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Why are guys so interested in girls’ boobs? I mean, they are just breasts! It’s not that big of a deal. Dave: Maybe to you they are...
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So me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 7 months , and just this past few weeks hes acting different , i ask him whats wrong but he doesn't tell me , he use to be so sweet and send me smiley faces and hearts in our texts but now theres none ! i txted him last night saying :"i miss you , i havent seen you in forever !" his response:"ya i know! he didnt say i miss you too or anything ! he hasnt tried to hang out with me and its been almost a month ! what should i do ?! hes making me sad ! and whenever i try to talk to him about it he changes the subject so i doubt we will be able to hang out and talk about this ! and what should i do ! because i will be seeing him this weekend ./: help plz !


Hey girl! When you see him this weekend, play a little bit of hard to get.  Sometimes, boyfriends need to be reminded that they have a great girlfriend, so letting him miss you (by not texting him until this weekend and being nice but not overly affectionate this weekend) will hopefully make him miss you.  If he's still actin' weird after this weekend, then it might be time to break up with him.  After all, he isn't the guy you started dating in the first place! xoxo  

Kate G.

by ilovepiano15 on 8/13/2012 3:12:45 PM


Mod mod
I have irregularly large boobs there almost Cs and I'm only 12 boys always say nice tits and older boys pay more attention to me than my friends it makes me really uncomfortable. How can make it stop?

Hey girlie,

Check out this article about dealing with big boobs...and all the attention that comes with them. Since you're younger and the rest of your friends probably haven't developed as much as you yet, you're getting ALL the attention (instead of sharing it with them) so it's bound to make you feel uncomfy. But over time, it'll even out! Hang in there!

Lauren C.

by lovechild33 on 8/12/2012 1:19:02 AM


Weird. Guys confuse me.

Hey! Katgrace11 here! Need advice? Need someone to vent to? I'm the gal for u! Just comment on my profile and I will get back 2 u ASAP!

by Katgrace11 on 8/8/2012 5:28:18 PM


I always wondered-now my question is answered.

by DramaDudette on 8/4/2012 12:55:28 AM


make sure you cover up if you dont want them to stare and if you dont want to cover up when you see a boy staring go up to them and ask nicely "please stare at my face, thankyou."

by WildSamantha00 on 7/19/2012 1:50:56 PM


Ok, so I am going into 8th grade this year and ive only had two BF's. People tell me I'm really pretty , so why don't guys like me? Related to this topic, I am Pretty flat-chested, cuz I haven't had "Aunt Flo"... Like, EVER. I'm pretty much straight all the way down. Is that why guys don't notice me? All of my friends have boyfriends. Also, idk how to flirt!!! I need help right away with all of these questions! Thanks soooo much u rock >.<
Austiyn :3


Hey! I felt the exact same way you did when I was younger and you know what? it got better. I'm actually really glad now that I didn't have a bunch of insignificant bfs in middle school and high school. You'll meet someone really substantial when you're older. Good guys are worth the wait. You don't need a boyfriend to validate you. Read books, have fun, and get to know who YOU are before you worry about boys. I promise you will meet someone one day.  

Helen S.

by DreamOfLuv on 7/17/2012 5:17:58 PM


there are so many pervs at my school. 1 guy asked me if my boobs were real. another one wouldn't talk to me when i was talking to him and i asked why. his response was: "your (points to my boobs) are freaking me out." he doesn't talk to me anymore. then another one said that my boobs were huge and i was so womanly. i'm 13!!! Gosh i hate my school.

by kpianoplayer on 7/16/2012 7:23:28 PM


Maybe its because guys don't have boobs. half of earth's population has them, & they don't, so i understand why they're so interested in them..

by emroxlol on 7/15/2012 2:52:36 AM


MODMODMODMOD!!!!! Can you hide this comment please? 


 Hey girl! Your feelings are totes normal, don't worry.  Most people do that (although they might not 'fess up to it if you ask).  Tell your s-sis to knock it off with the rumors or ask your parent to talk to her.  Having a bully in the house is no fun.  xoxo 
Kate G.

by YayaYuiki on 7/12/2012 11:26:23 AM


Hasnt anyone ever watched the movie JUNO on dvd?

