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My first kiss was a major letdown

It was hardly romantic and my BF insulted my kissing skills. Should I break up with him?
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okay, so i'm not the best in these situations, but I'd tell him how you feel. see what happens! if it goes dow hill, then find someone else. start over, and see if your first kiss with a new person will be the one that you were looking for. I'm still waiting for mine, and the perfect guy. Smile

hope this helped.

hey, I'm an amature ;) author, so if you could tell me what happens, i might be able to use it in one of my books if thats okay with you...

by iloveharrystyles on 5/25/2012 5:24:23 PM


Yesterday, I was going through a major crisis. I found out that my boyfriend had a porn problem. We talked about it, and he said he felt really bad for doing it, and that he would never do it again. I was glad that he said that because I was starting to wonder if I should break up with him. But then my best friend got mad at me for not breaking up with him! She said that he lied to me, and that a bunch of the sweet things he said weren't true, he was just making sure that I didn't break up with him. I couldn't believe she would say that. And now I can't talk to her because I feel like she will just try to convince me to break up with him, when I know that I don't want to. What should I do?


hey! the problem with porn is that, while it's natural to be curious about some things, porn objectifies women and men in a pretty unhealthy way. Probably many boys and girls in your grade have tried viewing it at least once, but that doesn't mean it's a good thing to do. I tend to agree with you for not breaking up with him. He told you about it, and most guys would not have done that. This also depends on the extent of the problem. Is he seriously addicted, or does he just feel guilty for looking it up now and then? Just because he has looked at porn does not mean any sweet thing he's ever said to you was a lie. Tell your friend that you're not ignoring the problem, you and your boyfriend have talked about it and are moving on. It's not really any of her business anyway. good luck!  

Helen S.

by crazydreamer16 on 5/25/2012 5:16:23 PM


I have a really big problem! I was at my friends house and we were playing outside with her brother. (who's my age)I was heading over to the trampoline when her brother stuck his arm out in front of to block me. (idk why he did that.) so he wouldn't let me pass him and I told him that if he didn't let me pass I would kiss him. he still wouldn't let me pass, so I kissed him. he kind of just stood there in shock and let me pass. my friend didn't really care that I kissed him by the way. I didn't see him for the rest of the day. then I saw him about two days later. he was kind of acting weird like he would sometimes be a really big flirt and sometimes he would aviod me. his sister (my friend) said that he really wants to kiss me agian. I don't know what I should do because I'm only 13 and I didn't even want to kiss him in the first place. on the other hand I did enjoy it. I'm just really confused. sorry this is so long.

Hey babe,

Do you like him? That's what is most important. It's good that your friend doesn't mind, but you should only really kiss a guy if you have feelings for him. I would definitely get to know him better before I kissed him again. Just hang out with him (with or without your friend) and be his friend first. Then you can decide if you really want to kiss him or be with him. Don't make any decisions until you spend more time with him - you don't wanna waste your kisses!
Kelly G.

by kaitlin177 on 5/25/2012 4:03:41 PM


I am finishing eighth grade this year,and there's this guy that I've liked since seventh grade. He's really nice to me, and I'm almost positive that he likes me back. He gave me so many hints, but I couldn't bring up the courage to ask him out. I am going to a different high school next year, and I really like this guy! My friends told me that I should tell him about my feelings for him, but I don't know if I can do it! I don't know if I can keep a long distance relationship with him! the high school I'm going to is really hard, so I won't have as much free time as I do now! He's my first crush and I've really liked him since the beginning of seventh grade! Please help me!!!

Hey girl,

Now's your chance! Since you're going to a new school you might as well tell him how you feel. If you want, you can always wait until you get settled in your new school and see if you still have feeling for him even though you aren't seeing him. If you still like him, and find that you do have some extra time you could devote to being his girlfriend, then you can ask to hang out and tell him! 
Kelly G.

by flowerpower905 on 5/25/2012 3:02:05 PM


Hey, all first kisses are awkward. But it's something you should both laugh about, not insult each other over. And he's being a jerk about it. Dump him, you'll feel better after. Smile

by OMGabi on 5/25/2012 8:32:43 AM


I recently started crushing on one of my classmates. We're friendly at school, but we don't have many mutual friends and we don't really talk/hang out outside of school. The thing is, we're a lot a like and have tons of mutual interests and opinions, and we're going to the same college in the fall. I think even if he isn't interested in dating me, we could be really great friends. How should I let him know that I want to get to know him better?

