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by pokemon_girl11 on 9/7/2012 4:43:06 PM
by Stargirlcandy3 on 8/9/2012 12:55:50 AM
by Hailiethecool on 7/29/2012 9:42:41 PM
by Stargirlcandy3 on 5/28/2012 4:47:11 PM
Hey daisie5, this is a tough sitch. I know you like Matt but it seems like he hurt your friend Emily. Sometimes it's better if we don't date the exs of our girlfriends, because it can lead to drama. It might be better if you and Matt are friends for awhile. I'm not sure Emily will be okay with you two dating. Just imagine how you would feel if you were in her shoes. Hope this helps girly! Xoxo Mod Mod Mod Mod Mod Okay so my bgf lets call him matt has been flirting with me for a long time now. Matt broke up with my best friend, Emily lets call her, about a month ago. Emily and my other best friend, Molly we'll say, always talk about how much they hate him, but they don't know i like him. Matt and me text each other every night and last night we played 20 ?'s and he asked out of all the guys in our class who would i go on a date with. Me being so "secret" said all the guys r nice but some nicer than others. I told him about the really creepy guys in my neighborhood and he said want me to come beat them up. Does he have a crush on me? Should i tell emily and molly that i like Matt? Please help!!!!!!! Lynae P.
by daisie5 on 5/19/2012 1:48:28 PM
by cowsrule11 on 5/18/2012 10:23:02 PM
by promqueen105 on 5/11/2012 9:17:45 PM
by ladyinlike on 5/11/2012 10:39:52 AM
MOD MOD MOD How do I answer a MOD? Hey babe, Just post another comment, add the Mod's name (in my case, "MODMODMOD Jordan S.) and we should see your comment to respond! Jordan S.
by hermionegirl12 on 5/7/2012 8:13:03 PM
This article is perfect for me. I was recently forced to give up my crush because of..complications and it's really hard to get over someone you're still in love with, I think this article with help a lot. Thanks GL!!
by IThinkILoveYou... on 5/7/2012 6:30:31 AM
@aikostar12 I totally agree. When I was decrushing someone, I kept thinking about all of his good qualities. But once I thought about his bad qualities, I realized that he wasn't worth it. And a MOD is a Moderator, or someone that answers your questions on GL.
by CupcakeCutie_21 on 5/4/2012 10:18:02 PM
Also, how am I sopposed to run off my frustrations if we run together two times a week sometimes only once and we r on the same track team so we see each other at least once a week. My hobbies r to run and jump and the only thing that keeps us seperated is our feild events,I high jump he long jump but once a week I long jump without my friends which makes some things harder to cover up when I'm talking to him. SOS
by ealaplante on 5/3/2012 9:32:19 PM
Ok so there is this guy that I like but i don't want to. I just want to be one of his good friends. I think he thinks that I like him and I definatly don't want that happening. How do I prevent this and keep my self from not liking him but being close friends. Btw wat does modmodmod mean plz tell me and help me whither my sitch
by ealaplante on 5/3/2012 9:27:05 PM
by ladyinlike on 5/3/2012 5:33:56 PM
personally, another way to get over him is to think about all the bad things about him. it seems sortta mean but it usually works
by aikostar12 on 5/2/2012 11:05:23 PM
what is a mod????
by aikostar12 on 5/2/2012 11:04:37 PM
MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! there's this guy i like but i don't talk to him very much. (i'm really bad at initiating conversations) i have tried to convince myself to get over him, but every time it starts to work, he'll do or say something that gets my hopes up all over again! this past week or so, every time he see's me he tells me i look like i'm having a blast in a dramatically sarcastic tone and it's really starting to get me angry because i don't need my unhappiness pointed out, you know? and part of the reason i am unhappy sometimes is because i can't get over him but i can't think of anything to say to him and then he has to go and say stuff like that and i know he doesn't mean it to be a jerk, i hope, but like i said, it's annoying. please help if you can!!!
by the_last_ninja on 5/1/2012 6:26:10 PM
MOD MOD MOD! I'm moving halfway across the world this summer. Should I break up with my boyfriend now, or wait, or stay with him?
by coccinelle4 on 4/30/2012 4:43:10 PM
by New_York_City on 4/28/2012 11:23:10 PM
by skigirl8 on 4/28/2012 10:24:11 PM
i have tried all of these things and I still get nervous and tingly around him. ugh!
by carinaamina on 4/28/2012 10:12:45 PM
I really like this guy and we used to talk all of the time and he told e he liked me and i told him i liked him but he had to move away and now i cant stop thinking about him now he wont even text me back what can i do
by candycanes on 4/28/2012 10:04:03 PM
MOD MOD MOD There's this awesome guy at my school and I think he likes me but there are a couple probs: •He's a year older than me so he is in seventh grade while i am in sixth •He likes another girl (he even told me amd my friends) but she doesn't like him •Since he is a year older, the only time we see each other is during rehearsals for a play, and the play is ending in a week So I guess what I'm asking, is should I make a move, wait for him to make a move, or just give it up
Hey Girly,
I think the best thing for you to do is make a move. You can’t wait around for him to make a move, because if he doesn’t, then you will always wonder “what if”. I think you should gather all your courage and make a move because time is running out. You never know what could happen! If things don't go as planned, there are always other guys out there. Regardless, Good luck!
by allemoomoo on 4/28/2012 7:21:02 PM
MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD So, my crush high fives me everyday, but I don't do it first, he does. He doesn't do it to any other girl, either. He talks to me all the time and always tells me that he hopes we'll have a lot of classes together next year. Also, he jokes with me a lot, and ignores his guy friends when he's around me and talks to me instead. But he has a girlfriend, and I'm confused. Does he like me? Or is he just being really friendly?