One of the funniest parts is when she is outside and all the guys going running by in tiny running shorts and you can see their "Down There" parts bouncing around and showing through their shorts and she is staring at that part of their body. Smile
I would think guys feel the same way when they see our boobs. I think its just human nature to be curious about parts you dont have. Smile

by luckykel on 7/11/2012 6:02:04 PM


boys like boobs because they are a sexually attractive body part. plus, some boys are just fascinated by them because, well, chances are they've never even seen them before haha. and it's not like girls don't stare if they think a guys abs are nice when they're at the beach. don't be a hypocrite and say "eww all boys are such pervs!!" it's not like you don't think guys are sexy

by guitargirl7321 on 7/10/2012 10:05:09 PM


Bill is the best. "A truly well-rounded guy is interested in legs, face and hair, too." Laughing

by ohheyitsjennyy on 7/10/2012 2:02:58 PM


I hang w/ guys more then I do girls, & my guy friends never like stare at my boobs of anything like that. & mine are like kinda big. I guess they are just nice guys!!! =-)

by Sam Cool1038 on 7/10/2012 1:51:43 PM


There just pervs!

by bayleesaysrawr on 7/10/2012 12:11:01 PM


Yeah, ive had it for 5 yrs and am relatively regular. It's 10 days late. My mom says im okay and to stop worrying and itll come...


Hey girl! Your mom is probably right.  Stress can make your period irregular.  You may just skip it this month, which happens to just about everyone at some point.  If you go two months without a period, talk to your doc.  They'll help you out.  Until then, relax and enjoy the period free time!  xoxo 

Kate G.

by futurewriter16 on 7/10/2012 12:09:08 PM


Im still scared i didn't get it...It's 10 days late...should I stop staying up till 2 in the morning and waking up late and going to bed at my usual time and itll come?


Hey girlie!  Lauren C. Isn't modding anymore, but I an help! Are you talking about your period?  If so, and you are still fairly new to getting your period, it can be super irregular, so don't worry.  Living an unhealthy lifestyle (like not getting enough sleep) can mess up your schedule.  If you are really worried, talk to your doctor and your mom!  xoxo 

Kate G.

by futurewriter16 on 7/10/2012 12:00:16 PM


So I wanna try out for volleyball or soccer but at my school they only choose girls that are like pros and on teams out of school. I don't really know the rules and basics besides pe but in pe they don't explain it well. Should I try out? Howcan I learn the rules? Why do the schools want pros and not girls who want to learn and will try hard? PLEASE HELP!


Hey girlie!  Try looking up the rules to soccer and volleyball on the internet, that's an easy way to get to know the rules.  You can study them all summer!  Also, there are probably suggestions for drills and instructional videos you can watch teaching you how to do the basics.  School teams start playing games pretty quickly, so coaches want girls who know all of the rules and will be able to play in the game.  Get a soccer ball or a volleyball and practice and you might be one of those pros by the end of summer! xoxo 

Kate G.

by boypolar on 7/10/2012 5:20:25 AM


i hate it when boys do that. it us feel self conscious, and I always look at boys faces. a lot of people say that boys look at things they dont have, so does that mean we are supposed to look at... you know.. their... down? thing? oh GROSS

by amerifreak on 7/10/2012 1:36:16 AM


when you enter a giveaway contest, does entering more than once really up your chance for winning? I've gotten different answers from different mods, and if you really dont need to enter a lot of times, whats the use of having the enter again button?


Hey chica!  Entering again puts your name a second (or third, or fourth) time into the drawing.  A computer system pulls a name, so entering multiple times has multiple chances for your name to be drawn, but since so many girls enter our contests, your chances of winning only go up a tiny but every time you reenter.  Still, with all the stuff we give away, every little bit helps!  xoxo 

Kate G.

by amerifreak on 7/10/2012 1:33:21 AM


They like boobs because they dont have em, Its simple. Same reason we like guys abs, because we dont have rock hard 6 packs and ripped bodies.

by xBlessTheBroken on 7/10/2012 12:42:45 AM


As weird and perverted as it is, it's natural for whatever reason -_-

And I mean come on don't act like you've never found some physical feature of a guy attractive and stare worthy before...

by Acutiebookworm on 7/10/2012 12:06:34 AM


Guys look at our boobs and we look at their abs. I actually asked my mom why guys are so into boobs because I am a late bloomer an she took the guys side and said I will understand someday. Well I do now because I have a bf but it is annoying to have them look at our chest when they should be looking at our face. But I am not a hypocrite and I admit that I look at some of their body parts too. Smile I just hate when they catch me looking. Smile

by luckykel on 7/9/2012 11:58:30 PM


I will never get a guy according to this haha.

by topchef88 on 7/9/2012 10:26:39 PM


i have never had a period or even discharge!im scared with if i never get it

Hey girl,

You will get it! Everyone's body grows and matures differently - so just because your BFF or your mom got their period when they were younger, that doesn't mean you will. Your period will come when it's ready. Just be patient and read all about it so you are totally prepared when it comes! <3 
Lauren C.

