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do you know any workouts that take away some fat from your calves? im a ballerina and ballerinas usually have big calves(compared to their thighs), but i don't like it and i get self conscious. its not that big of a deal but if i could make my calves smaller, that would be great!!!!!

If you're a dancer, you probably don't want your calves to get smaller, because you'll lose all of the awesome muscle you've built! Since you're a ballerina, here's a ballet-inspired workout that includes calf exercises! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/10/20/Get-en-pointe-with-a-ballet-inspired-workout.aspx

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ok i'm 13 yrs old and there is this boy that i just can't get off of my mind! he's in my grade and i see him in the halls before and talked a little bit and i really want to get to know him more. i just don't know how to do it lol. the school year's almost over and i would like to hang out with him during the summer....i just have nooo idea how to ask him to hang out or like what we could do or anything! please help! oh and my BGF is one of his friends and he told me that he said i was cute

If you're nervous about asking him out but have a guy friend in common, why not suggest that the three of you hang out together? That way, you can grow more comfortable around him but still have your friend there.

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Okay, so I want to shave my legs but I don't want to ask my mom. Also, the other day I slow danced with this kid and realized I liked him and he said he really liked me. He asked me out and I said no. I realize that was a huge mistake but we never talk so how do I tell him I like him without everyone knowing. I would txt him but he broke his phone. I'm also afraid of people judging me on who I like. People keep saying he likes this other girl and I think so too. But does he still like me? How do I communicate with him?

Check out this post on talking to your mom about shaving: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/05/27/shaving-talk-with-mom.aspx?cp=all. As for the boy, if you tell him you turned him down because you were nervous, he might understand and still want to go with you! But if you don't want everyone else to know that you like him, that might not be a good sign, because if you go out with him, people will find out! If someone is going to judge you based on who you like, just ignore them, because that's silly, and you are allowed to like whomever you want! And as for communicating with him, the best thing is to talk in person!

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I'm in the 8th grade and my school is having a 7th/8th grade semi-formal dance in a couple of weeks. My crush asked me if i wanted to go with him, so obviously i said yes two things: 1)they normally play some slow songs at the dance, but i dont know how to dance...and 2)where can i find a really cute dress?

 

hey! 1) Just look around and do what other people are doing, as long as your comfortable and 2) try H&M, Delias, Urban Outfitters, Target, and Goodwill 

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Okay, so I show cattle and there is this guy that is 14 and I'm 13. I've liked him for 2 years now but I haven't told anyone. My mom and sister think I like him but I don't want them to think that. We are both really shy so we don't talk much and I'm kinda scared to talk to him. There are also a bunch of people that would make fun of me too if they knew I liked him. We don't have a lot of time at shows either because we are always working. He is also always hanging out with his older cousin that is going to be a senior in high school next year. I don't know how to talk to him since he is always with older people. I really like him but I also don't go to school with him so I only see him in the summer and only like 3 times a month. Any Advice? Thank You sooooo much!

 

Hey! It sounds to me like you really like this guy congrats, it can be fun to have a crush. The best way to deal with this is to be his friend and see if something more happens naturally. I have seen so many girls get hurt and ruin friendships because they "had to know" if someone liked them, and they asked the guy about it and made the whole situation awkward. I even did that myself when I was younger. It's better to have a secret crush on your friend than to have a public crush on your ex-friend. good luck!