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I am 17 I weigh 134.2 I am average height 5'2" but I wear a size 34A bra that is too small for my age and weight and height I really want bigger boobs
My 14 year old sister is a 34D she is 5'1" and weighs 115 I don't get how she can be way smaller than me but with bigger boobs ( oh and we got our bra sizes checked at Victoria secret)
Is there any way to get them bigger I mean it is so embarrassing in the summer when all the guys think your 14 year old sister is older than you
Or is there any way I can look older? Please help me I swear if you were me you would hate being compared to your little sister too
It's so bad we have to go to different schools!
by Ooothatgirl on 6/2/2013 7:44:26 PM
by AGirl123 on 4/28/2013 12:51:21 AM
I'm only 13 and my mom always says "those guys r checking u out!" and they're like way older than me! Well, it does help boost self confidence i guess and it's better than being bullied
by ColosalMascara on 8/30/2012 11:21:59 AM
I have the same problem. Its terrible. And some of my closest friends are boys and they stare too and are awkward. I have like two guy friends that don't out of 10.
by romanticbookworm13 on 8/27/2012 12:08:19 PM
Same here..at school, in my grade ive got the biggest butt and boobs and they just stare and i feel violated i guess. Theyball like me and the other girls hate me for it but i cant help it! Seems awesome, but it really isnt.
by cuddlebug143 on 8/7/2012 5:55:54 PM
Hey guys, so I get crushes, like every normal girl, but unlike everyone else, no one ever likes me back. I was in love with this guy on my lacrosse team for about 6 months, but he never noticed me. Idk how to talk to guys and I'm not exactly sure how to flirt either. Does anyone have any suggestions? People tell me I'm pretty, but I need to know how to go the extra mile in that I want guys to notice me! Pleasepleaseplease help me...!!!
Xoxo, Austiyn )
by DreamOfLuv on 7/16/2012 8:23:14 PM
Thats to bad but exactly what are you wearig maybe you shoupd get a tankini or a cover up and tell them to leave you alone or give hem attitude
by zania on 7/15/2012 4:24:57 AM
Whoever this happens to, call the boys out. Tell them they suck. The commodification of women's bodies in this culture is awful.
by peaches and raspberries on 7/14/2012 1:05:13 PM
by cats-r-the-best on 7/5/2012 11:32:09 AM
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by cats-r-the-best on 7/5/2012 11:25:52 AM
by iloveonedirection on 6/25/2012 3:50:48 PM
Ugh not 23 I'm 13 oops... Epic fail
by Peacerox21 on 6/25/2012 12:36:03 PM
Ugh that happens to me I'm 23 and a 32C and have to wear Levi's supreme curve jeans ugh! I just wear board shorts over my swimsuit or boyshorts and a bandeau tankini that is a halter because it allows for more boob coverage. Guys never notice me until I wear a swimsuit too! It gets annoying but I just know they're perverted and immature and they'll gets over and that theyre not worth my time at the moment.
by Peacerox21 on 6/25/2012 12:35:39 PM
Lots of people WANT to look older think of yourself lucky and stay happy and just think how this can be a PRO not a CON.
by OrangeR on 6/23/2012 11:10:13 PM
by Nicole79 on 6/22/2012 6:48:45 PM
by jdizzle09 on 6/8/2012 5:56:20 PM
by peaceluvhappiness711 on 6/8/2012 3:55:04 PM
by SuperSwimmer1 on 6/7/2012 3:48:02 PM
by Beachlover1417 on 6/5/2012 12:55:51 PM
by aneesha289 on 6/4/2012 7:15:56 PM
I have a friend who keeps saying she is planning on wearing a thong bikini to one of our future pool parties. I could only imagine the talk that will go around when and if that happens. Part of me thinks she is serious about it.
by luckykel on 6/4/2012 2:00:19 PM
i love to dress in clothes that make me feel comfortable and pretty. EVERY GIRL DESERVES RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES. we are not objects. luckily, i am not that big in the chest, but still i like to wear swimsuits that have some coverage........because a really nice guy will love u for who u are, not your bod.