by income7thgrader on 7/9/2012 10:20:39 PM


okay, i have little boobs and my parents get after me for not wearing a bra. i wear camisoles under my shirt, but she tells me to wear a real bra! help! i've tried strapless and ones with straps, but they're just uncomfortable! am i being unreasonable?

by loppyears12 on 7/9/2012 10:19:28 PM


I know this isn't fair, but boys will be boys. Almost all of the girls at my school prance around with super short skirts and plunging necklines. Then they are offended when someone looks. I mean, come ON! If you're going to wave your breasts in my face, where do you expect me to look? I've seen girls staring at other girls' chests, too. Guys aren't the only ones. Come on, guys! You've all had your girl crushes, whether you know it or not.
Before people start screaming at me, I know, I know. A lot of guys are just trying to get a show. But there really are some decent guys out there. And if girls don't give everyone a reason to look, everyone would be happy. Guys AND girls would look at our faces, not our breasts. Just keep that in mind before you start saying "OMG ALL GUYS ARE PERVS!!!" Smile Happy Girlhood!

by mikabean on 7/9/2012 10:15:01 PM


Ok GL this is kinda random, but i think some of your quizzes are messed up. On one quiz i had 7 b's 1 a and 1c. It said i had mostly A's. Also, that sometimes happens on other quizzes. Just letting you know.

Hey girl,

To be more specific so we can look into the problem, write to us about your issue here. Include the quiz names, what browser you're using, and a description of the problem. Thanks babe! 
Lauren C.

by kewauneegal on 7/9/2012 10:12:58 PM


Thanks for reassuring me. I'm going to quit worrying and enjoy not having it come yet haha! And is 9 days late serious?

It will come <3 Hang in there! And like I said, if you're concerned/have questions, don't be afraid to talk to your doctor. They're probably going to say the same thing (that it's normal and it will come when it's ready), but it might make you feel better to hear it from them. 
Lauren C.

by futurewriter16 on 7/9/2012 9:58:06 PM


Im still scared. My mom says im fine and that it'll come...but im still worried sick. I have a zit on my nose that just came overnight and cramps on and scared!

Hey girl,

I know it's scary because it's unfamiliar and you can't predict what's going to happen, but your mom is right. It will come! We've all had irregular periods - it's actually rare for your period to come on the exact same day every month. There are sooo many little things that can delay it, and none of those things mean you're sick or something is wrong with you. You have nothing to be scared about. Stop worrying and it will come faster! 
Lauren C.

by futurewriter16 on 7/9/2012 9:44:50 PM


thanks for changing the pic ;)
for those who didn't see it - it was this little boy with a HUGE creepy smile (shudders)

by spencer9800 on 7/9/2012 9:31:22 PM


I didnt get my period this month and Im so scared. This is techincally supposed to be Junes period. I got my last period on May 30th and it ended on June 6th, and the month before was April 23-I think the 29th.Ive had my period for 5 years and im relatively regular. Its late this month and im so so so scared. I know im not pregnant but im still scared. Ive been having cramps on and off for a week and a half. Please help. Im so scared!!!!!!

Hey girlie,

If you're not sexually active, there's no chance you're pregnant - so your period is just being a little irregular right now! Whether your period is "new" or you've had it for years, it's completely normal for it to be irregular sometimes. It can be affected by all sorts of things, like changes in sleep, diet, stress, etc. And guess what? You're stressing about your period being late, so you could be making it come even LATER because of the stress! Try to calm down and remember that your body is working ok. It's natural for your period to be late sometimes, so take a deep breath and relax. If you have any questions, talk to your doctor, but remember that you have nothing to worry about right now <3 Your period will come soon! 
Lauren C.

by futurewriter16 on 7/9/2012 9:29:59 PM


MOD! so my period is like gone for 3 to 4 months every time and it always last 10 days is there something wrong with me? btw ive had my period forover a year and its always like this. and do guys like toned legs?


hey! The next time you have a check up, ask your doctor. He or she will have a better grasp on your personal situation than I could. I guess toned legs will rarely hurt your chances with a guy Smile 

Helen S.

by thepinkyyyyyyyyy on 7/9/2012 8:37:31 PM


MOD MOD MOD!! Just 2 days ago i had a sleepover! Yeah we kinda ran out of ideas, we played all the basics truth or dare, did nails and hair, talk about boys, u know, but then we kinda ran outta ideas have any ideas for the future if we have one again? Thanks! P,S i got my book today that i won from here summer dance!


