told her in another class that she looked pretty one day. how do i know if hes into me or her. and if hes into me what should i do?? sorry this is so long!! Lynae P.

by brimarie on 2/1/2012 6:01:26 PM


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1. breakups
2. dating
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5. basically anything! doesn't even have to be about guys Smile

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by snoopgirl on 1/28/2012 11:42:03 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!
okay so I really need some advice here plz help thx!
I have liked this guy for a year and a half I know his mom and his dad really well but that is kinda my prob ....his mom is my teacher (i liked him b4 him mom was my teacher)my bff and him r in the same class and she said he told her that he liked me help?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?

Hey girlie,

Ouch. Well, if he likes her, it's kinda hard to get in the middle...remember, you can't force a guy to like you. But you can still try to get to know him better as friends, grow closer to him, and see where things go from there! Try talking to him online or getting your BFF to arrange a group outing with him and his friends. Ask him for homework help or about a hobby of his (a sport, a band, etc.). It's all about taking a deep breath and reaching out to him so you become friends! <3
Lauren C.

by rmkel082 on 1/28/2012 10:22:59 PM


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by *MusicGirl16* on 1/28/2012 9:59:45 PM


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by cutiecayley333 on 1/28/2012 9:44:02 PM


I have had more discharge lately,more pubic hair,I just today got a new bra size,and I noticed some pit hair. And I know I'm getting my period soon,but I'm going to the beach soon also. I really need a rough estiment for when it's coming. Thanks!!!!

Hey girlie,

Sorry - I wish we could give you a better idea, but even your doctor can't estimate when you'll get it. You're progressing through puberty naturally and it could happen at any time - but we can't tell you when. Could be next month, could be in two years. Try to read about it so you know what to expect, be prepared with a supply of pads, and relax. You can't do anything to make it happen sooner so just try to enjoy life and accept that it will come when your bod is ready!
Lauren C.

by iluvmusic♥ on 1/28/2012 9:25:33 PM


Hey pinkguitar8, I wouldn't make a move while he was still in a relationship, because if he really liked you, he'd break up with her. So wait and see what he does girl. Hope this helps! Xoxo

in July i broke up with my boyfriend because i wanted to be single. we had dated for 3 months. i didnt talk to him for months after that, but the other week he texted me and wanted me to tell my brother something. now he texts me everyday and i went to his wrestling matches today and yesterday. he even got hurt pretty bad and i was there for him. the problem is he has a gf. a mutual friend of ours says he likes me and im pretty sure the friend told my ex i like him. at the wrestling thing yesterday the mutual friend was messing with my key necklace and said it was the key to my crush's heart and he held it over to my crush and my crush smiled at me. our mutual friend says my crush likes me, but i saw on my crush's phone his background is of his gf. ive been told though him and his gf hardly ever talk and they never hangout. me and him used to hang out every friday. what do you think i should do of all this? thanks! Lynae P.

by pinkguitar98 on 1/28/2012 8:13:00 PM


am i the only one who finds that joining a sport or activity just to find a guy a little obsessive?

by paxetcaritas101 on 1/28/2012 6:54:57 PM


Hey chicken2, you guys could go bowling, to an arcade, have movie night at your house or go skating. Hope these helps! xoxo

i am perfect for my bf. we totally like each other, and we are about to go on our first real date!! but i don't know where to go or what to do!! we are both crazy, funny, nice, talk all the time, and have sooooooooo much in common!! i spend every five seconds thinking about him. really. but my date ideas are really really stupid. help!!!!! thanks! Laughing Lynae P.

by chicken2 on 1/28/2012 6:44:50 PM


Hey clubgirlygirl, sometimes guys don't realize when we're mad at them, so you might have to say something. Ask him what's up between you two and why you haven't dated yet. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Please respond ASAP! So I have this guy friend, and I've liked him for about 4 years now. We've almost dated a few times, but for some reason, nothing happened. He always had feelings for this other girl, who he dates on and off. Well it's kinda ruined our friendship. I still really like him. So I told him this awhile ago and we started texting a lot more and he was always flirting and being super sweet. Then I asked him who he thinks likes him in our grade, and he brought up me, and another girl. He told me he likes this other girl now, so I'm super mad and I haven't texted him since. It's been like 20 days and he hasn't texted me asking what's wrong or anything, and I want HIM to be the one to text me first. What can I do and what SHOULD i do? Please help! Lynae P.

