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This girl I don't really like recently got a FB, and my BFF says she'd like to get to know her better because she can talk to her over FB. I usually wouldn't care, but the last time those 2 became friends, there was a TON of drama(3 people were in tears over it and i almost lost her as a friend) and i feel like it'll happen again. if she goes off and ditches me for the other girl, then i'm all alone in my section in band!! i know i'm jumping to conclusions, but it's very well possible. i'm trying to suck it up and attempt to be friends with her too because i figure it'll help, but i'm still skeptical. what should i do? there's no telling what will happen until band camp in August.

It's good that you're trying to give her the benefit of the doubt -- she might have changed! Don't worry about what will happen at band camp yet, because there's still a chance for all of you to get along! Try being nice to her and doing stuff together, and if she's still mean after that, schedule some time to hang out with your bff one-on-one.

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My bf and I hit a rough patch. We're both 15 and have been dating for almost two months. We've been talking and he's said how down the road he wants to have sex. I know that I want to be at least 18 and be with someone I love and may be with forever. He said he wouldn't wait 3 years to go all the way. There is no way I'd make such a huge mistake as to lower my standards for my first time. What should I do? I know we won't last 3 years if he won't wait that long for me! Does he only want me for sex? He's so sweet and caring! I'm so stressed out! Help!

Hey girl!

If your BF says he's willing to wait to have sex, he clearly cares about you and wants it to be the right time for both of you. I don't think you two need to put an exact date on when it's OK, because that just adds pressure to your relationship that you just don't need. If he isn't willing to do whatever it takes for both of you to feel right about it, he's not worth your time.