Hey! here are some ideas! Congrats Smile 

Helen S.

by emma2112 on 7/9/2012 8:19:45 PM


LOL i still dunno why they like em, no seriously, can someone explain the fascination of round jiggly meat on a girls chest? Like is it because they're "fun to touch" or something? well like he said we're not expected to understand, but i mean if a guy cant explain it i'm guessing they don't know quite either, so possibly just because they're boobs and they stand out, because it's what makes a woman a woman and if you're attracted to the opposite sex then I'm sure you'd like the features that makes them the opposite sex.

by puppyinwonderland on 7/9/2012 8:09:39 PM


I think it's kinda wrong that boys are like that about girl's " ta tas ". But I to be honest I have a twin brother and ive never heard him say anything about ta tas . 💋

by twilight1001 on 7/9/2012 7:03:54 PM


I think it's kinda wrong that boys are like that about girl's " ta tas ". But I to be honest I have a twin brother and ive never heard him say anything about ta tas . 💋

by twilight1001 on 7/9/2012 7:01:06 PM


Um, what was so bad about the picture before? I didnt see it and a lot of people mentioned it, so..... just curious

Guys r interested in boobs because they dont have them, so they're naturally curious about them

by purplecupcake411 on 7/9/2012 6:42:46 PM


ok, i just had my first period 2 weeks ago, on the 23rd, and i stopped on the 28th, and i just went to the bathroom, and when i wiped, there was blood. i don't understand! please respondASAP!!!!



hey! Your first year can be a little irregular, so don't panic. Keep tabs on the situation, and if you're still worried, talk to a parent, doctor, or trusted adult. good luck! 

Helen S.

by angie333 on 7/9/2012 6:41:18 PM


hahahaha girls life changed the picture to this!

by angie333 on 7/9/2012 6:11:43 PM


What is the average bra size for a girl that is 14 years old?


hey! since there are many, many, 14 year old girls in the world, averaging all of their bra sizes would probably result in a c cup. the average would take into account girls who are very busty for their age and girls who are not, and it would end up in the middle of all of the sizes, even if most of the girls you know aren't that big. There is no "normal" size to be. everyone's different, and it mostly has to do with genetics.

Helen S.

by on 7/9/2012 6:07:59 PM


ninadasiy, that's not true and if you really believe it . . . well let's just pretend that I didn't just think the phrase that I just thought.

by 7200wolfgirl7200 on 7/9/2012 6:05:55 PM


I think boys like that are just sick. I'm glad the boys i know don't care about that. Only about personality.

by GigiWuzAHere on 7/9/2012 5:21:58 PM



by §♥greyson_chance♥§ on 7/9/2012 5:10:15 PM


It can get really annoying and gross when all guys talk about are boobs! Ugh!

by fallsb-ball on 7/9/2012 4:19:17 PM


Guys don't have them. plain and simple they don't get it, they want everything. Something they don't have? they hate it, so they go nuts about it.

by piggy99 on 7/9/2012 4:14:00 PM


why did they change the pic?

by colorqueen101 on 7/9/2012 4:05:56 PM


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by rockchik333 on 7/9/2012 3:04:47 PM


To be honest I was a little scared to click on this...the picture didn't soothe me, either..

by §♥greyson_chance♥§ on 7/9/2012 2:04:13 PM


They dont always care about them cuz all the girls i c with boyfriends r flat...

by carinaamina on 7/9/2012 1:41:17 PM


Uh. I hate guys who talk about boobs with their friends. It's soo annoying!

by yumasauras on 7/9/2012 1:41:06 PM


ninadasiy, no! Every girl's body is different. There are skinny girls who have real boobs. And there ARE girls with big bookbs who aren't hefty.

by scamp24 on 7/9/2012 1:30:38 PM


I flinched a little when I saw the picture for this article...

by snowver11 on 7/9/2012 1:25:58 PM


well some boys just dont know how to make a girl happy.looking at her at her face.yes.

by bking62 on 7/9/2012 1:17:53 PM


Hahaha the title...
Most of the time the girls with big boobs are hefty. Like boobs are fat! The girls in the magazines who are skinny but have boobs well it's called a boob job.

by ninadasiy on 7/9/2012 1:02:11 PM


Shrug. I don't personally get the boobs thing. Yep, boobs. They are cool and all, but why the obsession? Guy or girl or non-binary gender ID, I personally care more about their butt/legs/waist.

by peaches and raspberries on 7/9/2012 12:58:01 PM


so stupid that boys do that.

by j4zm09 on 7/9/2012 12:32:07 PM


Maybe they wanna be pervs! <--sorry GL but I was being honest and truthful.. Well, at least my bf isn't one of those type of boys..Smile Fewww!

by Susmita24 on 7/9/2012 12:25:13 PM

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