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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three months, and i want to keep everything feeling new and fresh! how do i change things up a bit, whether it's flirting, conversations or just things we can do in general? thank you!

Hey girl!

It's always good to keep things fresh and exciting! Do you two always do the same activities? Try some new ones. Anything that gets you active and moving is good. Go for a run, walk, or bike ride together. Mini-golfing would be fun or maybe seeing a movie on an afternoon where it's way too hot to be outside. As for flirting, just try things you haven't before. Maybe you don't usually compliment him on his outfit choice, but that should help get the flirting going!  

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so i met this guy a couple days ago that my BFF likes. i had a feeling that when i met him, i might like him too just cause my BFF and i have liked the same guy before(never at the same time though). well, now i do and i told her and she's cool with it cause i told her that i would ignore it(he likes her too). we're starting to be good friends, and i feel like he might like me too(he winks a lot over text and we talk a lot). but it's too early to tell, i've only known him for 2 days. i accidently slipped up once with the flirting, but then i realized what i was doing and i stopped. if he does like me, how can i make it clear that we're just gonna be friends? i could never do something like that to my BFF.

 

Just keep the flirting for the other dudes. There's no reason you can't be friends with him, but if he is too flirty or tries to make a move, you could always say something to him. It's too early to say anything because you've only known him for a couple of days. However, once you two become pretty close friends, you can always mention to him that it's going to have to stay that way. You don't have to rat your friend out and tell him that she likes him, but you can just make your friendship status clear to him.