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Hey Sj96, since you can only see each other at school make the most out of that time. You both can get to school early to hang out or stay after school to see each other. Doing little things like leaving love notes in his locker and walking him to his classes will help keep your relationship fresh. Hope this helps girl! Xoxo

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Me and my bf have been going out for 10 (almost 11) months now and we really like each other. But lately, we haven't been able to see each other very often. What I mean by see is be alone. It's starting to effect our relationship. He's not allowed to date so we can't go over each others houses and I'm not allowed to go on actual dates until I'm 16 (which will be in a little over 1 month). But until then, what can I do to help our relationship so we don't grow apart? I don't want to lose him. How can we spend more time together. We both do a sport after school so we're super busy and them half the time we have drama but they're really strict about PDA. Not being able to see him irritates me cause I'm not use to it and I wanna spend time with him. What should I do? Lynae P.

i need help.. my boyfriend wants to kiss me.. and i want to kiss him too.. but my mom doesnt want me kissing.. i mean really.. all of my friends had their first kiss already!!

Hey girl!

Your mom is probably struggling with the fact that her little girl is growing up and has a boyfriend! She just wants to protect you. If you're totally comfortable with your boyfriend, you should be able to kiss him. If your mom is totally on you all the time about not kissing, sit down and have a conversation with her about it. Explain to her that you have a good relationship with him and you'd feel comfortable kissing him. Kissing is part of a relationship. Remember to stay calm when you try reasoning with her. An outburst won't put the odds in your favor!

Rachael A.

by love4321 on 6/8/2012 9:21:03 AM

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So I'm dating this guy, and have been dating him since 7th grade (I'm in 9th now). We both really like each other, and recently I feel I've grown so much closer to him. I can't hardy go a weekend without him, let alone now imagine going the whole summer without him, but right now, it seems like that may be the direction I'm headed for. My dad's totally against dating in high school in any form, so badly that even if my little sister's friend Ronnie (who's a girl) calls, he thinks it's a guy and freaks out. If he actually tried to call or I tried to call him, my dad would freak out even more. What should I do? I really want to keep in touch with him over the summer, but I don't want my dad to freak out and break us up.

hey! you should try reasoning with your dad about this. see if there's a compromise you can both agree on, say that if you go out, other people are with you guys or you don't talk on the phone but you can IM each other.

Helen S.

by yoquieronacho on 5/18/2012 7:13:23 PM

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So I guess this is a dumb question, but do high school relationships ever last? i would think that they don't but me and my boyfriend (im in 9th grade and hes in 1oth) have been going out for 6 months and have literally never gotten in a fight or had any sort of problems, so i was just wondering if you think its possible for it to last.

It is definitely possible for them to last. I have a friend who is marrying her high school sweetheart soon. They have been together for 6 years! It all depends on if the two of you are really meant to be together and how hard the two of you wish to work on staying together and in love if/when you guys head to college.

Amanda P.

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by Sj96 on 3/24/2012 1:10:57 PM

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Today, the guy I like (who I know for a fact likes me), asked me if I wanted to go on a run with him on Sunday (which I do!).
I don't know how to ask my mom and dad if I can though... I'm sorta embarressed (he is a nice guy though- and my mom knows him kinda and my dad has driven me to his house up the street a few times for a study session/birthday party...).
I told him I probably could, but that I had made previous plans with another friend, too... which is true, so another option is to not go.
Please help? What do I say??

Hey girl,

If you're just going for a run and your parents know him and have let you hang out with him before, you should be fine -- you're not going on a date! The worst they can say is no, so there's definitely no harm in asking if you can go. Can your friend go with you on the run? If not, maybe you could go on the run a little later or ask your friend if she wants to do something else instead of your original plan? Good luck and have fun!

Meghan D.

by theresaa on 3/16/2012 11:58:23 PM

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Please help. I have a best guy friend... But lately, I am feeling that I like him... Is this feeling true, or I am overreact because I am his BGF??

Falling for your BGF can be confusing. It's natural to start to have feelings for someone you're close with. Take it slow. Think about how you really feel for a little while and if you're sure you like him, then you'll know it's for real.

xo,

Channa R.

channa r.

by marge6288 on 3/16/2012 4:11:05 AM

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so last friday i was bored and went on one of those sites where you can talk to random people. (dont worry, im safe online!

) and i met this guys thats my age and he was sooo nice. problem, he lives in germany. either way, we kept talking for a few hours and he was everything i had ever wanted in a guy!! i swear ive never felt this way for a guy before! but now, hes gone..i guess there was technical dificulty while we were talking because it froze and disconnected and now i cant talk to him ever again!! ive been trying to find him on facebook cause im pretty sure he has one. i also know alot of things about him but not alot of specific things that would help me find him, like a last name or even city(ik the region).ive already searched tons of guys with his name on facebook but theres more than i realized.. so is there ANYTHING i cld do to help find him easier?!?!?! i REALLY like him!!!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

Hey girlie,

I'm sorry, but you know there is really nothing much you can do There are a LOT of people on the Internet, so if you don't have specific info, it's pretty much impossible. But you know what else? There are also a LOT of people in real life too! Instead of spending so much time online trying to track him down after a short convo with him, focus on meeting new people in real life by joining new activities, getting a part-time job, meeting mutual friends, etc. Try not to get swept up in this whole thing - you might feel like you really connected, but you only saw ONE part of who he is... the side he decided to show you. You don't know anything about his personal life, his reputation, what he's involved in/how he spends his time. It's nice to chat to new people every once in a while, but def try to let this one go <3

Lauren C.

by athena1006 on 3/15/2012 10:35:58 PM

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How old should you be to go on a date?

