MODMODMOD i'm 13 and i still don't have my period.. is that normal? i feel like i have all the signs to have my period.

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i've been having discharges just about every day for the past month and i've also had bloating, cramps, sharp pains in my stomach, and i've been craving ALOT of chocolate, even more than usual. does this mean my periods coming or am i just sick?

 

Hey! the only way to really feel reassured is to talk to your doctor about all of these questions To be honest, that's what we mods just have to tell you guys when you come to us with any health concerns. You may very well be fine, but since we're not doctors and we can't even see you face to face, it's not for us to tell you what's fine and what isn't. You know your body. Trust your instincts and talk to your doc! 

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Thanks for answering my last comment.
I have another.I have not had my mini period for a month.Do you know why?How do I ask my mom to by me pads???
Thanks

It's normal for your period to be irregular at first, so there's probably nothing to worry about, though you can talk to your mom or a doc to be sure. As for the pads, it won't be too awkward--your mom is a girl too and will understand that you need them!

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Every month for three months I've been getting cramps and spotting. I've asked other mods, and they all think my period will be coming very soon. Anyway, so I already had my mini-period this month, but it only lasted 2 days, unlike the two months before when the spotting lasted 4-5 days. The spotting this month happened on the fourth and fifth. It was kind of weird to me that it only lasted two days, but I was just like whatever. Then today I went to the bathroom at school and I had a lot of spotting on my underwear. They were all really little, but there were a lot. Then, I went to the bathroom after school (4 hours later) and there was more! This is probably the most spotting I've gotten so far. Is my period on it's way? Please help. I'm sick and tired of waiting for my period. My period is so dramatic.

Hey girl, your period does seem pretty dramatic haha and it's having a little bit of trouble deciding when's the right time to make a visit. But this is totally, completely normal. When you first start getting your period, it could be heavy or really light, come at random days, come and go and be a brownish or red in color. This is all normal. Eventually your period will make up its mind and become a heavier, more regular period. In the meantime, you might want to wear panty liners to save your underwear from some of that drama. Panty liners are just like really thin pads. You should also keep regular pads on you just in case. Stash a couple in your purse, backpack and locker. It's always good to be prepared! There's nothing we can do to hurry your period along, but while your waiting just remember that your totally normal and theres nothing wrong going on down there. If your still nervous, don't be afraid to ask mom, she's been through it before. A doctor can also help and they are there to listen.  Good luck!