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Wow that was stupid to "fake dump" him. If you truly care for someone you don't need to "test" them. And it wasn't a "test" for him. He thought it was real and moved on, like a normal person would. Sorry to say but it was your fault that he won't come back, you pushed him away.
by koolkat534 on 11/18/2012 11:02:56 PM
why would you do that? i totally agree with him for not talking to you.
by chapice on 7/23/2012 4:27:01 PM
Why would you do that honestly would you like it if someone did that to you but now its to late so just look to the future and hope that everthing gets better in the for you
by zania on 7/15/2012 4:11:07 AM
Hey i'm sorry but you shouldn't fake dump anyone.Someone in my school did that and a lot of people got mad at him. Don't try that, it just makes everything worse.
by dana0323 on 7/3/2012 12:09:49 PM
Hey lovebugattack, you should try to talking to him. Maybe he's going through something, and drinking alcoholic beverages is the only way he feels he can cope. So see what's going on with him and let him know you are there for him. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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by lovebugattack on 6/19/2012 7:58:05 PM
by Elle ♥ on 6/17/2012 10:05:47 AM
Ouch, Sorry that happened, guess you learned not to ever do that again
by twilight*gurl on 6/15/2012 7:03:56 PM
He probably doesnt like being tested. It doesnt feel good to be dumped
by MsJ on 6/10/2012 12:02:53 AM
Although that was not very nice, you people should understand that she probably did it for a reason. Did you ever think that she could have suspected he was cheating or he was acting rude latly? Ya that was pretty low but we all have made mistakes. Even I have regreted somthing i did. Everyone has at least one regret.
by gleek18 on 6/9/2012 7:41:57 PM
Hey zandrazoo, as soon as exams are done hit him up. Let him know that exam time was a stressful period for you but you're ready to be his girlfriend again. I'm sure he'll understand. Hope this helps! Xoxo
MOD MOD MOD!!!! Exams are coming up and i am really really stessed about it! i i told my boyfriend that i needed a break until exams are done but he didnt say anything about it so i dont know if he wants to get back together after exams. he was my best friend and now he isnt talking to me! I really miss him as my best friend and i really do want to get back together after school???? What should i do??? Lynae P.
by zandrazoo on 6/9/2012 11:49:56 AM
I don't want to offend anyone but...not a very smart move on your part, girl...
by metrostation3xx on 6/8/2012 12:34:29 AM
well, I'm sure if someone "fake-dumped" you you would be mad too! TREAT OTHERS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED!
by Glitterheart16 on 6/8/2012 12:09:49 AM
WHY WOULD YOU EVEN THINK OF DOING THAT?!?!?!! That is low even for me and I know low! Omg you...you...your despicable!
by Firefox101 on 6/7/2012 9:47:35 PM
by ljbdaisy on 6/7/2012 8:54:40 PM
I don't care. Fake dumping somebody to ''test the waves''? That's just really cruel. Who would do something like that??? She deserves it, end of story. You'll the only one that feels bad for her. She's really dumb and stupid.
by Sarah510 on 6/7/2012 8:00:11 PM
Wow... look I have no right to accuse you of any thing because I have NO IDEA what your relationship was like with him. But what you did was cold. I know what your boyfriend is or was feeling. But stay strong and if you can't be his girlfriend, maybe try to be his friend instead.
by Peach'N'Cream on 6/7/2012 7:58:07 PM
i cant even believe that you would do that! playing with someones heart is a horrible thing to do, put your self in his shoes. Would you think that him "pretending" to break up with you is a good way to test your feelings for him? NO. well atleast you learned that it is not funny or helpful to toy with someones feelings
by aliyah32367 on 6/7/2012 6:59:18 PM
Yeah, that was really mean what you did. I don't blame the guy. Now you learned a lesson.
by Gabriella123 on 6/7/2012 6:20:06 PM
WOW. you deserve what you get - that's so incredibly mean!!!
by guitargirl7321 on 6/7/2012 4:57:48 PM
not to be rude but its your fault you played with someones feelings and they didn't appreciate it
by Miepster99 on 6/7/2012 3:07:04 PM
Not to be rude but seriously? If he didn't like you he wouldn't have dated you let alone TALK to you. That was a jerk move. But as long as you learns from your mistakes they aren't really mistakes.