It's different for everyone! You have to make sure you're ready to date someone, you've talked it over with your parents, you're responsible and mature, etc. And plus, you should really like the guy you're dating! ;)

by asha0 on 3/15/2012 5:52:09 PM

MOD MOD MOD so ok so there's this guy whos practically my bfffl's brother and we were on and off all summer last year, and he lives in Idaho which is like ACROSS the country fram me!!! Anyway, so he's moving back to we're I live and I'm really excited cuz he's going to my school and stuff I'm just scared dat he's gonna like other chics

It's totally possible he could have changed a little, or that he will have his eye on other girls, or any number of other things. But you can't worry about that! Just be excited he's coming back and, when he's here, try to catch up with him, reconnect, hang out, and see where it goes. Just enjoy your time together, flirt if you still have those feelings after seeing him again, and be there to support him while he's getting used to living in your area again. Being jealous/nervous won't get you anywhere! Be patient and see what happens!

by tigerlily12 on 3/14/2012 12:15:55 AM

Lolol i broke my ankle, and my bf plays in all the baseball games i go to. haha

by kalei896 on 3/13/2012 6:15:55 PM

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Ok so tommorow my bgf is coming to my house in the morning after my parents have left , to walk to school with me , we both admitted that we have a crush in eachother , what can I do to move our relationship up , flirting etc. xxx

You should try small things at first. Maybe bring him a pop tart or an apple for the walk to school. Also make sure the conversation never goes silent during your walk. Also use some tips from this article:

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/09/27/Wish-your-crush-would-ask-you-out-already-Ten-ways-to-make-it-happen.aspx

by OWL-city on 3/12/2012 3:30:51 PM

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Hi so last night I read the "Special Report" in the GL Magazine an it sort of creeped me out and i really don't want it to happen to me. Well I live in a small town that doesn't have bad things like that usually happen. I don't know what to do!!!!

Hey girl, while sexual harassment is more common than many may think, it's important to realize that it will never be your fault. You should talk to an adult if you ever feel uncomfortable in a situation or you could even raise awareness so that others know what's going on. Check out the tips on page 86 in GL if you still have concerns. Remember that we wrote that article so that our girls are aware, not to scare you!

Colleen K.

by coldplay12 on 3/12/2012 1:33:27 AM

I like the pic above... It is cute.

by amileofroses on 3/11/2012 11:02:15 PM

Mod Mod Mod Okay so i really want a phone. All my friends have phones but me. I feel so left out when they text each other and everything.My Mom says she wont pay for it or help because she already pays bills with my sister going to college or whatever. Do you have any ideas on how i can earn some money to get one?

Hey girly! I'd make a pitch to your parents about how having a phone will be good for your safety. You can always call and check in, and your rents will know where you are. That's why my dad let me have a phone! If that still doesn't work, then you can try to earn a few extra bucks in your neighborhood. Is there anyone you can babysit for? Or, maybe a neighbor that needs someone to do off jobs... like weeding their garden, going grocery shopping or cleaning?

xxx

Becca G.

by Random_Rainbow5 on 3/11/2012 9:55:06 PM

lol my bgf zach and i are gonna go do these!

by bdarrough98 on 3/11/2012 7:49:44 PM

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I am an American who is currently living in Canada. Is there any way that I can enter the giveaways? I also have family in the states if that helps.
Thanks!

by Aislinn120 on 3/11/2012 7:32:56 PM

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I have a sticky sitch. My crush and I went to the same school until 5th grade and I switched schools. Our moms are good friends so we see eachother sometimes cuz of that but not very much. Well, Im in 6th now, and altough were still kinda friends, we used to be best friends in 4th and Im starting to miss tht. Is there anyway that I can atleast get to be closer friends again? Another thing: it might be kind of awkward just asking him to come over considering, well, everything. HELP PLEASE!!!!!!
P.S. I do have his cell # if tht helps.

Hey girl, why don't you just text him or try to talk to him. Just talk for a while and see how to goes. That way it'll be easier to ask to hang out if you've been keeping in touch.

lauren r.

by xXMissBehavedXx on 3/11/2012 12:39:13 PM

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So my sisters ex (they're still friends) calles and I answered because she wasn't there. We kinda know eachother and chatted for awhile. Then he said 'your weird' and I'm like yeah so are you.
I was joking. Then I said bye because I had to do maths hw. He sounded weird when he said bye... and then i told my sis when she came back and she said I was mean and called me a bitch! But I was joking...then I heard how she wrote an email to him. I feel bad now but I was joking what can I do??
Kristi

Hey girl, talk to you sister. Let her know that you were joking when you told him this. And if you feel comfortable let her friend know that you were joking as well, and you didn't mean anything rude by it. It's okay!

by imblonde5678 on 3/11/2012 12:23:54 PM

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by beaglegal on 3/11/2012 12:16:12 PM

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So my bgf and crush asked me out this Friday and, of course I said yes! The problem is I don't know how to talk to him on Monday at school. Should I go up like normal and just say hi or hug him...? I just don't want to make it awkward. Any suggestions?
Thanks in advance!
xoxo

Hey girl, I would say just go talk to him normally until you're comfortable enough to hug him! Just keep flirting with him and having fun!

by HorseGirl2998 on 3/11/2012 12:14:08 PM

Well since i dont have a boyfriend right now i guess ill just flirt with my crush insted Thats fine with me <3

by oreolover123 on 3/11/2012 12:11:58 PM

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