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My BFF just told me my guy friend likes me. I like him too, but there’s one problem. He’s a little overweight. I can’t get it off my...
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My crush and I were in the same art class last year. We would always flirt together. He did sit with girls (his friends) at lunch. My friends think that he likes me though. In art he would talk to me for the whole class,wink,once we hugged,I've caught him looking @ me,he made me something and gave it to me and told me to put it in my room! I even asked him for his #, and he gave it to me with a smile on his face! But whenever I text him he NEVER responds. I know he gets my texts though.. I flirt back with him, but does he like me or not? Especially since he never texts back and would sit with other girls.. Is he just a player? Does he actually like me- or someone else? Thanks Frown

Hey girl,

He might not like you, or he might just not like texting. But if he's not responding, take a break from texts and try connecting in person. I can't tell you whether or not he likes you, but you can find out by hanging out with him!

Meghan D.

by Run4Life28 on 8/3/2012 6:21:17 PM


I like a guy. He's one of my best friends, but he's not allowed to date until he's sixteen. he likes me but IDK what to do.

by FtLouie on 7/21/2012 8:46:56 PM


I like a guy. He's one of my best friends, but he's not allowed to date until he's sixteen. he likes me but IDK what to do.

by FtLouie on 7/21/2012 8:41:50 PM


hey i like this guy but he lives five hours away from me and is a year older than me... WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?!

Hey girl,

If you can talk over email and the phone, the distance won't matter as much, but it will still be hard! Talk to him if you want to, but stay open to the possibility of new crushes this summer and school year! But if he likes you back, you should talk to him about it so you can make a decision together about what's best for your relationship.

Meghan D.

by hobbzieboo on 7/20/2012 10:55:38 PM



idk if u guys got my comment i sent. a lot of my comments dont go through so um yeah if u could help thanks Smile

by mcw3400 on 7/17/2012 5:02:49 PM


mod mod mod
i met this boy at a band camp in may and he went to a different school but hes gonna be at the same middle school as me and i asked him if he was going to be in band in MS and he said yes!! we joked around a lot and he was really nice to me during the camp and im nervous about seeing him again! what if he doesnt remember me or something! help please!


hey! I'm sure he'll remember you, and if he doesn't just re-introduce your self and he'll be like, "oh yeah, camp was so fun!" and you guys can pick up right where you left off 

Helen S.

by mcw3400 on 7/17/2012 4:52:20 PM


MOD! I'm 16, I've liked an 18 year old guy for the past 3+ years. Just recently, he began showing true signs (that I can't question) that he might be interested (finally!), at least as a good friend, if not more. But we don't see each other on a reg. basis (seperate school), and he has lots of friends who are girls and is a nice guy in general so I can't be sure.(Not a player tho, just very sweet, good Christian guy). I only see him at youth group, and he'll be going away to college next year. So, should I consider this YG season the time to tell him how I feel even if I'm not positive he likes me "like that"? I'm not stupid, I know he's the kind of guy I want! So, be daring and tell him the truth? And, most importantly, how do I say it without being awkward? I feel like I need to tell him, since it's gone on so long.


Hey girl! If you feel like you need to get it off of your chest, go for it!  Be careful, though- if he's going away to college, he might not want to start something at home, especially if his college will be too far away for you to see each other regularly.  If your secret is eating at you, though, you'll have to read the signs he's sending you.  One day, after youth group, tell him you're headed to grab an ice cream and ask if he'd like to join in.  If he says yes, take that as a cute to go ahead and spill the beans.  If he seems hesitant, maybe you should stick to being friends.  Good luck! xoxo

Kate G.

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by pretty123 on 7/16/2012 11:25:49 PM


Mod! Mod! Mod!
I like this boy, but we don't talk & I'm scared I don't want him to find out I like him but I told my friend that we never talked (I trust her I never tell anyone who I like) & she told the biggest BLABBER MOUTH in school & she asked me if I wanted his number! I'm scared she will tell him I like him (Their good friends) & now I don't know if i can trust my bff anymore, please help!

Hey babe,

First off, you should talk to your bff about this.  Let her know that this all made you worry a bit and you're not sure how well you can trust her anymore.  She'll likely tell you that she will be more careful and more secretive from then on.

At this point, there's not much you can do about him finding out.  Either she'll tell him or she won't, but keep in mind that maybe it might end up helping you out.  Who knows, he could like you too.
Jordan S.

by Sami_McDoodle on 7/16/2012 9:34:39 PM


Me and my bf were texting each other tonight and he asked me if I like anyone else. I didn't want him to freak out that I like a guy at my camp so I said no. I asked him y and he said because if it doesn't work out between us then I don't want u to feel lonely. I'm confused of this. I'm thinking this is a hint that he wants to break up with me and doesn't know how. What do u think I should do?