by Thespianstar on 6/7/2012 2:47:45 PM
by TeamAlice33 on 6/7/2012 1:03:09 PM
OMG! i guess that showed he did have feelings! that was really rude of you, not to be mean, but you kinda deserve it. sorry, but if i had a bf and he did that to me i would never get back with him cause im not a game.
by j4zm09 on 6/7/2012 10:54:12 AM
hey not trying to hate but if he didn't know it was a test, it was all real to him. you could've just said you wanted to try a break! just saying
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by ColosalMascara on 6/7/2012 6:39:36 AM
no offence but that shows her not to mess with other people's hearts!
by eclipsechick12 on 6/6/2012 11:13:26 PM
You guys! Stop hating on her! She probably Did it because she was feeling unsure about they're relationship. Maybe he did something to make her unsure of they're relationship. Whatever it was i'm sure she had a reason. She probably feels bad enough about it, don't say mean things and make it worse.
by GLIs Awesome on 6/6/2012 10:10:43 PM
that was really stupid i cant believe you did that!!!
by opptop on 6/6/2012 8:53:54 PM
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by baileybluu on 6/6/2012 8:08:54 PM
I have a few things to say here: First of all, to do this sort of thing to anybody, you are heartless and cruel! Second: don't expect to get a boyfriend after this because that guy probably just went and told all his friends what you did! Your mistake was thinking that this guy would kiss the ground you walked on to get you back. Last of all, I have ten words for you: You deserved what you got; hope you learned your lesson!
by christineah111 on 6/6/2012 8:06:22 PM
wow this girl was stupid. she deserves it! lol that poor guy.
by Alykat18 on 6/6/2012 7:52:28 PM
My dad did this to my mom when they were dating! But luckily, she took him back.
by teamjacob0625 on 6/6/2012 7:46:16 PM
Omg that is was so mean of you!! I hope you learned your lesson.."fake breaking up" isn't nice
by maggie183 on 6/6/2012 7:33:30 PM
You were asking for it. It's not his fault ; it's your fault. So please stop complaining and get on with the rest of you life.
by Sarah510 on 6/6/2012 6:55:48 PM
Aww that's so sad, but it is not the guy's fault,I would have done the same thing...
by carinaamina on 6/6/2012 6:41:22 PM
This boy wont stop staring at me and i dont like it. He just randomly turns around and looks at me out of the corner of his eye and it makes me really uncomfertable. What do i do i dont want to talk to him becuase i think hes really wierd and creepy. So how do i make him stop without talking to him??????????????
by ladyinlike on 6/6/2012 6:09:18 PM
Awww!<3 I feel sorry for you!
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by maddysadvice on 6/6/2012 5:35:14 PM
That was not smart. I feel bad for the guy. I mean, you don't "test" someones feelings like that. If I were him, I sure wouldn't get back together. Looks like you had to learn not to mess with peoples feelings the hard way.
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by hockeygirl1999 on 6/6/2012 4:47:38 PM
Umm, wow. Yeah, next time just ask him about his feelings! If he isn't brave enough to tell you, he isn't worth it.
by gigglez77 on 6/6/2012 4:34:20 PM
by Cowsrule11 on 6/6/2012 4:28:38 PM
Wow, I bet you wont be doing that again. I think its best just to be honest because if you arent things like this can happen. Just try to gain his trust back and see what happens.
by luckykel on 6/6/2012 4:06:06 PM
WHY would you do that? If i were him, I would think you didn't trust me or something like that...
by susper on 6/6/2012 3:43:55 PM
Something similar happened to my friend. So this guy that she was crushing on asked her out, (finally) they were a couple for only 2 HOURS! Then he said i dont really want to go out with you anymore, i liked it better when we were just friends,so she broke up with him, and then he told her the truth. She was just a practice for asking out another girl. I still want to smack him in the face. Carrie R.
by foodiejr99 on 6/6/2012 2:51:04 PM
Fake dumping your bf is not smart- and this just proves it. You also shouldn't pretend to be dead just to see if he (or someone else) would be sad. They tend to freak out. Just talk to people (especially guys) if you want to know how they feel about u.
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