by ego4fashion on 6/3/2012 1:16:24 AM
Hey TennisGal13, I know the girls you're talking about. At your age girls are going through puberty and interested in the way their bodies are developing. Young ladies are also becoming attracted to boys and they make think the only way to get attention is to wear revealing outfits. I'm glad that you are confident and wear what makes you comfortable. It's so much better to be a leader than a follower. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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Why are there sooo many sluts these dahs? There are girls at my school that come to school in shorts up to their but ad thin strap tanks soo low cut if you can walk by you can see down their tank and push-up bra. Then there are the ones that are too worried about getting dress code and do a safe slut which is when they wear tight which doesnt break leg dress code, along with a tight shirt that makes there boobs stick out which also doesnt break dresscode. It seems like these girls had no dignity and self rescpect. They dress like a prostetute or hooker and worse it that their parents must nit care. It takes skill to come to school dressed like a hoochie ma without guikt. I came to school in a kind of lowcut shirt that showed my bra, along with skinny jeans and i felt so uncomfkrtable with my boobs sticking out and showing a tiny TINY bit.
Love, Christa a.k.a. TennisGal13 Lynae P.
by TennisGal13 on 6/2/2012 3:42:22 AM
No offense ut girl you should chill because my BFG is at least like a DD if not bigger i swear she got some VERY BIG BIG BIG ONES its like craycray and she can handle it but next year at the end of the year ee have a beach day with all girls and boys and she's gonna havr to wear a bikini in front kf the boys at our school and hers are at LEAST a DD and everyone knows it and shes not that concious about it. She excepts that the size of her boobs combined is probabky bigger then the size of her head. If she can go through it i gave full faith that you can too.
by TennisGal13 on 6/2/2012 3:34:30 AM
Same storg kinda. So me and my friends were on a fieldtrip to the zoo to learn about animals and their scientific names and there was a tall, curly-haired, brunetw, hot tennage boy walking around with his not as hot or even cute friend. He was shirtless with his shirt around his neck and his pants sagging in that sexy way. We all could help running to find our friends and show him to them because he was cute and as a teenager our hormones develope and there are some things we just cant help being attracted to in a guy. Vice-versa of your situation.
by TennisGal13 on 6/2/2012 3:26:17 AM
They are guys and thats what they do. I know when I see a cute guy just with nothing on but his swimshorts, no shirt, and he has a nice body I look. So do almost all of my friends, its just what we do when we are this age. I would just cover up if you dont want them to look. I have friends who wear very revealing swimsuits and they get all the attention to.
by luckykel on 6/1/2012 9:43:24 AM
by mayaboo1998 on 5/31/2012 5:10:38 PM
I don't want to start a fight but I personally think GL was only trying to help her. They NEVER tell any girl to starve herself or to not love their body. They encourage girls to love themselves. Just because you can't relate to this article and it may seem bad this may help this girl to be much more comfortable.
by bubbles3956 on 5/31/2012 3:35:10 PM
Here another tip: whenever you get a guy looking at you, put on a brave and tough face to demostrate them that you are NOT a piece of meat and that them going to you just because of your body does not makes you any happy. And if they keep looking at you tell them somethin like ''what are you looking at?!'' or talk to their moms,when they don't see,about their foolish behavior. Good luck girl!!
by kraCy 4 TaylorLautner xD on 5/31/2012 2:50:17 PM
My chest is bigger than most girls my age, so i wear a nice bathing suit with a super cute cover-up over it!! Some cover-ups can get wet, so I just keep it on the whole time!! It helps
by LexiLala:) on 5/31/2012 11:35:20 AM
same problem im 12 and have been a 34c since about fifth grade and im really tall for 12(5'8). that is why i only go to the pool with my girlfriends. this article is pretty helpful thanks GL
by SKYRIM78 on 5/31/2012 10:58:32 AM
Featherr: I am kind of on your side. BUT i would say "when ever you feel uncomfortable just put on a t shirt and just remember do what U think is right." Sarah510:GL is just giving her advise!!!! that does not mean that she HAS to do what they say. Just remember BE WHO YOU WANT TO BE!!!!