Hey babe,

I think you should have a talk with him about this.  It sounds to me like you might be right, he could be leaning toward ending the relationship.  But, considering you have feelings for another boy as well, would it really be all that terrible for the relationship to end?
Jordan S.

by Ryry1214 on 7/16/2012 9:21:22 PM


mod mod mod mod mod
So I'm on a travel softball team so we play 4 days a week every single week of summer fall and spring. Winter is my only break from softball, however the school play is in the winter. I'm really in to theatre so I definately am going to do the play. But I'm not sure of something. I dont know if I should just sign up for ensemble or audition for a lead,because I know i could get one. The obvious answer would be to audition for a lead but the only thing is thats the only break I have from softball so I feel like it might be too stressful to have a big part, whereas with ensemble it wouldnt be. what do you think i should do?


hey! You just have to decide if having a lead would be worth it to you. Does the thought of putting in all those hours make you cringe or do you light up thinking about your friends and family coming to see your lead performance? 

Helen S.

by gleek97 on 7/16/2012 8:50:03 PM


What if he says no? Frown and sometimes after my dad comes home from work we go swimming at my uncles pool and maybe i could invite him? My dad doesnt know i like this kid, so maybe he could initiate something? What do i say? Im soooooo scared


hey! aw don't be scared! yeah he might say no, that's always a possibility, but you gotta give yourself credit for taking a chance! You like this guy, or you wouldn't be willing to risk it. If he says no, shrug it off and say oh well maybe another time. I don't think it's likely that your dad would agree to invite him over for you, since they'd be working together and that wouldn't be very professional of him. 

Helen S.

by futurewriter16 on 7/16/2012 8:44:21 PM


okay, long story short, i want to ask my bgf and crush, to go hiking with me one of these days. hes mentioned that he likes to do it but doesnt get to do it often, but idk how to ask him or what to say. a year ago i asked him if we could hang out but he said he wasnt sure but we definately got closer since then. idk what to say or how to ask or if he thinks itll be a date. and hes going to be doing some side work with my dad, so my dad will be getting to know him. i dont mean anything by this, just a friendly thing. im afraid he'll say no. and my dads a bricklayer and he mentioned that he needed someone to help him out with carrying things and stuff and michael needed a job so hes going to work with my dad..maybe thatll make us closer. I just dont want him to think its a date. And alot of times after work my dad takrs me and my brother swimming at my uncles pool. Maybe i can ask for him to come? Please help me. Idk what to say!


hey! Just be straight-forward. Ask him to go hiking, and if he asks if it's a date just smile and say nah, you just want to hang out.  He won't think it's a date unless you do.

Helen S.

by futurewriter16 on 7/16/2012 8:12:32 PM


ok so i really like this guy and I want to tell him that I like him, but im not allowed to date. Should I tell him anyway?
And If i do tell him and he says he likes me back, what do i say then? What should I do?? xxx


Hey! It sounds to me like you really like this guy Smile congrats, it can be fun to have a crush. The best way to deal with this is to be his friend and see if something more happens naturally. I have seen so many girls get hurt and ruin friendships because they "had to know" if someone liked them, and they asked the guy about it and made the whole situation awkward. I even did that myself when I was younger. It's better to have a secret crush on your friend than to have a public crush on your ex-friend. good luck!   

Helen S.

by niallove45251 on 7/16/2012 8:06:11 PM


ok so my boyfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago. I thought I could handle it, and for a little while I was fine. But now I can't stop thinking about him. He said he wanted us to be friends, but that isn't exactly working out. All I want is to be able to have conversations with him again and maybe one day he'll rethink this whole broken up thing. He liked me a year before I liked him and then we dated for a year. And I just don't understand how he could move on so fast. Should keep trying to get back together, or stay friends or just move no matter how hard it may be??


hey! I think you should stay friends and move on. since he did the breaking up you just have no idea how long it might take to get back together if it ever happens at all. Here are some tips to get over him:

Helen S.

by Nessie001 on 7/16/2012 6:21:23 PM


this guy ive been talking to likes one of my friends and wants me to hook him up with her. But he doesnt know her very well. He says she seems like the type of girl who is stuck up, ugly, a loser, and a waist of his time. But he still wants me to get them together. Im not sure why hes saying what hes saying and i'm not sure if i want to get them together because i know shes none of those things. Do you have any idea why he would say that and still want to get together?? and what should i do??


hey! I have no idea why he would say that. The only reason i can think of is that he has something against her and wants to date her to prove he can and then dump her when he's bored. I don't think you should get them together. 

Helen S.

by cherries51 on 7/16/2012 5:53:38 PM


Say all you want about how "it's the personality that matters" and "It's what's inside that counts" etc, etc. I agree those are the basis of the relationship, but physical attraction IS important. If someone you thought was "gross" (however you define that) asked you out, would you say yes? I doB\n't think a little weight should matter, I've been in this exact situation. But no one should act high and mighty by saying looks don't matter. If you can't stand to kiss a guy, then how is the relationship going to work?

by Stargazin1 on 7/16/2012 5:45:53 PM


I have an issue closely related to this article... The guy I like ( and plans to ask me out soon) is about 8 inches shorter than me! It's a really huge difference, and I feel like things would be kind of awkward because of our height. I like him quite a lot, and I don't want to let our differences get in the way... but i cant help but think about it... what do I do?