by club_girly_girl on 1/28/2012 6:37:43 PM


Hey arg5890, maybe make a joke out of your BFF never introducing you two. You could say "hi, i'm (your name), I had to introduce myself since (bff's name) was never going to. Shes so rude." It's an easy way to break the ice. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Hi mod, There's this guy who I think is gorgeous, but I've never talked to him. He used to hang out with my bff and she would mention hanging out with me, somehow he knew who i was and told he he thought I was cute. My bff is kinda flaky so when I tell her the next time we're near each other to introduce us, but she's always a little distracted and doesn't. How can I casually introduce myself, without being too obvious? Lynae P.

by arg5890 on 1/28/2012 6:13:25 PM


Hey abbygirl12, you coud hint to him that you want to be his valentine. You could ask him if he had any plans for valentines day, and then tell him that you don't and that you're still looking for a valentine. Hopefully he'll get the message and ask you. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Mod Mod
Sorry but another question. If i like this guy, and he likes me. Is there anything that i can do, so he'll ask me to be his valentine? Lynae P.

by abbygirl12 on 1/28/2012 5:05:44 PM


Hey aeh16, I think you should move on girl. You asked him if he wanted to talk and he said no, so I don't think he's interested. But he isn't the only guy in the world. There are so many cuties who would jump at the opportunity to talk to you. So ditch him and find someone else. You defintely deserve better chica! Xoxo

Ok so over the summer I went to a camp. I met this really cute guy there. We talk every once in a while but it's always by text. Yesterday I called him and it went straight to voice mail. Then I texted him and asked him if I could call him and he said he didn't want to talk. I haven't done anything and I don't know what his deal is! Also, he lives 3 hours away so I don't even know if I should like him anymore. What should i do?!? Lynae P.

by aeh16 on 1/28/2012 4:43:55 PM


Hey LuvYaBunches, get your girls together and head to the movies, mall, bowling alley, skating rink and arcade. You will find at least one cutie at one of these places. Hope this helps! Xoxo

I have a similar problem to this...
I go to a private school and theres only 65 people in my grade so only like 30 guys. theres no one new! Also there isnt a community center anywhere where i live...and my church is so small theres only one guy kinda my age and hes obnoxious and mean (one time he literally just said to me: Your not pretty, ya know). so idk where to meet new guys...thanks mod! Lynae P.

by LuvYaBunches on 1/28/2012 4:28:05 PM


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by Fly1213 on 1/28/2012 4:27:50 PM


I want a Boyfriend soooo BAD! I am LITERALLY the only girl in my school who hasn't had one, And I'm only 13 younger people than me have had them! It's just cuz I'm all Fat and Ugly Lol.
Hey Girls! Join my club, WRITING, My Love <3. This club is for those girls who have a deep passion for the art of Writing. <3

by krazykotabug on 1/28/2012 3:50:39 PM


I'm in the class planning our school's Sadie Hawkins dance. Every girls is asking a guy because it's good advertisement for the dance. There's this guy P who likes me and is a complete nerd and knows my parents yada yada. My mom was fine with me asking him but i don't want to. SO i asked my crush E instead. IDK how to tell my mom! I told her i might ask E and she was all like 'well maybe' but i went ahead and did it anyway. how do i tell her? and she's going to tell my dad who will FLIP OUT (i'm not allowed to date but i'm allowed to have guy friends) and I'm only going with E as a friend. I'm so nervous to tell my parents. ANy tips?


Hey girl, well honestly the dance is for YOU so it should be your choice on who to invite. I would just break it to your parents gently. Politely explain to them how you wanted to ask your friend because you're really excited for the dance and want to become closer friends to this guy. Make sure you explain that in your life you'll only have a few dances and you want to make them best out of them, but you appreciate her thought of suggesting "E." I'm sure your mom will remember when she had her school dances and will completely understand. 

lauren r.

by ivorykey96 on 1/28/2012 3:25:05 PM


Okay so this is kid of a stupid question but I'm a freshman in high and I've never hung out with a guy by myself and tonight my crush wants to hang out and I'm not sure how to ask my mom. ideas? thanks!


