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Hey pinkballerina25, yeah definitely reach out to him! He said you were pretty and hot, so you have nothing to loose. Maybe get his number and text him. Here are some great articles GL has on flirting, click links below to read. Xoxo

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/01/03/How-to-ask-out-a-guy-without-sounding-desperate.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/06/01/Hook-a-hottie-How-to-play-it-cool.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/03/02/8-gotta-try-spring-break-flirting-tips.aspx

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okay so i need some advice. I like this guy. He went to my school which got out last week. A lot of girls like him and think he's hot and stuff and he doesn't hang out with anybody that I'm friends with. He just cut his hair and it looks really good and now even more girls like him or think he's cute or whatever. I've like him all year since the beginning of school and I never really did anything about it. He had two girlfriends during the year and they both were nothing like me. At the beginning of the year he told his friends and stuff that he thought i was hot and really pretty. I don't know if i should text him or just do nothing cuz i don't think he likes me. ALSO... i was wondering if you could give me any advice for how to be more flirty and forward with guys without being obvious or annoying. Thanks so much and sorry for the long message.

Lynae P.

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Okay so i have a guy a like.
I got his number from my cousin ( since they go to church together). I know i him from their church too, since i go there sometimes. I texted him and got no response, it been 3 days. So yesterday i asked her to text him too and she got no response either, What does this mean? Its the right number and all... i really like him.. maybe i creeped him out? help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Hey girlie,

Since he didn't reply to your cousin either, I'm not sure this means you creeped him out. Maybe something is wrong with his phone. Maybe he doesn't get texts. Maybe he just doesn't like texting! Whatever it is, don't be too bummed out. Try talking to him next time you're at church and getting to know him in person. After some time passes and you grow closer to him, you can try texting again. Just take it slow so you don't come on too strong - and take it one day at a time!

Lauren C.

by xBlessTheBroken on 7/19/2012 8:30:00 PM

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I was texting my guy friend one day and suddenly he asked me out. I'm only 11, and I know that's too young to have a BF and I don't want one yet. I said no, but I didn't say it very nice. Now he always complains to me about how I broke his heart and then he says "But you probably couldn't care less about what I just said." He's annoying me and making me feel so bad, I don't even feel like talking to him anymore. Whenever I try to tell him I don't want to hear it, he just keeps complaining. Is there anyway I can get him to back off?

Hey girl, well first of all girls mature much quicker than boys, so the fact that you know you're not ready and he's making you feel bad, points for you! That's very strong of you to know exactly what you want. I think you should just give him some space to cool off. And if he keeps coming to you and saying these things, you should tell him very politely, that you're not ready for a BF and that's that. You appreciate him asking you, but you would appreciate it if he would stop bugging you about the fact you said no because its not very nice. - No worries, you got it girl!

lauren r.

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by boypolar on 6/27/2012 7:03:07 PM

I have been friends with this one guy since pre k and lets call him N. Well n and i had to do a projec together and this one girl is always making fun of me. Know he has been sanding up for me and he hasnt done that before is this a sign he likes me. His friend lets call him L he figured out that he thinks N likes me. Also my friends say he does and i am so confused. Help.

Hey babe, sounds like this guy is crushin' on you. You can't always rely on what your friends report, but if he's sticking up for you, that's a pretty good sign.

Carrie R.

by loll989 on 6/27/2012 4:06:36 PM

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Ok so over this past baseball season, like this one guy I kinda liked during- which I have gotten over- I have a crush on. v.v (I know it sounds odd). But anyways, during baseball season, he never payed any attention to me. The only time was when he was complimenting my art because I was drawing while at a game (It was raining,had to go in the doug-out,and I was allowed cause' my dad coached the team.). He's the best one on the team and later in the season,season was over, he went onto Allstars, his last game was yesterday. But I'm always running into him (of course, he ignores me and talks to my dad.) But he isn't talkitive. And won't talk or look at me when we're around. He chats w/ my dad a little and goes on about his business. At the start of the season, I figured out that he lives a quater mile from my house. I'm scared to talk to him or go to his house last minute,because I don't know if he likes me AND I don't want him to think I'm little-miss-crushing-stalker.

