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Why are all the guys I like jerks?

Why are all the guys I like jerks? I think they’re nice and funny at first, but then they turn out to be so mean and nasty...
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I like this guy and sometimes I glance over and he wont be looking , but then sometimes I feel when I walk away he looks at me and smiles. Sometimes my friends judge me because I like him, and it freaks me out a lot. sometimes I feel alone and now that I know my friend likes him, I don't feel that bad but, I don't know what to do. Me and him aren't friends, so why do I like him so much. Sometimes I feel lost and never really understand why I fall for all the jerksFrown

by Murrr14 on 12/29/2012 8:54:33 PM

 
 

I like this guy and sometimes I glance over and he wont be looking , but then sometimes I feel when I walk away he looks at me and smiles. Sometimes my friends judge me because I like him, and it freaks me out a lot. sometimes I feel alone and now that I know my friend likes him, I don't feel that bad but, I don't know what to do. Me and him aren't friends, so why do I like him so much. Sometimes I feel lost and never really understand why I fall for all the jerksFrown

by Murrr14 on 12/29/2012 8:54:08 PM

 
 



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I have this crush on a guy in my class and he's really cute. He sometimes shows signs that make me think that he likes me, but he likes another girl. Do you think he likes me?

 

Hey iluvbtr, yea it's definitely possible. What kinds of signs does he show? Xoxo 


Lynae P.

by iluvbtr on 10/18/2012 10:04:13 PM

 
 

OKAY,THIER IS THIS ONE GUY I USED TO RIDE THE BUS W/ WE'D TALK AND STUFF BUT WHEN WE GOT TO SCHOOL HE WAS A JERK-OFF TO ME. NOW THAT WE'RE IN MIDDLE SCHOOL AND THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER BOYS SHOULD I JUST TELL HIM HOW I FEEL OR GIVE UP.
CONFUSED

 

 

Hey girly, if the guy is being a jerk, def give up on that. You don't want to be a guy that's mean to you. Good luck xoxox

Lauren I.

by happypanda11 on 9/21/2012 8:43:02 AM

 
 

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A dance is coming up. There are still hints that this one guy likes me and now I've fallen for him too. I have just became friends with this very nice guy. My mom was talking to my friend and his mom. His mom asked if he was to go with someone to the dance, who would it be? He said me. I don't know if he was saying that as a friendly gesture or what. My mom told me this. Plus if he does ask me, what if my crush asks me later on?


Hey girl,

He might have meant he wanted to go with you as a date, or maybe he just said it as friends since you already are friends! If you do go as friends and your crush asks you later, you can still dance with your crush at the dance, even if your friend is still your "date"!

Meghan D.

by Gabriella123 on 9/8/2012 11:30:16 PM

 
 

So there's this guy in my class and I've been emailing him for a while over the summer cuz I thought he seemed nice. But he likes me now and I just don't feel that way about him. It seemed like he didn't like me anymore and then he invited me to come with him to bring a friend night at this music thing he's doing. I don't want to go, not just because I feel like he would get the wrong impression. I mean I love music but I really am not interested in going. How can I tell him that without totally crushing him? I don't want to upset him cuz he's kinda sensitive about these sort of things...

Hey girl,

Tell him the truth: that you enjoy spending time with him but want to keep your relationship at the friendship level. It will be better to tell him the truth now than to lead him on! And just tell him you're busy that night if you don't want to go!

Meghan D.

by Sunny79 on 9/8/2012 9:15:11 PM

 
 



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Ok,so,I like this guy.We started talking a few months ago,and then he gave me his number.Now we text all the time.But now,it's like he's trying to avoid me.We don
t text that much anymore.We talk on the phone some,but not a lot.He said I was one of his best friends,and he is one of mine.He is the only guy I know who can keep a seceret.And he said I'm the only girl he knows that doesn't get caught up into drama.But,it seems like he flirts with a lot of girls.He keeps saying he's married on Facebook.I don't get it.He got mad at me one day because I just asked about it!But,all I asked was,Why do you keep saying your married on Facebook?and he blew.I feel like it's fault that we're kinda drifting away.What can I do?Please help!

 

Hey girlie,

It doesn't sound much like your fault that you're drifting apart. Maybe he wanted a "GBF" (girl best friend) but doesn't deal with friendship the way you do. Guys' friendships can be a little different - they don't always have to share secrets, or talk every day, or get close on an emotional level like girls do. So it might feel like he's pulling away, but really everything could be fine! Try to stick with it and just be casual. If something bugs him, try not to talk about it anymore. Or you could try to be chill and say something like, "Dude relax, I'm just messing with you." It's his decision whether he wants to flirt with a lot of girls or change his Facebook status, so try not to judge him or try to change him. And remember not to over-analyze the situation and just go with the flow. Guys are simple, even though they seem confusing sometimes. If it feels like you're forcing it, take a step back and hang with your other friends. If he wants you in his life, he'll make sure you're there. And if not, that's ok too - people grow apart! It's totally normal and nothing you've done wrong. <3


Lauren C.

by mathgeek221 on 8/19/2012 10:17:57 AM

 
 

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So I've been messaging a guy on kik all day. We were flirting and then I found out he's 12. I'm 15. But its kinda late considering I already kinda like him. He asked me if he was older if I would go out with him and I. Told there was a high possibility. What do I do. Ps. We don't even live in the same state. What do I do?????? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Hey girl, in general I would say that a one or maybe two year age difference is no big deal, but anything more than that gets iffy at best. However, meeting a guy in person that you met online or over messaging is not a good idea. You should never give personal contact information to someone over the internet or messaging. Instead, keep your eyes open at school for some face-to-face hotties and leave your options open for a non-virtual dude.

