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My friends successfully got me and my best guy friend together on Valentine’s Day. Problem is, my BF and I don’t know where to go from here. We’re...
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I HAVE A PROBLEM! I have a HUGE crush on this guy in my class. I'm not sure if he likes me but that's not the problem. The problem is that my best friend flirts with him all the time! They sit next to each other in algebra and she doesn't stop talking to him! It gets me really mad! I won't mind if she liked him, but she doesn't! She likes the guy I sit next to in Algebra! Lets call him Steve.I don't flirt with Steve though. Me and Steve are friends! Why is she flirtin with my crush when she has one of her own? It's sooo annoying!

Hey chica, it's probs best to have a convo with your bff and kindly and calmly explain how you feel.  But if she's just talking with your crush, there's nothing to worry about.  Good luck!  

Karin E.

by Katiee108 on 3/12/2013 4:11:04 PM


I used to have a crush on my BGF, before we became good friends. He was homeschooled until this year, and lives down the street from me (which I didn't know until he began attending my school). I'm in eighth grade, and dating is really popular. We bonded in math class over hard homework problems. I don't like him anymore, but my friends tease us for being so close. If he asked me out, is it weird that I would say yes? We have a bunch of nicknames for each other, and have hilarious Facebook chats with our girl friend. I'm honestly not sure how I feel about him. I'm fine with being friends, but is it wrong to be confused?

Hey girl,

It's not weird to say yes, but if you don't like him, why lead him on? It will only make him more hurt later! It's better to tell him the truth now than string him along and tell him you never liked him a few dates down the road. But if you think you might like him and want to see where things go, of course you should say yes -- that's what dating is for!

Meghan D.

by broadwaybound1998 on 3/17/2012 9:48:53 AM


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by schoneboom on 2/28/2012 3:18:11 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD PLEASE!! MOD MOD MOD!!!!! My bgf and I have been more than friends for a while, like a year, but nothing more than that. Whenever we've talked about dating, he says he's not ready for a dating relationship, and I totally agree. We're sophmores and still young, but I feel guilty flirting/laughing/goofin' off with my other guy friends now. I sent him a note that told him I wanted to stop for right now, but I think that right now is as far as it would ever get. I don't think that he would ever be able to see me as anything more than his gal pal, not his girlfriend. I told him I wanted to stop and let the relationship go, but he's still one of my best friends and he is my lil' bro's best friend. What should I do???

Hey girlie,

If you're besties and he has told you he isn't ready to date anyone right now, you should NOT feel guilty flirting with other guys! You're just friends...since you aren't dating and he isn't prepared to have that type of relationship right now, you technically aren't in a relationship. So you don't have to be loyal - because it isn't cheating! It's ok to keep your options open, because it's not fair to you to wait around for him to be ready. Like you said, he might see you as a gal pal, so you wouldn't wanna let great guys go while you're waiting for your BGF. Try being JUST FRIENDS for a while. Leave the flirting out and just enjoy each other's company, joke around, enjoy music/movies/video games, and just hang out. That way, you keep your friendship while also keeping your options open! <3 You deserve it!
Lauren C.

by teenangel2009 on 2/23/2012 5:01:49 PM


So there's this guy in my PE and Health class. He's made it pretty clear that he likes me, and he even asked me out through a (betcha can't guess which one) social networking site. Problem is, I don't like him back... how can I let him down easily, without hurting his feelings? Answer SERIOUSLY appreciated. Thanks a ton!

Hey girlie,

Ouch, tough sitch. He's probably sweet and he likes you, which is so nice, so you don't want to hurt his feelings. But you have to tell him the truth - it'd be unfair to lead him on! So be honest. Tell him you really appreciate it and think he is an amazing guy, but you think you'd be better as friends and you hope he understands. Apologize and give him a smile. Maybe even ask, "We're good, right? I'm really sorry." to make sure he knows you care about him and still want to be friends.  <3 Just be honest and warm about it - it might hurt him at first, but as long as you're considerate, it'll all work out in the end <3
Lauren C.

by sky22 on 2/16/2012 10:20:00 PM


MODMODMOD So, there's a guy in my chorus class that, at the end of class, walks over to the piano and just PLAYS! He is AMAZING at it, and I would swear his music is magical! Anyways, he seems really cool (and he's attractive Tong) and I want to actually talk to him some to at least be friends. My problem is, I'm really shy around people I don't know, ESPECIALLY if they're guys. Like, 5 times more! How do I get to be more chill and maybe actually talk to him? Much appreciated! Thanks!


