MOD! MOD! MOD! talk about hopeless crushes i always like guys who already have gfs, what is up with that? i can't help it, how can i stop and go after the single boys? please help!

 

Hey chica! You might like guys who aren't available.  Some girls just gravitate to guys who they can't have (the thrill of a crush is super fun).  Just because you're crushing on one guy, it doesn't necessarily mean you can't flirt with other guys, so talk to the single guys around you- you might not be head over heels for them right away, but you might find you still like them! xoxo 

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I'm dying right here!(not literally!!) I posted generally this same comment before but i got no reply. I have a crush on this guy n we have a lot in common ni one time showed up at his play n i had said i wouldnt n when he saw me he said hi really excited and happy. Does he like me? Plus, i always catch him looking at me.

 

Hey! It sounds to me like you really like this guy congrats, it can be fun to have a crush. The best way to deal with this is to be his friend and see if something more happens naturally. I have seen so many girls get hurt and ruin friendships because they "had to know" if someone liked them, and they asked the guy about it and made the whole situation awkward. I even did that myself when I was younger. It's better to have a secret crush on your friend than to have a public crush on your ex-friend. good luck!   

the guy i like complements me and he doesnt have a phone so we cant text and he is homeschooled so he doesnt get out as much as i do. i cant tell if he flirts with other girls because the only girls i ever see him talk to are mine and his friends and i guess i just might not notice it. we talk about or lives every so often and he will ask questions and we could talk for hours(if we had the time). And sometimes it looks like we are a couple to other people and he seems he likes me on and off. i always get over him over the summer and then i see him again and im think oh-no i like him... again. should i keep crushin' or try harder to move on

 

Hey girl! No problem in crushin', this guy sounds good! Why not take the leap and ask him to see a movie with your friends and his friends? xoxo