Hey girl! It sounds like he doesn't know you're interested! Its super sweet that he complimented your art, maybe you can find something to compliment him on the next time you see each other? I wouldn't go to his house without being invited, try striking up a convo with him when you're together. Good luck! xxoo

Maggie P.

by rx7871 on 6/26/2012 3:54:52 PM

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So I kinda like this guy (lets call him A) and I was talking to his best friend (lets cal him B) yesterday. B asked me if I liked A, and isaid kind of. I asked B why and he told me he thinks that A liked me to. I'm not sure if A told B he liked me though. Do you think that this could mean anything coming from his best friend?
Thanks so much! All you mods are great!!

It could definitely mean something! It's tough to tell because it's not coming from A's mouth, but it's a good sign - it probably means you've been talked about and maybe A has mentioned something. But don't rest just on this - talk to A, get to know him better, flirt. If you like him, go for it and see where things go!

by Abby1123 on 6/21/2012 10:18:37 PM

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I was hanging out with this 19 yr old guy with some of my gals and his friend. And the 19 yr old kissed me. Im 14 And he knew, I mean hes crushable its just wrong right? (and guys never like me so idk whats going on!!!)

Hey babe, I don't think it's the best idea simply because 19 year ol boys don't generally take girls that young seriously. They tend to only be after one thing.

Jordan S.

by watergal47 on 6/19/2012 10:19:12 PM

Hey megagirrl, did you make it clear to him that you felt the same way? Maybe he backed off because he was confused about how you were feeling. Give it some time and see if he texts you, or you can text him and see how it goes. Sometimes it takes being away from someone and not talking to them, to see how much you miss them. Hope this helps! Xoxo

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A couple weeks ago, I told my crush that I liked him. He likes to mess with me a lot. I ALWAYS thought he was being mean to me, but one day I asked him why was he so mean to me? And he said he was just messing with me and he likes to see my reaction. I don't know if that's a good thing or bad thing. We used to text like everyday, but now it's like not at all. I also asked him if he liked anyone to see if he liked me, but he always told me no one. I can't tell if he likes me. Help? Lynae P.

by megagirrl on 6/19/2012 5:57:41 PM

Hey ealaplante, click this link: http://www.girlslife.com/category/ice-breakers.aspx, for a whole list of articles on talking to your crush. Hope they help, good luck girly! Xoxo

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i like these two guys and i rlly want to get to know them better. idk if they have phones or not so i dont know how to ask them for their number. Thursday might be the last day i see one of them cause we dont go to the same school and he will be too old for our track team. The other i have liked for a while and because he is one of my friends it is really hard to like him. I think the one that i wont see again likes me so if that in anyway helps i just want an answer. Please. i need help mostly with the one that likes me because i might not see him again and my friends think we would be a good couple but he doesnt know that. I could go on and on about likeing one of my close bgfs but please help me with either Lynae P.

by ealaplante on 6/19/2012 5:23:46 PM

This is easy, its summer so go for the best looking one. Its not like you are going to marry him so I would go for the hottie.

by luckykel on 6/19/2012 12:47:23 PM

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Okay, so there's this guy that I (think) I like... I don't really know if I do or not! I've known him since 1st grade, and we've always been friends. I "went out" with him in like, 4th grade, then broke up with him in 5th. Now I'm in 10th grade and I'm pretty sure I like him again. He's super duper sweet, funny, cute, and he shares the same interests as I do! But one time, my friend asked me to ask him who he likes, and he said three girls; but none of them were me. :/ I try not to act all disappointed and all, but I can't help it some times. He always acts like he likes me though! He always jokes around and is really sweet, and sometimes invites me over to his house! I'm just really confused. I'm pretty sure he only likes those girls because of how "hot" they are; not because of their personality! I wouldn't call myself UGLY, but I'm pretty sure I'm at least a little bit beautiful; people tell me all the time! Sorry this is so long, but please help! Thank you so much!

Hey chicky, sounds like you need to make sure ya move out of the friend zone with this guy. Try asking him to do something that would be more like a real date, instead of just going over to his house. Ask him to go to the movies or out to dinner, and make it clear that you wanna go as more than friends. If he makes an excuse not to, then he's probably not interested. But if he says yes, then he may just have been mentioning those other girls to get you jealous.

by twinkleglimmer on 6/19/2012 2:41:20 AM

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ok...I don't go to the same school as my crush, who is also my friend. My crush gets bullied though and for some reason not very many people like him. I don't get to see him again until September when I start acting classes again, so I can't talk to him about this. I even cry sometimes because I don't know how I can help right now. What can I do?
Oh and one more thing...do I ask to many questions on here? I'm SUPER sorry if I do.

hey! You can never ask us mods too many questions! We are here for you guys and it's what we love to do, so ask away! If your crush is being bullied, it's probably affecting his self image, so you should be sure to give him a lot of really sincere complements when you do see him or talk to him. You should also try to persuade him to tell authority figures at his school about what is happening. They can help it stop! good luck!

