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My BF is out of town--should I make a move on my crush?

I like this guy, and he likes me. But my BF is out of town, and I have no way of contacting him to tell him...
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Oh Yes! If your so called bf never calls you, it probably means he is cheating or not even interested anymore. If you really like him then go for it. Summer is the time for romance and now you can spend it with your crush and your new bf.

by luckykel on 6/28/2012 4:16:05 PM


My boyfriend and I made out for the first time yesterday and while it was really nice I have two questions:
1. He went in with tongue right away. He's really great with his tongue and it was nice but how do I make sure there's more... buildup? Like closed mouth making out?
2. What should I do with my lips when we do use tongue? We kinda just had our mouths open and did tongue and I think usually your supposed to move your mouths/lips, right?

Hey girl!  The thing about kissing is that everyone has their own way to do it and different ways work for different people.  Maybe ask your bf to slow it down a little and tell him that you like closed mouth kissing too!  As for your other question, just do what feels right for you and what you're comfortable with! xxoo 
Maggie P.

by sunshinelollypop on 6/28/2012 3:02:14 PM


Ok so I have this really good friend but she lives in another state from me so we dont see each other a lot but we see each other once a year for 2 weeks over 4th of July and it's always like no time has passed even though we dont really keep in touch as much during the year shes coming tonight and I found out the two of us are meeting up with this other girl in the morning Im not as good friends with the other girl and I always feel like a third wheel when we all hang out together but we have to hang out a lot because my friends grandma sets it up I also found out that my really good friend has been keeping in touch with the other girl all year and I'm afraid when she comes I'll be immediately forgot on.


Hey girl!  Don't worry about your friend forgetting you, if you've made it this long, I'm sure she's just as excited to see you!  Instead of feeling like a third wheel, enjoy the time you get with her tonight and make sure she knows you've missed her.  When your friend leaves, try and make a little bit more of an effort to stay in touch.  Make up a silly code when she's here this summer and write letters in it all year, or have a necklace you send back and forth to one another.  That will give you your own thing that always reminds her of you.  Don't worry about her friendship with the other girl, it's your friendship with her that matters, and that you can control.  Good luck and have fun!  xoxo 

Kate G.

by myipodrox16 on 6/28/2012 12:01:08 PM


ok so i have three things i need to ask about
1) there is a guy at my school who i have sorta liked over the years but never enough to like ask him out or anything.we both have read the harry potter series and he calls me his "harry potter buddy". the last few weeks of school (which was over a month ago) he kinda flirted with me alot, and he sighned my yearbook "have a great summer harry potter buddy" then he sighned his name, when my friend (who has a huge crush on him) only got his name. But he flirts with lots of girls so i dont know if he likes me or not, and he also flirted with me a a pool party a week aftr school. The problem is i dont have his number or email and i wont see him for all summer, so i dont know what to do!(also i dont have a face book or twitter)
2)i have to have my room cleaned up in two days and it is really messy so do you have any tips?
3)how can i earn my parents trust back, because i get caught up in so many lies?
sorry for long message


Hey girlie!  This guy sounds pretty awesome, but if he flirts with a lot of girls, maybe you should let it simmer over the summer and reconnect when you're back at school.  Also, if your friend has a huge crush on him, you wouldn't want to hurt her by moving in on the guy she likes!  He sounds like a nice guy, and if you don't have a big crush on him, why not let him be a guy friend?  Those are super fun to have around!  As for your room, start by throwing things out that you don't use or wear.  As your parents if they can take you somewhere to donate old clothes and toys you have hanging around, and if they can't in the next few days, ask where you can put the stuff so it isn't taking over your life!  After that, organize by importance: stuff you use a lot should be put somewhere easy to reach and stuff you use less should be put farther away.  Now onto your parents: first off, stop lying to your 'rents!  They love you and want what's best for you, so tell them what's going on.  Once you're open with them, they'll start to trust you more.  Good luck! xoxo 

Kate G.

by radiolovergirl on 6/28/2012 11:45:59 AM


so my best friend has liked this guy for a month now, and i just met him. i kinda like him too, but i'm not sure if as a friend or more. i told her but she hasn't responded yet(text) because i felt guilty for not telling her. i told her that if i did end up liking him, i'd ignore it cause it's not fair for her or him if i interfere(he likes her back). normally this wouldn't be a problem, but i'd really like to have him as a good guy friend. b i feel like if i did he might end up liking me too because me and my best friend are practically the same person. should i still try and be friends with him?