by ceceandrocky20 on 5/31/2012 10:44:58 AM
by ceceandrocky20 on 5/31/2012 10:31:25 AM
Well I guess you can see it like that...however I can NOT.
by Sarah510 on 5/31/2012 7:00:20 AM
Just wear a one piece. I'm 13 and a 32C which is bigger than most of my friends (As and Bs) but it runs in my family. I've definitely embraced it lol. Just wear a one piece/tankini or find a bandeau bikini that goes straight across as one big band instead of two triangles. Good luck! And most of all, learn to love your body. Everyone's got things they're self conscious about. Be grateful that your "problem" is one that women all over are wishing they had lol! xx
by fireworks1071 on 5/31/2012 12:45:53 AM
@Sarah510: I don't want to start anything, but I think you should know that the GL staff know what they're doing! Like Rachael A. said, the tip to throw on a T-shirt is to make the girl "ease unwanted attention" (to quote exactly). The GL staff know firsthand what it feels like to go through puberty, and sometimes telling yourself that your body is beautiful the way it is, isn't good enough for really self-conscious girls. If GL just told "I'm Not My Body" to love who she is, that wouldn't help her! I, personally, was exactly like "I'm Not My Body" a couple years ago and when I would throw on a T-shirt I would feel so much more comfortable! If GL just told "I'm Not My Body" to love who she is, that wouldn't help her! I'm so sorry this is really long, but for people who share the feelings that Sarah510 does, please know that the advice GL gives might not be helpful for you, but for the girl with the problem, it could be a lifesaver! (:
by Featherr.♥ on 5/30/2012 11:13:49 PM
same here! it's annoying to think that some guys would only like you for your body :/ but one day they'll change
by kaylarocks2000 on 5/30/2012 10:13:18 PM
umm, i'm 13 and only a 34B. some people think that's an okay size, but not when every other girl in your family has had D's since they were 11. i WISH my boobs were bigger
by guitargirl7321 on 5/30/2012 8:55:46 PM
well i think girlslife gave her good advice. if you dont want boys to stare at your boobs, then dont wear a bikini, wear the tshirt instead!
by tswiftluver13 on 5/30/2012 8:21:32 PM
by dojhallow97 on 5/30/2012 7:10:03 PM
Everyone should definatly be proud of their body, it's a large part of Y-O-U! but, i don't understand when this should even be an issue. why should girls wear a bikini and show so much of their body?? i mean, what's the difference between that and walking outside in a bra and underwear on a hot day??? None really except one is for swimming and the other isn't. I know this is not a popular opinion at all, but it's something to think about...
by Kstar101 on 5/30/2012 6:45:48 PM
by Sarah510 on 5/30/2012 4:32:05 PM
i know how she feels, I'm a 36C, and i usually have a sweatshirt on at skool, because without one on, boys like me 4 that, i want them to like me for who i am, not my cherry trees, and I'm not the skinniest person, I wish i was skinny, but I'm comfortable with who i am, so i could wear bikinis even though I'm not that skinny, cuz really, who do i have to impress with my body? its what matters on the inside not the outside. be comfortable with your body honey buns <3 you only get one till the next life <3 <3 <3
by angie333 on 5/30/2012 4:12:27 PM
I really dislike the way GL responded to this. Guys are being pigs and looking at her body, and they advise her to cover it up? She should be proud of her body, not hiding it! They should be giving her advice on how to respond to the situation, not how to avoid confrontation.
This is why I read Rookie.
by changingfaces on 5/30/2012 3:55:36 PM
thats exactly my situation -_-
by bunniac13 on 5/30/2012 3:47:51 PM
this story completely describes me! xept im not skinny so i cant wear bikinis
by lilmissamazing on 5/30/2012 3:28:15 PM
I feel bad for this girl! She must feel so self-cconscience about herself! Although I feel self-conscience aboyt my small bra size! I am only 12 but I am only a AA36 (double a) I know I shouldn't care but it still bugs me...
by BabyDahl13 on 5/30/2012 3:25:58 PM
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