Helen S.

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by dancersport1999 on 6/18/2012 8:04:18 PM

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This Friday im going to a pool party. All of my friends are wearing bikinis. I have a bikini, a tankini, and i might be getting a full piece soon. i kinda look good in a bikini, but i am not flat and have a little fat right below my bikini top. i kinda want to wear a bikini but im not sure if ill look good bcuz of my stomach. its not like im fat, bcuz i play traveling soccer, run, and basketball and i am fit. my stomach is also not very tan. do you think i would look bad if wore a bikini, or should i just stick to a tankini or full piece??? Thanks a lot!

Hey chica! I'd wear whatever makes you feel the most comfortable. If you want to wear a bikini, I'd go for it! I'm sure you'll look great, and you'll have tons of fun. If you have confidence, you'll look awesome in whichever type of bathing suit you choose

xxx

Becca G.

by soccer.bear1 on 6/17/2012 9:52:02 PM

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Okay, so I have been in Summer break for about 2 weeks now and at the beginning of the summer I told myself I wouldn't think about this boy at school. I was going to tell him I liked him on the last day but we are in middleschool and can't really K.I.T. over the summer. I decided not to tell him, and I am wondering should I tell him when I get back??? We are really good friends at school, and it the feelings aren't mutual I will ruin it. Also his friend (who is my friend too) told him a couple of months ago and our friend said that my crush doesn't like me back. I love our friendship, but should I tell and risk it? Also it would be an akward rest of the year if he said no... IDK. PLZ reply!

I think you should give it time. Continue to get to know him! Talk to him and become closer friends. Then something might happen between you. But don't force anything. Liek you said, you might ruin the friendship. Good luck! xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

by madisonk714 on 6/16/2012 11:52:32 PM

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Please help me! This girl at my school had an illness that caused her to be out of school almost the entire year. Prior to her absence, we were friends, but I didn't really like her. Now, she is better and wants to catch up and hang out. I don't really know what to do because on one hand, I feel really bad, since before her illness, she only had a few friends, including me. But, I don't want to start a relationship that I'm stuck in! Please help me do the right thing. I really don't want to hurt her feelings, but I feel obligated to be her friend. Thanks!

I say give her a chance. Dont go all out with like sleepovers etc. But maybe try a lunch together at school and see if you get along. You may find you like her and become good friends. Good luck! xoxo kerra

by elizaxoxo7 on 6/16/2012 10:41:04 PM

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...And just about anything else, like I can't think of anything you CANT ask me about.
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by maggie183 on 6/16/2012 8:38:30 PM

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by karasinski on 6/16/2012 1:16:15 PM

Hey superstarlala, try talking to your parents again. Tell them how much you enjoyed your school and would love to continue learning there. Maybe if you stress to them how much you want to stay, they'll change their mind. Hope this helps! Xoxo

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So I went to Private school from K-8th grade (I'll be a junior next year). My school goes up through 12th grade and I was hoping to be able to stay there but it was so expensive so I had to go to public school. Well my sister will be an 8th grader next year so after 8th grade she should be switching to public school, but the problem is my parents don't like the public school I go to and want to keep my sister in private school. I am really upset about this because although I was bullied there, I loved the school and wished that I had the option to stay there through 12th grade. I don't know what to do because I think it's unfair that my sister gets to stay there till 12th grade even though it's not my decision. Please help! Lynae P.

by superstarlala on 6/16/2012 12:57:59 PM

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This guy that I've liked for a while and I exchanged numbers on the last day of school and he made sure to tell me that day that he was definitly joining the summer swim league with me. I texted him yesterday and he responded in less than a minute and we were talking and I told him about the surgery that I had had that morning. I told him I couldn't swim and he asked how long I couldn't swim, and I said for just a week thankfully, and he was like "good. I was kinda scared for you". Does it seem like he might like me?

Hey girlie,

It sounds like he's probably interested in you based off his concern. Try giving flirting a try and see how he reacts! Jordan S.

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