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Hey kitkatgurl44, if you have his number text him. You could say "hey wassup if you still wanna come to my game it's on Tuesday! Hope I see u" hope this helps!! Xoxo

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Dear Mod,
Ok so all my (girl and guy)friends have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Except my crush. Hes practically the same way. I'm getting really depressed because I'm alone. My friends have "Movie Nights", were the first saturday of every month they go to the movies with their bf or gf in a big group. I feel really alone because I can't go to Movie Nights because I don't have a bf. My crush knows that I like him (he knew before I could even tell him!).
A couple of issues ago, your magazine posted an article about the secret signs a guys is into you. He shows almost all of the clues! He uses my name a lot and pairs off with me, and we talk about every thing(etc..)! When I told him he never said if he likes me back or not. I NEED HELP!
Also, a few weeks ago he said he was going to come to my championship softball game at my school. He told me to tell him when it was a few days before! Well its on Tuesday. How do i tell him!
Please Help! (:
~KitKatGurl44 Lynae P.

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I am in love with my BGF and he knows I like him, not that I love him. A couple weeks ago he told me he liked me and broke up with his girlfriend for me. He said he really liked me, but then at my party, he was just about to hold my hand and then suddenly he just got up and sat somewhere else. I asked him about it and he told me that being best friends to becoming something more is something he's not ready for. So he asked out this other girl the next day. Then she dumped him and I was there for him and he asked out ANOTHER girl the next day. He told my friend that this girl was the real deal and he was in love with her. He just keeps hurting me and I can't bear it anymore. HELP!!

Hey! You have to move on from this guy. I know it's hard, but just try to concentrate on other things for a while, like your friends or an activity you love. It's tough now but every day your life will bring you something new to learn about or help with or share with someone, and when you make the most of your days, the hurt will go away even sooner than you think. I hope this helps girl!

Helen S.

by iheartboyz815 on 4/6/2013 2:53:34 PM

HEY! HARRY STYLE'S FACE IS BEAUTIFUL! HOW DARE YOUUUUUUUU

by aikostar12 on 6/7/2012 7:52:02 PM

by Kitkatgurl44 on 5/12/2012 2:36:45 PM

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okay, so... i have a bit of a problem... im in 8th grade and my bf is in 7th. well the 8th grade dance is coming up and we were talking about it and he said he had to go to his school's 8th grade graduation... as i was talking to my best friend about it the 2 kids (both 8th graders as well) that like me have both asked me to the dance... the thing is i like them both... and i worry that if i goof off or whatever with them, someone will tell my bf about it and it will start some kind of argument and i don't want that happening (my boyfriend is really protective and possessive when it comes to me but i'm perfectly fine with that) i just don't want to mess with our relationship. what should i do?
thanks for reading all this (sorry its so long),
thanks again,
kellie

Hey Kellie,

I think you should talk to your BF about this first! Say something like, "Hey, so you know that dance I invited you to? Since you can't go, would you mind if I went with one of my guy friends so I still have a date? I'd go with him JUST as friends, nothing more! But I still wanted to check with you first to make sure you wouldn't feel weird about it." That way, you're being totally honest about it before it even happens - no risk of any "secrets" getting back to him because you've already put it all out in the open

Lauren C.

by klbugg97 on 5/10/2012 7:27:49 PM

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I recently started going out with this guy, and it turns out he's asked out one of my friends a while back. When she turned him down he told her "its cool, i guess i wanted to be single for the summer anyway" He's going out of town for the summer and I kind of feel like he's going to cheat during the summer. What should I do?

Hey girlie,

Since you're dating him, it's ok to have a convo about what you both expect from the relationship. Be playful or laid-back about it, but ask him straight out - "So, we're exclusive right? Like we'll be with each other this summer, not anyone else?" It's ok to clarify because he's technically your BF, so make sure he knows how you feel. Then you just gotta trust him and try not to stress about it. If he DOES cheat, you weren't meant to be together anyway - so try not to freak out! Instead, enjoy the time you have with him, trust him the best you can, and know that you were totally honest and straight-forward - that's what matters <3

by atisa7 on 5/10/2012 1:10:14 PM

"You're hot and your cold, you're yes and you're no, you're in an you're out, you're up and you're down...."
Hehehehe Katy Perry

by LittleRockstar on 5/9/2012 5:11:18 PM

UM EXCUSE ME DAVE HIS NAME IS HARRY STYLES

by §♥greyson_chance♥§ on 5/8/2012 10:47:06 AM

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So I like this guy. And he likes me too. Should i ask him out before i lose him even if I don't want to date?

Hey babe,

If you don't want to date then there's no reason to force it! Jordan S.

by stars2010 on 5/7/2012 8:41:53 PM

Well, unless your the girl he's breaking up with, why do you care? Sorry, I just wouldn't. Unless said girl is your friend or something.

by paxetcaritas101 on 5/7/2012 8:33:54 PM

Based on my reaction to reading just the title of this, you can tell I'm just oh-so-mature and serious. What was that reaction, you ask? "He's on his period." I'm just too cool. Seriously,though, what is wrong with me? LOL

by paxetcaritas101 on 5/7/2012 8:32:37 PM

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Girls can have the same dreams, they can have dreams that would elicit that type of reaction. However, the actual "emission" part doesn't happen. Just on the general basis that our anatomy is different. Jordan S.

by futurewriter16 on 5/7/2012 8:14:25 PM

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Hey so I have liked this guy for 2 or so years now. We didn't talk much last year but now we talk everyday or so. We are back to being friends now and I love that! I am really good at figuring out who people like right off the back but he has sent me really mixed messages. Like friday he didn't really talk much but today he couldn't stop looking at me or smiling. So I wish I could tell if he liked me or not. I don't wanna ask him out though cause I don't wanna kill our friendship! Please give me some advice!!

Hey girl,

You should try to test the waters, and see if he might be feeling the same way about you. Up the flirting and up the closeness, then based off his reaction (Does he flirt back? Does he up his own flirting and become more forward? Does he act strangely or seem like he's not into it?) you should be able to figure out where he stands.

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