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I don't know what to do! My BFF has been really mean to me and I don't want to b BFFS anymore because she is that mean. But I cant stop crying Cry

Hey girlie,

Aw, you'll get through this! If you don't want to be her BFF anymore, that's ok. It's your personal choice! Try to distance yourself by hanging out with your other friends more often, being less available if she texts and wants to make plans, etc. Say hi in the halls to keep things friendly enough (so she doesn't start a conflict), but pulling away will gradually help you both move on. You should also try joining a new club or organization around town (youth group, volunteer group, etc.) - that way, you can meet more people who share your interests so you don't feel lonely! Smile
Lauren C.

by kittypryde676 on 4/19/2012 4:39:49 PM


So to day one of my friends told me that they over heard my BFF and my other close friend say "let's hurry before she gets it of her class room" "she is already out of class" "lets pretend we dont see her" and they were talking about me! I left a note in my BFF's locker. I haven't talked to her I'm avoiding her and I think she is avoiding me too. What should I do?

Hey Chica,

Being betrayed by your BFF is always hurtful! You have to talk to her to find out what's going on. If she's mean to you, then you should stay away and find other friends but definitely give it a try and talk to her first! Good luck!
alicia m.

by Stephanie11110 on 4/18/2012 9:57:02 PM


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I just got back from my 8th grade DC trip, and the end was really awkward. There is this one guy (who I DO NOT like like) who is like my brother. We;ve known each other forever, tease each other, but care at the end of the day. So anyways, we found out he likes my best friend and he started flirting with her. She's not doing anything about it; I think she may actually like it! My other friend and I think that she may be desperate for attention because she broke up with her boyfriend a couple months ago. I don't want to make her mad, but it is so awkward!

Hey girly! Unfortunately the last thing that you should do is interfere with their relationship. She may just be doing it for the attention or she may really like him, you dont know which though so let it be. Even though it is hard and awkward they have to make their own mistakes.  
Ana D.

by Doodle600 on 4/13/2012 1:28:38 PM


I have a huge problem with one of my BFFs. My BFF is having drama with another guy, and she's been really depressed about the rumors that other people have spread about their relationship. Naturally, my other BFF and I have been trying to help, trying to straighten things out for her, trying to make her happy. However, today, the guy said that my BFF told him that she didn't want me and my other BFF to get involved in the relationship because we would try to make choices for her! We never did such a thing, and we both found it incredibly insulting that she couldn't count on us. And if she didn't want us involved, she still talked about all the drama in front of our faces, making it hard not to intervene. When we talked to her about it, she just said okay, she won't talk about it in front of us anymore. But based on the info I've heard from her, I am still extremely concerned.

Hey girl! It sounds like your BFF is just super stressed out. If she is talking to you about it, dont get offended because she just needs someone to vent to and since your are her friends, you are kind of the place to go. Even though it is hard not to get involved, she does need to make her own decisions and just let her know that you are there to help incase she changes her mind. Be there for her and let her  talk to you, but dont get too involved.  
Ana D.

by Emilicious on 4/13/2012 1:26:40 AM


One of my best friends is having a bday party in a few weeks, and im invited... Last year another one of my so-called "best friends" turned out to be bullying me, and now we never speak. She (the bully) hates my guts. My best friends who's having the party, said that she's also inviting my enemy and asked if i was fine with it... I am, but i think the bully will start a major cat fight if she finds out im going too... I really want to go to the party, cuz i love my best friend, but i dont know if i should go or not because of the bully. HELP!!!

Hey girlie,

I think you should go to the party and just distance yourself from her.  Show her that she can't and won't bother you that night, and if she tries to, just ignore her.
Jordan S.

by ostar21 on 4/9/2012 7:59:25 PM


So I have this group of friends that told me that I have changed a lot this year, but none of them can really tell me how. All that they are telling me is that I am hanging out with the guys a lot more and that I am not the same as I used to be. They told me that I am not keeping my "priorities straight" when it comes to my guy friends and girl friends. My best friend is the one who is the most irritated with me and I don't know what I am supposed to do. I absolutely hate being in the middle of drama and this has been going on for a while. I have tried to talk to her and after we talk she says we are fine and then doesn't talk to me. I know that people grow apart and everything, but I just don't feel excepted by her and my other friends anymore because they think that I have changed and no one knows why. If you could help me by giving me some advice that would be amazing. Thank you so much!

by smile8) on 3/28/2012 8:09:39 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! Ok SO Now That Its Officially Summer Where I Am Right Now It like Getting high Of 26 so its really hot!!! SO I Was Wearing My Shorts but now Girls are saying ohh Their So Slutty and saying that my butts showing meanwhile the store manager even checked that it didn't! And Now One Of Them Lets Call Her Kiss She Is The Rudest Of Them All She Is Saying Oh Well Who cares i'd look better in the Slutty short shorts cause i have the butt to do it .. Thats what she is telling me at school And im so annoyed by it! I Didn't tell my teacher but i asked her If My Shorts were short and she said they were FINE ... Im Really Upset.. Can u Give me advice Please?


Hey girl!  Just ignore her.  Wear those shorts with confidence, because as long as you feel great in them, that's all that matters!


Channa R.

by mozilla10 on 3/22/2012 6:56:43 AM


My issue was, Before i moved to CT from Florida,my friend promised i would have special place in her heart. they we were video chatting, and she was with a new Bff

by AnniexGirl on 3/9/2012 6:03:54 PM


one of my friends today was looking at my old bus pass and she was like "you were fat back then, not fat but a little chubbers, you were a little porker weren't you?" and i cried and i want to confront her about, and I also want to know how to get over it. thanks.


Hey girl, well you're a confident beautiful girl! Just laugh it off when someone says that. Make a joke back, like "those were the good 'ol days." If they continue, just completely ignore them and walk away. If you confront her, tell her how it made you feel. That it really wasn't cool she said that and you didn't appreciate it. 

lauren r.

by Gigilove321 on 3/7/2012 7:16:10 PM


Ok, so my birhtday is coming up, and i was just chatting with my best friend, and she said she can't come to my party because she is supposedly hanging out with her "boyfriend" even though i can tell she is making it up. trust me. she even said she is hanging out with him "ALL" weekend so she cant even come over for dinner with us. Frown "sigh"
thanks for the help
p.s. it really annoys me that she lets her "boyfriend" get in our way


Hey! Sorry to hear that , but think about it, if she really is lying she's not likely to be much fun at your party even if she did come. If you're sure you should confront her. Ask her why she doesn't want to go. Oh and Happy Birthday Smile 

Helen S.

by twilight*gurl on 3/2/2012 5:36:34 PM

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