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So I'm on a travel softball team so we play 4 days a week every single week of summer fall and spring. Winter is my only break from softball, however the school play is in the winter. I'm really in to theatre so I definately am going to do the play. But I'm not sure of something. I dont know if I should just sign up for ensemble or audition for a lead,because I know i could get one. The obvious answer would be to audition for a lead but the only thing is thats the only break I have from softball so I feel like it might be too stressful to have a big part, whereas with ensemble it wouldnt be. what do you think i should do?

 

hey! You just have to decide if having a lead would be worth it to you. Does the thought of putting in all those hours make you cringe or do you light up thinking about your friends and family coming to see your lead performance? 

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okay, long story short, i want to ask my bgf and crush, to go hiking with me one of these days. hes mentioned that he likes to do it but doesnt get to do it often, but idk how to ask him or what to say. a year ago i asked him if we could hang out but he said he wasnt sure but we definately got closer since then. idk what to say or how to ask or if he thinks itll be a date. and hes going to be doing some side work with my dad, so my dad will be getting to know him. i dont mean anything by this, just a friendly thing. im afraid he'll say no. and my dads a bricklayer and he mentioned that he needed someone to help him out with carrying things and stuff and michael needed a job so hes going to work with my dad..maybe thatll make us closer. I just dont want him to think its a date. And alot of times after work my dad takrs me and my brother swimming at my uncles pool. Maybe i can ask for him to come? Please help me. Idk what to say!

 

hey! Just be straight-forward. Ask him to go hiking, and if he asks if it's a date just smile and say nah, you just want to hang out.  He won't think it's a date unless you do.

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ok so my boyfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago. I thought I could handle it, and for a little while I was fine. But now I can't stop thinking about him. He said he wanted us to be friends, but that isn't exactly working out. All I want is to be able to have conversations with him again and maybe one day he'll rethink this whole broken up thing. He liked me a year before I liked him and then we dated for a year. And I just don't understand how he could move on so fast. Should keep trying to get back together, or stay friends or just move no matter how hard it may be??