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Hey pinkballerina25, yeah definitely reach out to him! He said you were pretty and hot, so you have nothing to loose. Maybe get his number and text him. Here are some great articles GL has on flirting, click links below to read. Xoxo

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/01/03/How-to-ask-out-a-guy-without-sounding-desperate.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/06/01/Hook-a-hottie-How-to-play-it-cool.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/03/02/8-gotta-try-spring-break-flirting-tips.aspx

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okay so i need some advice. I like this guy. He went to my school which got out last week. A lot of girls like him and think he's hot and stuff and he doesn't hang out with anybody that I'm friends with. He just cut his hair and it looks really good and now even more girls like him or think he's cute or whatever. I've like him all year since the beginning of school and I never really did anything about it. He had two girlfriends during the year and they both were nothing like me. At the beginning of the year he told his friends and stuff that he thought i was hot and really pretty. I don't know if i should text him or just do nothing cuz i don't think he likes me. ALSO... i was wondering if you could give me any advice for how to be more flirty and forward with guys without being obvious or annoying. Thanks so much and sorry for the long message.

Lynae P.

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Okay, so there's this guy that I (think) I like... I don't really know if I do or not! I've known him since 1st grade, and we've always been friends. I "went out" with him in like, 4th grade, then broke up with him in 5th. Now I'm in 10th grade and I'm pretty sure I like him again. He's super duper sweet, funny, cute, and he shares the same interests as I do! But one time, my friend asked me to ask him who he likes, and he said three girls; but none of them were me. :/ I try not to act all disappointed and all, but I can't help it some times. He always acts like he likes me though! He always jokes around and is really sweet, and sometimes invites me over to his house! I'm just really confused. I'm pretty sure he only likes those girls because of how "hot" they are; not because of their personality! I wouldn't call myself UGLY, but I'm pretty sure I'm at least a little bit beautiful; people tell me all the time! Sorry this is so long, but please help! Thank you so much!

Hey chicky, sounds like you need to make sure ya move out of the friend zone with this guy. Try asking him to do something that would be more like a real date, instead of just going over to his house. Ask him to go to the movies or out to dinner, and make it clear that you wanna go as more than friends. If he makes an excuse not to, then he's probably not interested. But if he says yes, then he may just have been mentioning those other girls to get you jealous.

Carrie R.

by twinkleglimmer on 6/19/2012 2:41:20 AM

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ok...I don't go to the same school as my crush, who is also my friend. My crush gets bullied though and for some reason not very many people like him. I don't get to see him again until September when I start acting classes again, so I can't talk to him about this. I even cry sometimes because I don't know how I can help right now. What can I do?
Oh and one more thing...do I ask to many questions on here? I'm SUPER sorry if I do.

hey! You can never ask us mods too many questions! We are here for you guys and it's what we love to do, so ask away! If your crush is being bullied, it's probably affecting his self image, so you should be sure to give him a lot of really sincere complements when you do see him or talk to him. You should also try to persuade him to tell authority figures at his school about what is happening. They can help it stop! good luck!

Helen S.

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by dancersport1999 on 6/18/2012 8:04:18 PM

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This Friday im going to a pool party. All of my friends are wearing bikinis. I have a bikini, a tankini, and i might be getting a full piece soon. i kinda look good in a bikini, but i am not flat and have a little fat right below my bikini top. i kinda want to wear a bikini but im not sure if ill look good bcuz of my stomach. its not like im fat, bcuz i play traveling soccer, run, and basketball and i am fit. my stomach is also not very tan. do you think i would look bad if wore a bikini, or should i just stick to a tankini or full piece??? Thanks a lot!

Hey chica! I'd wear whatever makes you feel the most comfortable. If you want to wear a bikini, I'd go for it! I'm sure you'll look great, and you'll have tons of fun. If you have confidence, you'll look awesome in whichever type of bathing suit you choose

xxx

Becca G.

by soccer.bear1 on 6/17/2012 9:52:02 PM

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Okay, so I have been in Summer break for about 2 weeks now and at the beginning of the summer I told myself I wouldn't think about this boy at school. I was going to tell him I liked him on the last day but we are in middleschool and can't really K.I.T. over the summer. I decided not to tell him, and I am wondering should I tell him when I get back??? We are really good friends at school, and it the feelings aren't mutual I will ruin it. Also his friend (who is my friend too) told him a couple of months ago and our friend said that my crush doesn't like me back. I love our friendship, but should I tell and risk it? Also it would be an akward rest of the year if he said no... IDK. PLZ reply!

I think you should give it time. Continue to get to know him! Talk to him and become closer friends. Then something might happen between you. But don't force anything. Liek you said, you might ruin the friendship. Good luck! xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

by madisonk714 on 6/16/2012 11:52:32 PM

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Please help me! This girl at my school had an illness that caused her to be out of school almost the entire year. Prior to her absence, we were friends, but I didn't really like her. Now, she is better and wants to catch up and hang out. I don't really know what to do because on one hand, I feel really bad, since before her illness, she only had a few friends, including me. But, I don't want to start a relationship that I'm stuck in! Please help me do the right thing. I really don't want to hurt her feelings, but I feel obligated to be her friend. Thanks!

I say give her a chance. Dont go all out with like sleepovers etc. But maybe try a lunch together at school and see if you get along. You may find you like her and become good friends. Good luck! xoxo kerra

by elizaxoxo7 on 6/16/2012 10:41:04 PM

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