Hey babe,

Especially since you're going to the same college in the fall, you should strike up a convo and chat! You might not become besties right away, but ya gotta start somewhere Smile Try adding him as a friend on Facebook to start things off. Then, send him a message or chat with him and say something about going to the same college next year, then ask him a question or two - like, "What are you thinking of majoring in?" or "Are you excited to find out which dorm you're living in?!" Be yourself but also be friendly and reach out to him! He'll probably appreciate having a friend to face freshman year with Smile And it'll be a great way to bond!
Lauren C.

by Ari on 5/24/2012 11:30:42 PM


Mod mod mod
I have a crush on my BGF we r in 7th grade my friend tol him I like him and he tends to flirt with everyone but a lot with me we joke alot and get along great I'm a wicked tomboy so we like the same things I know he likes a mean popular girl but acts like he could like me too when he was walking home from track I was in the car and he stopped talking to his friend and waved my friend told him we would make a cute couple and he got closer and said I know he also used to sit next to me but got moved for talking to me to much today I went into his class at study skills to ask my friend something and when I was walking out he grabbed my hood and he knows I hate hugs so he opened his arms real wide to give me a hug! He is one boy who will always give me the time of day. Although he can be perverted

Hey girlie,

He totally sounds like he's flirting! It's kinda normal for guys his age to be a lil "perverted" (they're going through puberty and have weird senses of humor right now), but he sounds like he acts sweet and flirty around you. Enjoy it - and don't forget to flirt back so you can see where it goes Smile
Lauren C.

by Farmer16 on 5/24/2012 8:58:33 PM


My bf and I have been dating for a week, but I never really get a chance/ do not know how to talk with him. I want to know more about him before we further our relationship, but I do not know where to start. I do not want to just bombard him with questions. Plus, what are some ideas on how to start a text conversation with him? Thanks!


Hey Chica,

Good idea-it's great that you want to get to know him better before going further in your relationship. You don't need to bombard him with questions, try starting with something simple. Ask him about his siblings or his parents. You'll be surprised how much conversation will come from one question. When you're starting a text conversation say, "Hey, what are you up to?" or "How was your day?". He'll have plenty to say back.

Marisa D.

by Bridgge2010 on 5/24/2012 3:56:58 PM


My crush is my best friend of course. He is so sweet and always flirts with me. We went to the park alone before and then to the movies, where he bought everything. I'm not sure if it was a date or not. And then when he asked a bunch of us to go to the movies and I said I couldn't, he then canceled on everyone else. The problem is, he used to like this one girl(my friend) and whenever he is around her, he acts different. Not mean, but he is always flirting with her. I guess I really just want to know if he likes me and what I should do now that it's summer. My family is going kayaking next week, should I ask him to join? And also, what can I do to motivate myself for excercise?

Hey Chica!

Of course he is your best friend! It always seems to work out that way, doesn't it? That sounds like a date to me, especially if he offered to pay for everything. Does he flirt with her the same way he flirts with you? Then he might like both of you. If so, give him some time. Keep hanging out and your relationship could turn into something more. I say you def want to invite him kayaking. What a great way to spend some time together! Whether you go as friends or not, you'll have a fab time. How to motivate yourself to exercise? Why don't you pair up with a friend? Make a pact to go running four times a week or do laps at the pool. Motivate each other!  

Marisa D.

by pinto.lover on 5/24/2012 2:58:32 PM


MOD!! I'm so confused! this guy and I have kinda been texting and he always says he doesn't like me. but he acts like he does! he says he talking to one of the girls he likes an they might go out later in the summer, so I asked him if he'd give my number to one of his friends then he totally flipped out and was tellin me how the other guy wouldn't think I'm good enough for him and how he prob wouldn't go out with me. also how I'd have to text the guy first because his friend nvr texts girls first even I he like them (so he says). me and the guy(who I text) said he'd just give me his friends number but he just randomly stopped texting me and nvr gave me the guys number! wth I'm so confused! so does the guy that says he doesn't like me actually like me since he got jealous and got pissed? PLEASE HELP!!!!


Hey  Girl! 

This guy may not want you to talk to other guys because he does like you, and he may not be able to show his emotions well, so he comes off as a jerk. It is also possible that this guy is a jerk and is picking on you for some reason. If this is the case, let him go! There are always more guys out there and I bet some of them are a whole lot nicer.


by FootballG2518 on 5/24/2012 1:12:49 AM

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