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So I am 14 going into 10th grade and I feel like a complete loser since I never had a bf or a my first kiss. And I am so complicated like I want a real relationship not the ones that last like a month a real one. I want to be with someone who fits my qualities and I have a long list. I feel like it's because of my school's diversity. I am mixed(white and african american). But since my skin color is chocolate/carmel and most of the guys at my school are white I don't have a good chance. At my school you see no biracial couples. I don't care about color what so ever. I feel so behind. I think I'm pretty but i'm also short. I'm 4'11! I'm also known to talk A LOT and really fast. Are these all flaws? What should I change? I don't mind. It is summer, alot of things can change. Thnx

 

 Hey chica!  Don't worry about yours "flaws".  Guys can tell if a girl isn't being herself and trying to change, and they'd rather have a girl who is confident.  You aren't a loser, lots of girls don't get their first kisses until later in high school (or even college!).  The key to finding the guy who is right for you is throwing out that list of qualities they HAVE to be.  Most of the time, guys you click the most with are guys you wouldn't necessarily choose for yourself.  Relax a little, don't be so harsh to judge them based on their qualities, and open yourself up to dating guys for a short period of time.  Long relationships are tough, and starting out with shorter, less intense ones lets you get used to dating.  Good luck! xoxo