Lauren I.

by ladyinlike on 8/17/2012 3:47:06 PM

 
 



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Help my BF is too clingy. He's really sweet but I feel like we're moving to fast.We have to text every second of everyday or he thinks im ignoring or something. Plus, he's said he loved me the SECOND day we were dating. I want to continue dating him but he's driving me CRAZY how do I tell him without hurting his feeling.




Hey girlie,

Ugh, that is so annoying! It's great to be wanted and it's nice to have a BF who likes spending time with you, but gosh you need a break to have your own life too! Check out this article - I think this advice will really help <3

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/10/01/clingy-boyfriend.aspx 
Lauren C.

by 1Dlove513 on 8/16/2012 9:55:45 PM

 
 

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by Ash321 on 8/14/2012 3:39:59 AM

 
 



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Hi, im going into HS and theres this guy ive been friends with since fouth grade. We got along especially great in 7th grade when we sat next to eachother in Pre Al, we always cracked jokes at each other! But last year we only had PE, and thats when he always hung out with his friends, along that everone else in the class could see, eh not a big deal. I think he still likes me as a friend, we just didnt talk too much, but when he did he was always nice! And earlier this spring I asked him to our spring dance as friends (that took alot of courage!!) but he said he had a girlfriend, which I didnt know at the time. But he was really nice about it, didnt laugh at me or anything (cus technically ima little out of his league) and he said something like "Hey sorry but maybe when im single!" and i think hes single now, but I dont know if he was serious! Any advice? Thanks!
PS sorry for the loooong article!(:

 

Hey girl! Focus on reconnecting as friends. If he's single and he's interested, he'll make a move, but for now, be friendly without being flirty. He sounds like a really great guy, and sometimes really great guys can be the best kind of friend, so if you have a class together, start up a convo and see where it goes! xoxo 


Kate G.

by KaylieGurl663 on 8/13/2012 11:43:51 AM

 
 

It's totally true! Ugh! So hilarious and adorable and smooth and just utterly cool nd then suddenly--- BOOM! Jerkville! :\

by Acutiebookworm on 8/12/2012 3:54:15 AM

 
 

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by ACaseOfMistakenIdentity on 8/12/2012 12:31:13 AM

 
 

Ssame thing happens to me. My crush is like nice and mean at the same tie. I don't know what he is-sweet and kind or mean arrogant.

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by camigal on 8/11/2012 4:01:34 PM

 
 

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by DaNcInGQu33N9812 on 8/11/2012 3:05:57 PM

 
 

this happened to me let me count..... 6 times? i think? it sucks. but the boys get nicer in high school

by alex18903 on 8/11/2012 2:55:09 PM

 
 

Hey katiekakes8, a true friend would never act this way. I would either text or call her and say "we have been fighting a lot and I don't want to anymore. I think it's best that we aren't friends anymore. Let's leave all the drama behind us." Give her a clear nice reason like this for ending the friendship, s it ends on a good note and doesn't explode into more drama. Hope this helps! Xoxo



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Last year I went to a new school for 6th grade and made a bunch of new friends. now this girl from my old school who I was really close friends to always causes fights with me- on text messaging. She and some of my other old friends got so mad at me when I told her that I was staying there and not going to school with them for 7th grade and she called me a liar and said a bunch of other things that I never did or say. She keeps trying to make fights with me on text messaging and even though we're not fighting now, i dont think I want to be friends with her anymore. How can I get accross that I don't like it when she fights with me and tell her I dont want to be best friends that much anymore (she stills thinks we are best friends) what should I do???? thnkss in advancee Xx
-Katie Lynae P.

by katiekakes8 on 8/11/2012 1:52:20 PM

 
 

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i just ordered gl mag. for the first time through the mag card it said it was just $10 my dad got the bill and the amount was $18 do you know maybe why? Lynae P.

by yorkielover88 on 8/11/2012 1:22:00 PM

 
 

i used to- actually i still do have a crush on the class clown in my grade. we all recently graduated middle school adn we are going to different high schools, but i still liek him. he was all funny and awesome, but he and his friends were mean and rude to some ppl. plus, in 4th grade, i liked this cute guy, and in 5th grade he turned into a real jerk

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by WinnieGirlie on 8/11/2012 12:05:07 PM

 
 

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Hey girly! Fro-yo stands for frozen yogurt. Basically, a healthier alternative to ice cream Smile

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by ljbdaisy on 8/11/2012 11:07:02 AM

 
 

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by Nightless on 8/11/2012 10:09:25 AM

 
 

I was the same way: maybe it's because I dig confidence, but I always ended up crushing on jerks! I took the "shy guy" route, and now I'm crushing on a super shy guy. even though I love brawn and confidence, my new crush is just so nice and sweet. Smile good luck!

by ayraify on 8/11/2012 8:05:14 AM

 
 

I have the exact same problem.. Theyre all funny and cute, then its like Wooaahh.

by goldfish123 on 8/11/2012 2:06:01 AM

 
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