 Hey pandagirl21, the first thing to remember is that he is a guy, a person just like you, so there's nothing to be nervous about. Two, maybe you can use his piano skills to talk to him. After he finishes playing the next time, tell him how good he did. Ask what song he was playing and how long he has been playing the piano. Once you talk to him once, you'll get comfortable chatting with him and you'll be able to do it again. Be sure you smile and wave when you see him out, and if you guys make eye contact, hold it and smile. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

by pandagirl21 on 2/15/2012 5:45:43 PM


ok so there is this guy i like, but there is a problem. he is super immature. when will he grow up????

by sandy92972 on 2/14/2012 7:11:34 PM


so, im pretty sure tht my guy friend likes me. how should i be flirting with him online? we go 2 a catholic school and wear uniforms, so i cant say stuff like, "u looked cute 2day." i dunno wht 2 do. and i cant talk bout sports cuz he isnt into it. help me plz!

by SecretCupcakeNinjaCalledTurtle on 2/14/2012 6:58:43 PM


HELP!! I really like this guy it's just he likes someone else. Should I give up on him and move on? I'm really confused 'cause he talks to me and everything it's just he flirts with this other girl. Does he like me or just trying to be nice? Thanks!!

by jellybean2 on 2/14/2012 5:17:48 PM


Modmodmodmodmod Hey, today at school, I got a Valentine from a boy. Only problem? I dont like him at all, I like someone else, even though this guy's really sweet. I didn't get the Valdntine from him directely so I thought that I wouldn't have to face him. But on the bus, apparently everyone heard about him getting me the Valentine, and this jerk kept making fun of us. I ignored him, but the guy who gave me the Valentine (call him Bob) kept turning around and making kind-of smart remarks at him. Finaly, the jerk goes, "Well aren't you gonna ask her out?"+Bob turns around and says "Do you want to be my girlfriend?"+ I say that Im sorry but I don't want a boyfriend right now.The jerk made a really big deal out of it but Bob just said ok and turned back around. I feel really sorry for him but I didn't want my first booyfriend to be someone I didnt like. So does rejecting someone on Valentines make me a bad person?+ what should I do if I see him again+what if he asks me out again?


I think youre fine. If you see him again say sorry for the awkward moment on the bus and apologize for the jerk being so mean. Make it clear to him that you two are just friends and you value to his friendship. Try to be nice to him, im sure that moment was embarrassing. xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

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by Princess Keziyah on 2/14/2012 10:46:09 AM


I really like this boy. Him and his best friend are always flirting with me! They'll wink, say hey, and stuff like that. I knew they were just messing around considering they're 2 years older than me..but the boy I like gets super shy just around me. He smiles and stares at me a lot. He never came acrossed me as a super shy guy. Is he just really shy around girls or does he actually like-like me?


Hey chica!

As cute as that sounds, the only way to figure out if he likes you as a crush is if he asks you out and says he does. So your best bet would be to talk to him and maybe ask him out yourself. <3

Krupali D.

by Diamondox on 2/14/2012 8:48:53 AM


MOD MOD MOD so me and my BGF are valentines like friends well you know what I mean, well i got him a chocolate bar and I made a card and I don't know if he got me anything and I don't know if my gift is too much or too little?? Any advice on how to give It to him? And is my gift not enough or too much?? THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH

Hey chica! I think it's super nice that you got him something. And, it doesn't sound over the top. I'd give it to him when you see him today! 

Becca G.

by coldplay12 on 2/14/2012 1:21:10 AM


So my crush and I sit together at lunch, and it seems like all we ever talk about is sports. We both play basketball and I love sports but I want him to know that I can talk about more than just that. Any suggestions?


Hey girlie!

It can get somewhat uninteresting talking about the same topic with someone. Try straying the conversation to another topic by talking about something else, such as something that happened the day before that you found sort of interesting, whether it was something at home, on tv, in the news or at school. You could also ask what he likes to do in his spare time other than sports and what his fave movies, books, food or music is and talk about those. <3 

Krupali D.

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by beauty4girls on 2/14/2012 12:45:50 AM


ok. so i am toats head-over-heels 4 this guy. we r 2 shy 2 talk face 2 face, and if we do, we get made fun of or r pulled away by friends. we have been talkin online, and i think he's been flirting with me and i've flirtin with him. we both get quiet when we talk bout who we like, and my friend (an undercover agent who lives outta da state) says tht he is almost givin away tht he likes me, but he says the he doesnt like any1 when he talks 2 me! i am sooo confused. and we always have such a fun time 2gether online! we rn't old enough 2 date.
we're only in 7th grade... so kinda an age prob!
when i asked da names of girls he might possibly like, he kept writin ...? as d answer! when i asked y he wanted 2 no who i liked, it took him bout 7minutes 2 reply (and he wuz there da whole time,(cuz we were playin checkers online)and he just wrote.... cuz... im curious.
help me!!!!!

