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My BGF ditches me for another girl

Do I like my guy friend? Does he like this other girl? Help!

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My friend has a crush on this guy. Let's call this guy bob. She wants me to ask bob who he likes cuz she thinks bob likes her. Well idk when to ask him! What do bOys feel about girls asking them who they like and when is the best time? Thanks if this gets answered!

Hey girl! I would tell your girl to be bold and talk to Bob! It might be a little awkward asking him yourself unless you're good friends with him. If you are friends, you could bring it up in a breezy way and (hopefully) not make the situation too uncomfortable for either of you! Good luck!

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Taeler

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by lilmissamazing on 4/29/2012 8:32:22 AM

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So there is one guy that is super sweet and adorable who has a slight sence of humor. (ill call him j) We both like eachother. Then I met his friend ( another guy who I'll call s) and me and s have been thisclose ever since. S is hilarious and always gives me the best advise. We like eachother now aswell as j. The thing is both of them are 11! I'm 13. I have no idea what I should do or who I should choose! Pls help!

Hey girlie,

First off, it's totally fine that they're a bit younger! As long as you get along really well, have a lot in common, are on the same page with dating stuff (aka don't pressure each other into doing stuff you're not ready for), then the age difference doesn't matter at all The tough part is choosing which one you like more. Personally, I would enjoy the chemistry you have with each of them and get to know them even better until a "turning point" happens...meaning, until one of them asks you out. Then you obviously have to make a decision and, while it won't be easy, you'll be really close with each of them and can try to figure out who would be best as a friend and who would work as a BF. You gotta weigh stuff like how much he respects you, how well you resolve arguments, how much you smile around each of them, and other criteria that only you can decide. Basically, what's important for you in a BF? Then figure out which one matches up best <3

Lauren C.

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by Meglovesmusic on 4/1/2012 7:45:08 AM

Well I started to like this guy,bc my friend was like"he wants you to text him"so i did,and it devolped into a realationship.Well he asked me how to ask a girl to our school dance so i helped him,and i was sure he was gonna ask me well he asked like 5 girls and the last one which happened to be one of my friends felt sorry for him and said yes!Well the dance was on my 13th birthday, and my friend and my BGF slow danced together and i watched them and almost cryed, it ruined my birthday. Well like 2 weeks after that my BGF asked me out and we were gonna go on a date but he said it was cancelled, and then on New Years Eve he was texting me, and at like 2:30 he said"Love ya bye" that made my heart melt, so i said the same. And then after thar he never said anything romantic or anything. And about a couple nights ago me and him got into a fight and he said"i can't believe i was gonna ask you to the first dance of the year"and that made my heart stop, and balled my eyes out.wht do i do now?

Hey girl,

Ouch, sorry he's been sending so many mixed signals! "Love ya!" is a lot more casual than "I love you," so he said that and you said "I love you" he might have been a little freaked out. That's mean of him to say that about the dance -- it sounds like he's at least somewhat into you, but he's not sure of his feelings and might be interested in other girls too since he's asked so many people to the dance. For now, why not focus on spending time with your girl friends and see what happens with him after a little time alone? You might find another guy who's less confusing and more kind!

Meghan D.

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by mermaidrainbow049 on 3/28/2012 11:59:35 PM

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Okay, so this guy I work with, we goof off with eachother a lot. Like we ask eachother where stuff is in the store and if the other one knows then they get a point and vis versa. Well I hadn't worked with him in a while so I messaged him on facebook. Well I totally forgot I had my number on my profile page and the next time we worked together he told me he got my message and my number so we can talk faster instead of on Facebook. Well he said he'd text me and it's been a week and he hasn't texted me yet... What do you think? Why havent I gotten a txt yet??

Hey girl, honestly it could have just skipped his mind. I tell people that I'll text them all the time, then something will come up and I forget until they'll make fun of me later. Just keep on flirting with him and acting if everything is normal. I'm sure he'll text you after the text time he sees you!

lauren r.

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by Cherries51 on 3/28/2012 5:22:33 PM

Poor girl. I hope it gets better for her!
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by future_artist on 3/26/2012 8:42:27 PM

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Hi, so I really like my BGF and he's really sweet, kind, and cares about me. I have 2 questions
1.)He stares at me a lot in all of our classes except for the ones that I sit behind him in and he is always laughing at my really lame jokes.
2.)We're in 7th grade and my parents are okay with me dating as long as things don't go out of hand (they most likely wouldn't go out of hand because we go to a private school and he wouldn't do anything like that to me). They also said that if I wanted to I could ask him out as it is the 21st century. I was wondering how I should ask him out if I do decide to.
Thank you sooooo much,
~~~~Hannah

Hey babe,

I'd say to keep it relatively casual at first until you figure out if it's worth going beyond friendship and taking the risk. Ask him to go to a movie with you or to go out for coffee. Jordan S.

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by HungerGamesRox99 on 3/26/2012 7:08:57 PM

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by field2300 on 3/26/2012 6:30:49 PM

Help!!!! No one likes me what should I do

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by field2300 on 3/26/2012 6:23:49 PM

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by field2300 on 3/26/2012 5:55:23 PM

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So my BGF is doing the same thing to me,but the only difference is,I know he does not like this girl because she told him she liked him and he turned her down. But for some reason,he sometimes ditches me for her if his friend goes to hang out with her. Also,he ignores me online. I know it's online so it could just be a misunderstanding,but he will respond to other girl's comments,and not mine. What should I do?

Hey girl! It sounds like your BGF might like the attention that this girl is giving him. It's tough to tell when something is online, but he's probably not purposely ignoring you. Maybe try taking a step back and wait for him to ask you to hang out. I don't think it's anything personal against you, it just sounds like he is following what his other friends are doing (which includes hanging out with this girl). But, if you like him, you should tell him how you feel so that everything can be cleared up. Like the article said, you might have some disappointment, but it's better to know sooner than later.

Colleen K.

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by MadMaddie911 on 3/26/2012 12:44:38 PM