Hey babe, if you like this guy, then go for it! There was a couple at my old school where the girl was about a foot taller than her bf, and they were so great together. If you two have a good friendship and really like each other, you shouldn't let something like height get in the way. 
Carrie R.

by parischick2 on 7/16/2012 3:12:31 PM


i think looks only matter because they help the person to notice you, but if you really like him for his personality, thats what really matters. theres somebody for everybody, even overweight people, and who knows maybe hes your somebody.

by audreytheawesome on 7/16/2012 2:13:34 PM


I don't see why weight would be a problem, it's the heart that counts.

by DRea148 on 7/16/2012 1:38:40 PM


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by awtechnofish on 7/16/2012 1:35:57 PM


to: Carrie R.
Do you think a t-shirt and nicer shorts would work?

Yeah, that would be fine. You also mentioned maybe wearing a tighter shirt - if you have a fitted tee, that's a good way to look a li'l dressier, but still wear comfy jean shorts or something. 
Carrie R.

by ljbdaisy on 7/16/2012 1:09:00 PM


I am probably going to this amusement park with one of my old guy friends. the thing is I haven't seen him in 7 months, and before that, I hadn't seen him in 2 years! The last time I saw him he was wearing sporty clothes, but in pictures i see of him he is normally wearing not dress up, but nicer clothes. I normally wear sporty clothes, but when i seen him soon, i want to give a good impression. Should i stick with my sporty clothes that aren't baggy but aren't tight? or should I go in a little nicer direction with a tighter shirt? HELP! I am supposed to go tomorrow if he goes.

Hey chica, since you're going to an amusement park, I'd normally say that you wanna wear whatever is comfiest. But if you really wanna impress this guy, you should go with a li'l nicer shirt. The important thing is to be yourself, so whatever you do, make sure you're not wearing something that's totally not you.  
Carrie R.

by ljbdaisy on 7/16/2012 12:54:32 PM


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by thumperella14 on 7/16/2012 11:11:27 AM


The weight thing shouldn't be a problem. If he's nice and treats you right, what's a little extra weight?!

by thumperella14 on 7/16/2012 11:05:28 AM


So i met this guy at music camp and we really hit it off. We hung out every night and went out to eat alone. We even kissed. Now that I'm back home, he wants to try and have a long distance relationship, but i dont really want to have one because i also like one of my best guy friends and I've liked him for a while.
I really like both guys, but I dont want to have a LDR because i dont think it would be fair to the guy from camp.
What should I do? I'm thinking of telling him that i like him and the other guy...
Thanks a ton Smile

Hey chica, if you don't wanna have a long distance relationship, that's fine. You probably shouldn't mention to your guy from camp that you like your BGF, though, because you don't wanna hurt his feelings. Just tell him that you don't think you could handle a long distance relationship, but you'd still like to be friends, and leave it at that.  
Carrie R.

by pottergirl135 on 7/16/2012 10:52:21 AM


Mod Mod Mod Mod Mod:
Okay so last week I went to summer camp and I met this guy...and we danced at all the dances hung out in our free time and taked every night... I really like him...and I know he likes me...the only prob. is he lives 6 1/2
hr.s from my home. He asked me for my # but as of right now I dont have a he said we could stay in touch through FB...the only prob is he only gets on there like once a month. I can't get him off my mind so if you could help me think of other ways to communicate... it would be greatly appreciated!Smile

Hey babe, if you're set on doing the long distance thing, have you tried Skype? That's a great way to still see each other and set aside some time that you'll definitely get to hang out. If this guy doesn't get on Facebook often, maybe send him a message and try to set up some Skype dates in advance so you can both plan on them. You can also ask him for his address. Mailing letters may be a li'l slow, but you can get creative and mail some really cute, fun things.   
Carrie R.

by glamgal97 on 7/16/2012 9:31:34 AM


yo MODS???
I don't know if people have already pointed this out, but some of your quizzes appear to have technical problems. I just took the newest one, and it said that I had mostly B's; all of the answers I chose on the quiz were either A or C, not a single B. Stuff like this has happened on other quizzes as well

Hey girl, thanks for pointing that out. We'll get on it right away! Smile 
Carrie R.

by fedorachick189 on 7/16/2012 9:23:41 AM


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by gleerules101 on 7/16/2012 1:55:20 AM


~mod mod mod!~
I am a freshman and i was following my senior guy friend around the dance. I kept following him around and dancing in a group with him. I realize now i went a little overboard and thst i should have left him alone. However I was standing near him when the last song came on and he asked me to dance. I was just beginning to have a crush on him and after we danced, I realized that i really do like him. Is it possible he likes me? He seemed happy and calm while we danced but I was being really shy Frown after we danced I gave him a hug but he didnt seem like he was hugging back at first. Later, I think he tapped me on the shoulder and said goodnight.

Hey girl, this guy probably wouldn't have asked you to dance if he thought you were annoying, so don't worry about that. There's a chance he could like you back, but just remember that in high school, an age difference of more than 2 years can be kinda rough on a relationship. It depends on how often you get to see this guy, but you might wanna think about looking at guys a li'l closer to your own age.  
Carrie R.

by I<3Music:) on 7/16/2012 1:47:07 AM

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