Hey Girl,

Confusing messages, I feel ya! Since you guys already talk online (and are too young to date, anyway) you should keep it at that and just continue to flirt with him. Maybe he (or you both) just need/s more time and will warm up once you're more comfortable with each other. He has an interest in you, otherwise he wouldn't be talking with you online, asking questions about who you're dating. Just keep doing what you're doing, I think you're on the right track and he'll eventually admit that he likes you Smile
alicia m.

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by *MusicGirl16* on 2/13/2012 8:18:03 PM


ikr pippip24 hahaha that last sentence was kinda mean

by girlslifeluver on 2/13/2012 6:55:22 PM


Wow Dave. Someone hates V-Day. Was I the only one who noticed how bitter that last sentenced sounded?

by pippip24 on 2/13/2012 5:00:17 PM


U do not know how mad I will b if my crush doesn't ask me to b his valentine tomorrow!! He's known that I like him for almost 6 months!!! And I hear today that he's been really flirty with a girl today at lunch!? Grrrrr.. The least he could do is say happy v day that would REALLY make me happy..... Happy early v day everybody! <3 <3 <3

by softballismyBFF on 2/13/2012 4:36:42 PM


MOD MOD MOD! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 months and recently (past 2 weeks) I have really noticed a change in him. We've been getting into arguments alot more and I asked him about it. He says he doesn't know what's up but he feels like somethings missing with us. He said he doesn't want to break up and is willing to work on it if I'm willing to do the same. Should I be willing to work on this or should I break up with him? I mean, it's gonna be hard to stay with someone when I know he doesn't feel the same, but at the same time I'm not ready to lose him. All my friends are telling me that he isn't worth it and I shoudn't stay with someone who breaks my heart more and more everyday. But...I still love him. I really don't know what to do and I need an outside opinion. Please help!! Thanks!

I think your friends are right. You deserve to be with someone who makes you happy. If he wants to work on the realtionship and you do too you should try that for a week or two but if you are still unhappy you should just break up.  
Amanda P.

by tay12zdot on 2/13/2012 4:06:50 PM


great ideas too bad im single Frown lol

by j4zm09 on 2/13/2012 4:01:39 PM


How can I look cute when I'm training ( I do basketball) and also during P.E ? How can I look nice instead of sweaty and stuff

The whole point of gym and training is to be sweaty. If you are sweaty and working hard and dedicated to what you are doing that if far cuter then not committing to what you are doing in order to look "cute". You can buy really cute work out clothes at Target for pretty good prices that will keep you stylish while working out. 
Amanda P.

by N1icole98 on 2/13/2012 3:56:16 PM


my boyfriend (bf=boyfriend right?) and i have been together for four days. hes korean and im american..we have held hands, and he puts his arm around me often... my questions:
1) Is a card enough to get him. i know he is getting me something but idk what Tong he does celebrate vday.. my best friend (BFF?) said maybe get him chocolates but i dont think he likes sweets.. the card has the lyrics to our song, innocence by avril lavigne on it, im making it
2) im confused how to ask my mom if we can go to the movies after school friday.. he is my first bf and i was invited by my friend who is best friends with another korean guy at my school, so it wont be awkward... we're thinking about seeing the vow, but since this would be our first date idk if thats too mushy.. idk if my mom will be in the theater, but if she is, what should i do and shouldnt i do??
3) Anything else that i should know, like potential things to look out for?

1. I think a card is a perfect gift since you have only been together for 4 days. 

2. Just ask you mom if you can go ot the movies with some friends, but don't lie to her about your intentions. Include that a guy you like will be there. If your mom is at the movies I would say hand holding is the most you should do. Besides kissing in a movie is a waste of money since you are going to miss the movie!  

3. Just be open and honest with your mother and tell her she can come and chaperone the movie gathering if that makes her more comfortable. 
Amanda P.

by ou812 on 2/13/2012 3:33:47 PM


i want a valentine Frown lol

by fearless;) on 2/13/2012 2:59:59 PM


okay so i really like this guy in my science class. we talk and text a lot and i would say that we are pretty close. he is always texting me even when i tell him im over my texting limits and he keeps sending me these valentine's day forwards. do u think he likes me? how would i get him to admit it/ask me out? thanks in advance!

It sounds like he does like you. Maybe you should ask him what his Valentine's Day plans are and if he says nothing you could ask him out. Be proactive!  
Amanda P.

by beaniebag12 on 2/13/2012 10:38:38 AM

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