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My crush is dating one of my best friends ever, but she's thinking about dumping him because she catches him staring at other girls (like myself) Whenever I talk to him, he always says something mean about my BFF behind her back. I feel so bad for both of them, but when she dumps him, should I ask him out or should I wait and see?




Hey girl, 




Yikes! That's a toughie! It sounds like this boy might like you back but asking him out may cost you a friendship. If you really like him, talk to your friend to see if she minds. But honestly, he's likely to treat you the same way he treats her: do you really want a BF who slams you behind your back and gawks at all the other girls? 




good luck!




 
simone s.

by savlove123 on 5/31/2012 2:55:29 PM

 
 

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Me and my best friend like the same guy. In the 5th grade my friend liked this guy in the 4th -he is in a grade lower than us because of his birthday- and he liked her. A couple of days ago me and him reconnected on Facebook and I remembered how nice and sweet he was and still is. Now we are in 6th grade and he is in 5th. Next year me and him will be going to the same middle school. He told me the next time I was on we should chat. Help!

 

Hey Girl!


Talk to your friend and ask if she still likes him because she might not anymore. If she does, just stay friends with him. It's not worth losing a good friend over a guy. you don't need to stop talking to him though... and the three of you could become good friends, who knows?

SarahO.

by 1DLove513 on 5/29/2012 3:15:22 AM

 
 

I don't think i should freak out you're crush, I have always had guy friends and my BGF (also my crush) told me he liked me and now were together. so I think that it doesn't matter who you're friends are, it matters who YOU are.
<3

by Raven.y on 5/22/2012 6:50:26 PM

 
 

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I really like my best guy friend and his mean 8th grade girlfriend broke up with him he flirts with everybody expecially this mean "popular" girl. I am pretty much the only girl he respects. He knows I like him. But I think he sees me more as a friend because I am a wicked tomboy and the only girl who will dissect things in science I also work on a farm and fish and know how to hunt and gut/skin an animal I really like him but I know he likes the mean girl he still acts like he likes me because he usually will give me the time of day to at least say hi. He knows I don't get along with the mean girl and why and I've had some deep conversations with him. We used to sit next to him in ss and we would sometimes work together or help eachother and my friends sat on the floor infront of us and would say we make a cute couple. And he would put his arm around me and jokingly say "i Know"
What should I do????




Hey babe,

Are you sure he knows you like him?  He def seems like he's flirting with you.  Jokes only go so far before they show a little grain of truth.

I would start to flirt with him more and more and begin to tow the line between "friends" and "more."  Then gauge his reaction from there and figure out where he stands.
Jordan S.

by Farmer16 on 5/21/2012 8:29:36 PM

 
 



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My BGF/crush has done stuff with his ex and current gf and I'm the only girl he respects my friends always say he's bad and I shouldn't like him but I talk to him alot and he does do some of the stuff people say he does but most of it is lies and for some reason I trust and believe him he knows I like him and we joke about "us" sometimes but probably the reason he won't date me is that I'm not sluty like his ex and current gf




Hey girl,

If he's not dating you because you're not slutty and you respect yourself, then he's not the guy you thought he was! If that's the case, you gotta move on because you should NEVER push yourself to do "stuff" you aren't ready for, just to please a guy. If he's just in it for the physical stuff, he's not the guy for you. But if he respects you and cares about you, he'll wait for you. It's smart not to trust someone's reputation and make your own judgments (which you're doing - and that's awesome), but remember that what you've heard might be true. Either way, it's always better to follow your heart and do what feels comfortable to you - not to pressure yourself into rushing into "doing stuff" just to please him. <3
Lauren C.

by Farmer16 on 5/13/2012 8:40:44 AM

 
 

Kinda makes sense that guys would be intimidated by that. They may think that your other guy friends might take away from time with him. But no matter, i'll just keep all my guy friends, thank you very much Smile

by jo_crox on 5/11/2012 6:41:01 PM

 
 

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okay so I'm goi to warped tour this summer, YAY, lol, anyways I'm super excited to see Four Years Strong, one of my fav bands! This is my first time seeing them live and I'm kinda nervouse for their set cuz literally 99.9% of their fan base are guys! I'm pretty tough compaired to most girls my age, but I'm still kinda nervous cuz I know guys get really rowdy at concerts! Should I be okay surrounded by guys for FYS's whole set? Lol! Also, I'm kinda worried that the guys will freak out cuz there's a girl in the FYS crowd, will they think I'm like...intruding on their band? I know it's kinda dumb, but I'm not an expert on how guys think! Lol!



Hey babe,

No worries! I've been to tons of shows like FYS, and there's actually a lot of girls who are in their crowd too.  There's absolutely nothing to worry about.

Jordan S.

by selgomez1997 on 5/5/2012 8:30:57 PM

 
 

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Help!! I have my first boyfriend and Ive had him for like 3 days and it feels really awkward and i kinda felt more comfortable when we were just friends... I'm also starting to like someone else and him a little bit less. What should I do? Should I break up with him? If I should, how should I do it without hurting him? Also if we should break up, is there maybe a way I can make him break up with me?



Hey girl,

Manipulating a boy into breaking up with you is always a terrible idea.  You end up hurting him, since he will find out, and it will likely upset him more than if you were just straight-up with him.

I would just tell him that you think you're better as friends.  If it's as awkward as you say, it's likely he's feeling the same way.

Make it clear that you do care about him, but just not in this way.
Jordan S.

by claudsoda on 5/5/2012 7:25:16 PM

 
 

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Im friends with a guy who no one really likes (even boys say hes a big jerk)...but i like him and hes nice to me!! People are constantly calling him gay, a jerk, stupid, etc...idk if he knows about this but it REALLY bothers me and i try to stand up for him, but i dont really know what to say!!! Sooo the next time someone calls him those things, what shuld i say?!!!?!!!!?!! Thanks so much!!



Hey babe,

I know how tough this can be, and I think it's great that you're willing to stick up for him instead of just ignoring the situation.

Say that they don't know him, that there are a ton of false things people could say about them just based off impressions too.
Jordan S.

by Paramoregurl on 5/5/2012 7:10:29 PM

 
 

i think that kinda goes both ways. Anyone can be intimidating to ask out if they are constantly surrounded by a group of people, no matter what gender they are.

by Glitterheart16 on 5/4/2012 11:29:31 PM

 
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