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Ok so there's this guy in my martial arts class I kinda like but he's also my bgf. Believably he teases me a LOT. So here's the hard part: he's been on the wrong side of one of my kicks before and apparently it hurts. So I know when he teases me I merely draw my fist back and he stops. I mean, I know he's just being my friend and we tease each other all the time but... Is there a more attractive way to quiet him than drawing back my fist? Don't get me wrong, he knows I would never (intentionally) hurt him but… I need a better method. And soon!!! Please help ASAP!!!!

Instead of threatening him with violence, I would try talking to him about the teasing. Just say that you don't like how it makes you feel, even if he says things in a joking way. If he's your bgf, he'll understand and will stop teasing you!

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My ex was a jerk to me when we broke up, and said a bunch of mean things about me on FB. I started ignoring him and such and now he said he wanted to be friends and he kept texting me about that! Now he always come by my house and shows off!! What does this mean!?

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how can i make a conversation to a guy without sounding annoying & desperate ?
thanks!

 

Hey girl, just talk about whatever makes you comfortable. If its about school or music or whatever. See what your likes are. Spark a conversation maybe by complimenting something he's wearing. 

There is this guy i like! He is the PERFECT guy for me! He knows i like him but i'm afraid that he wont ever like me! He is going to my school next year, so hopefully we will have some classes together! I like him a lot and i'm afraid that if he doesn't like me, then i will be heart broken!! What to do!! What to do!!

 

All I can say is keep it cool. If he knows you like him, he may at first be intimidated being around you, and might not know how to act (because he hasn't figured out if he likes you or not). So keep it cool. If you have classes with him or start to become better friends and hangout in the same crowd, show him what an awesome girl you are. Be flirty, but not flirty to the point that he is annoyed. Even flirt with other boys (but careful not to lead them on) and show that you're just an all around great girl. Help him out and be nice, but treat everyone else the same so that he doesn't notice any special treatment. Give him time to figure out his feelings, and hopefully, he'll try it out with you! If not, you'll be upset. But don't let it get to you! There are TONS of other fish in the sea, and right now just might not be the right time. Boys' minds are constantly changing so if it doesn't work out this year, maybe next year!