Hey girl! Well when i was in HS i always remember my parents being really nervous about me hanging out with a guy (Mostly because I was their only child). I would just tell your parents straight up he's just a friend and you guys are going to just watch some TV or play games, or where you're hanging out, if you're going out somewhere. Hopefully they say yes! Good luck =]  

lauren r.

by tennis1997 on 1/28/2012 2:51:04 PM


Hey, thanks in advance for the helpSmile How can I catch this guy's attention? Potentially strike up a conversation? He's a sophmore and I'm a freshman so I only see him in the halls, and we havnt talked (yet). Please understand that it's hard to just walk up to an upperclassman and be all "hey! You're really awesome! Lets get to know each other!" Thanks again!


Hey girl, I completely understand! I was in the same situation when I was in HS. Try something as subtle as smiling when you pass by. It's harder because you guys aren't in a similar situation like a class or after school activity. Maybe you could find him on Facebook? See if he'll add you. Then maybe you can strike up a convo that way. It seems a little much but I've definitely done in the past to try and talk to someone. haha Glad for technology! Good luck girl! Go for it!

lauren r.

by 2sprinkles2 on 1/28/2012 2:16:38 PM


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by Princess Keziyah on 1/28/2012 12:18:48 PM


Hi, ok so I'm home schooled so I don't really get out much and I'm not in any activities yet. Is there any other way I can meet new people? Smile

Hey girl,

Plenty of people are homeschooled, so see if there's a group in your area where homeschooled kids can hang out together! Some cities have organized groups that send homeschool kids on field trips and other cool stuff. You can also play a sport at your local community center, or introduce yourself to some of your neighbors.

Meghan D.

by Princess Keziyah on 1/28/2012 12:18:16 PM


i have a HUGE crush on this guy at school. he usually says hi to me in the halls, but i don't see him very much. we're both in drama, but i'm crew and he's cast so we won't really be traveling in the same circle. i start health on monday, and he has a class across the hall that period so i'll see him after that class most days. that's cool, b/c it gives me more opportunities to talk to him, but i still have a problem: i have NO idea what to say to him! i'm pretty shy around anyone other than my friends and i really don't know him that well. help!

Hey girl,

Check out this post on 100 Cute Things to Say and Do Around Guys for tons of awesome ideas!

Meghan D.

by the_last_ninja on 1/28/2012 12:03:13 PM


MODMODMOD-so, there are these two guys at school that I kinda like. One is very popular, sort of a player type. We text sometimes, and he said we should go on a date sometime but hasn't texted me since then (wednesday). The other guy is kinda quiet, a little bit out there. He always texts me back, but has no idea that I like him. Plus, one of our mutual friends thinks he likes this new girl who just started going to our school this week because he was being friendly to her, I'm just not sure if he really does. I think I might like the second guy it ok to go for him since the first guy seems to be ignoring me? What should I do?

Hey girl,

If the second guy is interested, go for it! You and the first guy never made definite plans -- "sometime" could be a year away, so don't let it hold you back from having fun with someone else!

Meghan D.

by MadameAwesome on 1/28/2012 11:41:42 AM


(it's really long)
I really like this guy from my church. I go to a different school then everyone else. He's really quiet and athletic, like me. I was at our confirmation lock in and we were on a team where we had to run around and find random things. It was snowing/raining outside I was running full speed to get inside, he was close behind me and said 'oh my gosh' because i was fast. Well when he got there his body slid on the ground and I felt bad because he fell. Do you think he would still like me because I beat him and he fell? How can I get his phone number if that's really the only talking we did?

Hey girl,

I'm sure he's not worried about the fall -- it was all in good fun, after all! If you think it's too soon to get his number, why not add him on Facebook or talk more in person first?

Meghan D.

by quest6c on 1/28/2012 11:06:08 AM


cool thanks! I'm not that athletic, but I love sports. I'm a huge acting geek though, so I guess I'll do the drama club thing and hope for super cute drama club guys!

by MusicIsLove123 on 1/28/2012 10:10:32 AM


Mod mod
Theres this guy i like.. But i dont have a phone i can text him. But i can facebook message him.. But i feel like i send to many messages to him.. Like once a day i send him a message and if he responds we keep talking. I see him in school but since hes in the grade above me i only see him in the hallway, and he just gives me a hug, theres really no conversation.
What Should i do to talk to him more but try not to annoy him?

Hey girl,

If he's responding to your messages, great! But if not, try sending them less often and talking to him more in person instead.

Meghan D.

by abbygirl12 on 1/28/2012 9:31:26 AM


i absolutetly died when i read the second paragraph.I am not athletic at all.

by snowver11 on 1/28/2012 8:36:00 AM

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