Hey Doll!
This does sound really confusing! Hey may just really like you as a friend, especially if he already has a girl friend. I would just continue to keep it at a friendly as possible with him and be sure to never cross that line as long as he has a girlfriend. If he crosses that line, you need to let him know that it is not okay to do that if he has a girlfriend. For the most part, just keep it friendly and you never know, you may have a new bff
by stephzhang9 on 4/28/2012 6:17:51 PM
nice tips!
by j4zm09 on 4/28/2012 6:09:24 PM
MOD MOD MOD me and this one guy fight all the time in one class and the teacher yells at us cause were talking how can we stop fighting?
Hey Chica,
I’m sorry to hear that you are having a hard time with this guy. I think the most important thing would be to talk to him. You should let him know that it’s not good for the both of you to be fighting especially if it is effecting your schooling. I think you should both determine what the problem is as to why you are fighting so much and come up with a solution. Be willing to compromise and apologize and hopefully he will do the same. After this, try to focus on your academics and stay away from him as much as possible. Good luck doll!
by sparklysharpie on 4/28/2012 5:43:39 PM
MODMODMOD so i just got my crush's phone number and I've texted him a few times and he responds but its always with really short answers. like less than a sentence. What are some things i can ask or talk about to get a good conversation going? Thanks xo
I think a great way to get him to respond to you and to really get him talking is to ask him questions that are not yes or no questions. Ask him how his day is going or how his day went. If you have anything in common with him, such as you have a class together, start talking about that and ask him a question about that class. Just try to make all your questions open ended, not yes or no questions. Guys like complements too, so maybe try complimenting him and asking a questions like: “I really like those tennis shoes you have, did you buy them for basketball season? If he replies with “No I just bought them because I like them” or something short like that you could say “Well I really like them! Where do you buy your shoes because…” Just keep the conversation going and try to ask as many open ended questions as you can while still being conversational. I hope this helps doll! Good luck!
by breathless99 on 4/28/2012 5:12:44 PM
MOD MOD MOD Ok,so,apparently I am obsessed with my crush.I talk about him sometimes,and I looka t his pictures on Facebook and pick out my favorite ones.But,last night I talked about him for 3 hours and showed my friends pictures of him that I like.They are calling me obsessed,but I don't think I am.How do you know if you are obsessed with with your crush,and when it is just a regular crush that you talk about?
I definitely understand how you feel. When you have a crush on someone all you want to do is talk about them and think about them. I don’t think what you’re doing is obsessive, but try to think how your friends feel. How would you feel if your friend only talked about a boy for hours and hours, it’s completely different when their talking about somebody you don’t have strong feelings for. I know you really like him but try to keep your friends happy too. I think it only becomes obsessive when you let your crush get in the way of other important priorities such as school, family, and friends.
by mathgeek221 on 4/28/2012 4:40:22 PM
that girl looks very very VERY familiar. i wonder why....?
by dramaqueen122 on 4/28/2012 4:32:59 PM
MOD MOD MOD!!! So T've been going out with this guy for two months. He's really sweet, but he's also really immature. He's a year younger than me. And the thing is, I just don't feel the butterflies when i'm around him anymore. I really don't want to break his heart, but if i don't like him, I don't see the point in going out with him. I think that when i'm older, i might regret dating so young (i'm thirteen). But i also think i might regret breaking up with him. I don't know what to do! Please help me! thanks!
Hey coccinelle4, you can’t ignore your feelings. If you don’t like him anymore you can’t help that. And you’re right it’s better to be true to him and yourself then to lead him on. So let him know that you think it’s better if you guys are just friends. Hope this helps! Xoxo
by coccinelle4 on 4/28/2012 3:59:14 PM
MOD MOD MOD ever since 2 days ago, I've had this craving to get a bf. I have no idea why, and I don't even have a crush on a particular guy. What's wrong with me?
Hey DUCKYSHORTS, it’s completely understandable. Sometimes you want that guy you can call up, hang out with and snuggle with. Give yourself time to become interested in someone and take it from there. Hope this helps! Xoxo
by DUCKYSHORTS on 4/28/2012 3:08:06 PM
MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Yesterday I was talking to this one boy a lot. I thought, 'I made a new friend!' We talked later that night at the band concert. We're both in band. Well he would always like stare at me and sit closer to me. He also talked really loud so that I would look at him. So I got the feeling that he probably thinks that I like him. Which I don't. I just want to be friends. I already found out that I have a crush on 2 people! I don't need a third one. How do I make it clear that I just want to be friends and nothing else?
Hey Gabriella123, make it clear that you want to be friends through the things you say. Try saying things like “You’re such a cool friend” or “I’m glad we’re friends”. When he starts talking loud trying to get you to look at him, don’t. Pretend you’re doing something or don’t hear him. Still be nice to him just be sure you aren’t doing anything that comes off as flirty. Hope this helps! Xoxo
by Gabriella123 on 4/28/2012 2:33:12 PM
by HungerGamesRox99 on 4/28/2012 12:55:18 PM
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