So this dude i REALLY like is one of my ex's friends.. but i think he likes me back.. the problem is he's a junior and im a freshman.. AND He's like a total punk as in chains, black clothes, skinny jeans, talks like yowhatz up d00dz,has a humongous mohawk and has piercings. but he's soo SEXY and he wants to makeout with me but we never talk except occasionally on fb. what should i do?

by Tdawg on 11/29/2012 5:26:14 PM

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Lauren T. Thanks for letting me know I am on the right track! He usually smiles at me when we're face to face,like when we had a recent school play rehersal,I had to walk up beside him and he greeted me w/ a friendly smile,and I think my face almost melted off LOL. But he tends to hang around my bestie,becuase she sits beside him every class. Also,he just broke up w/ my other bestie,is it okay to like him? I haven't talked w/ her about it yet.
Thanks

by rx7871 on 11/11/2012 8:54:15 PM

by ashton062698 on 10/14/2012 2:54:30 AM

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I've liked this guy for about 2 months now since school started, he lives 2 blocks away from my house and we have spanish and pe together. So i approach him and we've become good friends, sometimes we stay back after school together for a short time (30min maybe?) to talk and chat around together my friends told me they saw him looking at me several times but i'm not sure whether that means anything or not :-/ i asked him to jog with me after school at the beginning of the year and yeahh, we've been jogging together every week. I feel soooo happy when i'm around him, but i think he only treats me like a gal friend cos he doesn't seem to try to ask me out or anything. Is it weird if i ask him out first? If no, how should i ask him out?

by mia541 on 10/9/2012 10:36:00 AM

ok i kinda like this guy but i only have one class with him and he is already dating my friend and i am happy for her but i dont even think he really likes her because he doesnt even talk to her alot. he doesnt talk to me very much but i am trying to make some convo but he doesnt keep talking i think he is shy and i have had other guys ask me out but i want him and my mom said i could have a bf but i cant go on a actull date and that is what my friend and him are doing!

by Shelby23145 on 9/29/2012 9:47:06 PM

by soccacheer on 9/27/2012 7:17:23 AM

i have 2 problems. this is my 1st 1:
okay, so, theres this guy i like. i think he likes me but i'm not sure. we don't really talk anymore because he wasn't giving me much of an answer to reply to and i had to start all the coversations. but all my friends say he likes me because he constantly walks by our table at lunch. also, once when i was walking out of the cafeteria he looked at me until i left. is he shy or not interested?
this is my 2nd problem:
i was planning on asking him out today -it was the perfect time. he was alone, i smelled good and looked pretty- but i chicked out! this is why. what do i do if he says no?

by soccacheer on 9/25/2012 4:30:29 PM

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ok so I really llike this guy, John, from my church. He's one year older than me.we went on a mission trip together last month with the church and were on the same team so we got kinda close.I've known him almost forever and im good friends with his sister who's a year younger than me. last time we saw each other he gave me a hug when he left. He's just so great but the problem is we go to differnt schools. so the only time i get to see him is at youth group at out church once a week and its only for like an hour. I just don't know how to get to know him better and how to tell if he likes me since i reallly dont see him often. any tips on how to get him to like me or tell if he likes me. thanks so much!!

by laxchik18 on 9/18/2012 4:34:26 PM

by SuperSquirrel on 9/16/2012 5:37:56 PM

Lol I'm glad to make some one like you happy, and I luv ya 2! And I'll b sure to talk to ya as much as I can xoxo

by lilacmoonstream on 9/14/2012 1:12:06 AM

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Kk and thanks again for everything! Luv ya! Now I gotta get to sleep before I pass out XD I love talking to u so much I didn't look at the clock and now it's 12:40! Night

by lilacmoonstream on 9/14/2012 12:40:17 AM

Awww girl!!!!! I'm glad everything is working out! You can never go wrong with confidence, because with it you can do anything. I'm proud of ya girlfriend.   

by lilacmoonstream on 9/14/2012 12:16:05 AM

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Lol the fashionably challenged had another quick question, I want to wear a white cami with my bright blue skirt but in my school u can't wear cami spaghetti straps, is there a cute way for me to wear a scarf to cover up my shoulders? Or should I avoid that route entirely? ( if avoid is the answer then what should I do!) xoxo ~fashionably challenged lilac

by Lilacmoonstream on 9/13/2012 11:50:06 PM

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by greyson_lover on 9/2/2012 10:35:50 AM

It's hard to tell if he likes you or "likes" you - just hanging out is something that friends do, so you gotta pay attention to HOW he treats you. Does he behave any different to you than to his other girl friends? Does he flirt? Compliment you? Tease you? Or is it just friendly? Try to observe these things and you'll get a better idea of how he feels! Talk to him about stuff he likes, how his summer was, if he's excited about school, his friends, his family, etc. Sometimes it's easier to bond over pop culture stuff, like a fave band or TV show. As for liking him, try to flirt/compliment him in subtle ways. Since you don't know if he likes ya back and you don't want to come right out and say it, this is a great quiet way to test the waters!  

by birdgirly11 on 8/23/2012 7:30:21 PM

by 1corinthiansgurl on 8/23/2012 12:38:00 PM

Hey! sure you could there are a lot of great co ed camps out there. That hair sounds so cute, I think you should do it  

by Selassie on 8/21/2012 5:54:01 PM

by Selassie on 8/20/2012 11:24:23 PM

hey! well there's no one right way to start a conversation, try thinking about what you and your friends like to talk about, and just think of this guy as a friend, relax, and have fun together at the dance  

by _Sadie_ on 8/20/2012 6:37:50 PM

I said he looked like Harry Styles too!

by _Sadie_ on 8/19/2012 9:40:03 PM

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by maggie183 on 8/18/2012 6:40:51 PM

That is EXACTLY my problem too!

by fallsb-ball on 8/18/2012 2:13:03 PM

Hey itsalovestory, yep that's most likely it. Whenever we do exercises we don't normal do, we are using muscles we've never used before to do them. The fact that you're a little sore could just be a sign that your shoulder isn't used to being worked before. No worries. Xoxo



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After I was done doing six planks yesterday, my shoulder was really sore. It is only a little sore today, but I was wondering if it was just the fact that was the first time I have ever done push ups is that why my shoulder was sore?
Thanks! Lynae P.

by itsalovestory on 8/18/2012 12:36:03 PM

Hey IDKBoys, I think you should stick with your boyfriend. He's your bgf and you don't want to ruin that friendship. He also lives in another town and that could get hard trying to have a relationship. Just think it over some more girly. Xoxo



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Me and my bgf were texting a few nights ago and he moved to a different town this summer and all of a sudden he texted me that he has this major crush on me I kinda do to but I have a bf. my bgf always says these really sweet things to me while we r texting but I'm torn between staying with my current bf or breaking up with him and taking my chances with my bgf. Please respond quickly... Anyone else that wants to answer can comment on my profile. Thanks Lynae P.

by IDKBoys on 8/18/2012 3:10:59 AM