Hey girlie!  Slow down and take a breath, you just met this guy and your bestie has already laid claim to him, so put all ideas of mutual attraction out of your mind. Next, focus on your relationship with your girl- she could be upset that you're moving in on her territory, even if you promised to ignore the situation, she might still be bummed that you're jumping on it so fast.  You should wait a little bit and see how it goes- if he and your friend start dating, you'll spend time with him as a friend, so you can see how it goes from there.  If it turns out you do like him, don't seek out alone time with him- he's your bud's crush for now, and she's more important than he is. Good luck! xoxo  

Kate G.

by karategirl78 on 6/28/2012 10:50:06 AM


I've had a crush on my BGF for about 3 or 4 months now, but I know I want to keep our friendship bcuz its amazing. But its still hard whenever he likes another girl! He has dated a lot of girls since we became friends and 3 girls like him even tho they're two years older than him!!! And lately he seems so distant and weird whenever we tall or tx. I really miss his friendship and just wish for once that he'd pay attention to me!! What should I do??


Hey girlie!  It stinks to have a friend who doesn't give you enough attention: even more so when he's being chased by all sorts of girls!  Let your BGF know you're missing his friendship: nothing more.  I know it might be tempting to jump into telling him about your crush, but he's already juggling more girls than any guy can handle.  By letting him know you want to hang as friends, you're setting yourself apart from the other girls.  You already know don't want to admit your crushin' and lose his friendship, so stay chill for now and be his bud.  Just let him know you aren't interested in hearing about all of his other girls!  Good luck! xoxo

Kate G.

by soccer.bear1 on 6/28/2012 7:30:56 AM


P.S. If any other CL chicas wanna answer my MOD question (if it even gets answered Tong) then please do! I need all the advice I can get! So i!f you do plz answer on my profile. Thanks soooo much! Laughing

by xXMissBehavedXx on 6/27/2012 8:35:00 PM


OMG! I love Dear Carol but seriously? Your boyfriend might not be the best (not calling, etc) but that doesn't mean you're single! I don't think Carol interpreted this post correctly, because going out with your crush while you're STILL IN A RELATIONSHIP with your boyfriend is CHEATING. When your boyfriend gets back, break up with him. THEN feel free to do whatever you want. Please don't make a move on the new guy UNTIL you break up with your boyfriend! Not okay!

by fireworks1071 on 6/27/2012 8:26:51 PM


Ok so I'm really sad and mad right now....my BFF likes like a different guy every few months and every guy she likes winds up liking her back and asking her out. It's not fair...her family is also super rich and she gets everything she wants. I know I'm her best friend and I should be happy for her but...I'm not. I'm sick of this, being around her makes me feel awful about myself. And she didn't even tell me this latest crush of hers asked her out until last night and appriently they've been dating all summer. Am I right to be insulted that she didn't tell me?
Also it's just not fair. I've liked the same guy for the longest time and I swear I'm not ugly or "uncool" or anything but NO GUY has ever asked me out...forget my crush, like NOBODY. Guys have liked me but none have asked me out..and I'm 16. What do I do? I want a bf so much.

Hey babe,

I used to be in the exact same situation, so I know how hard it is.  But, when it comes down to it, it sounds like she may be more harmful as a friend than she is helpful.  Ask yourself if she makes you insecure more often or happy more often.  If it's the former, then I think you should maybe distance yourself from her.

This is something you might have to deal with on your own, because at the core, it's not just her fault, you must have some layer of insecurity that is fueling this.  So just keep that in mind.
Jordan S.

by maggie183 on 6/27/2012 5:30:38 PM


I Have a boyfriend and i love him, but lately i've been thinking about this other guy that loves me soo much and he's been chasing me for almost more than a year now, at first i didnt like that guy ,, but idk why am i thinking a lot about him , yesterday i saw an old chat between him , my boyfriend is an amazing person , idk what to do ! Its not like i wanna cheat or anything , but i feel like i'm falling for the other guy, my friend told me to call him and see how hes doing, but my boyfriend would be CRUSHED if he knew, Idk what to do i cry every night ! i really need advice XoxO

Hey girl, you have two options. First, you can break up with your bf and get to know this other guy as more than a friend. If you're thinkin' about the other guy more than your bf, that might be a sign that your feelings for your bf are fading. And if that's the case, you just have to be honest with your bf. But option two is that you can chat with this other guy and just be friends with him. Your bf should be okay with you having guy friends, and if you wanna get to know this other guy, you can. But as soon as you start thinking of him as more than friends, you gotta tell your bf because otherwise, it's not fair. So decide what you want this other guy to be - a friend, or a bf. 
Carrie R.

by rolapa on 6/27/2012 4:43:53 PM

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