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8 non-flirty tips to snag a guy friend

There is a fine line between a BFF and a BF, and tightrope walking on that line is the Best Guy Friend (BGF). It is tricky...
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Hi! Ok well there is this one boy who asked me out to homecoming like 2 weeks ago. The truth is I really didn't want to go with him so I just said that if I do go I'm pretty sure I will be going with friends (because i was still undecided yet) He was like ok fine! Everyday after that he has been trying to talk to me on facebook and sends me messages EVERYDAY saying "Hi" or "Hey what's up?" It gets really annoying. I dont find him attractive at all and i just want to be friends. Friday he was starring at me all class! Sometimes it's really hard for me to focus while doing my monolouge. I dont know how it all started, but i think one i got paired up with him and i was just really nice or something. People are starting to notice it and they are starting to get annoyed with him too. The worst part is HE'S A JUNIOR AND I'M A FRESHMAN!!!! please help!!!

 

Hey Real12, you gotta say something to him girl. Be polite but let him know you are not interested. Tell him he's messaging you too much and you would like it if you guys didn't talk too much. You could even say you have a boyfriend to get him off your back. Hope this helps! Xoxo


Lynae P.

by Rea12 on 9/30/2012 11:31:53 AM

 
 



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Okay so my BGF who I've only known for a few weeks (but we are really good friends already) is really obsessed with me. He is always texting me, putting my name in his instagram bio, telling me he loves me(like a friend, but he does it a LOT) and I am starting to feel like he might ask me out soon. The problem is I don't really like him that way at all, and I really just want to get to know him better before we even think about dating. How can I let him know I'm not interested in dating him before he tries to ask me out?

 

Hey lovecaroline, try giving him little hints in the things you say. You can try something like "You are such a good friend" or "I'm so happy we're friends." Even bringing up relationships and discussing how you're not ready for one will help. Hope this works! Xoxo 


Lynae P.

by lovecaroline on 9/27/2012 10:02:58 PM

 
 

So I have this guy friend that my other friends think that he likes me and i kinda do to but my other friend likes him. Every time I flirt with him my friend looks mad how do i explain we're just really good friends?

Hey girl,

If you're not interested in him, your friend will understand that it's not your fault if he likes you! Tell your friend that your relationship with her is more important than any guy, but neither of you can control how he feels. She'll understand!

Meghan D.

by Lyric307 on 9/21/2012 10:33:10 PM

 
 

Ok so there's this guy in my 7th period and I like him alot but the only problem is that he barely knows me besides my face (unless of course, he likes me too, which in that case, he would probably know my name too). Yesterday, I caught him looking at me when I was trying to look at him and we both ended up smiling at eachother. We kinda did this a few more times througout class and I went home in an extremely cheery mood. I really like him and I don't know how to just go up to him and say hi because I feel like it'll be really awkward that I just randomly started a conversation and there's no way we can pass notes or anything cuz our class is orchestra. How can I start to become friends with him (and possibly lead to a relationship)? And by the way, he's like a shy guy and that's my type... (he's new to our school, he just joined about 1 week ago).

by leena2474 on 9/18/2012 9:05:35 PM

 
 

Ok so there's this guy in my 7th period and I like him alot but the only problem is that he barely knows me besides my face (unless of course, he likes me too, which in that case, he would probably know my name too). Yesterday, I caught him looking at me when I was trying to look at him and we both ended up smiling at eachother. We kinda did this a few more times througout class and I went home in an extremely cheery mood. I really like him and I don't know how to just go up to him and say hi because I feel like it'll be really awkward that I just randomly started a conversation and there's no way we can pass notes or anything cuz our class is orchestra. How can I start to become friends with him (and possibly lead to a relationship)? And by the way, he's like a shy guy and that's my type... (he's new to our school, he just joined about 1 week ago).

by leena2474 on 9/18/2012 9:03:09 PM

 
 


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Ok so I think this kid in school likes me. He is always hugging me and staring at me. o.O He always says to me how I am nice and funny. Then today a lot of kids when up to me and were like: I think he likes you. I just ignored them but he told me how he asked out a girl today and she said "rejected" him. So I said: "Aw I'm sorry". Then he said: "I know you like me though right? You would have totally said yes." I laughed and said not that way. (I was under pressure and couldn't say anything better!) He looked all sad and I felt really bad. I don't know if i like him yet but I am afraid he will ask me out! I won't know what to say! Do you think he "like likes" me or just as a friend? What should I say if he asks me out?





Hannah H.

by BabyDahl13 on 9/18/2012 4:10:24 PM

 
 



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There was this really nice guy that i met at this summer college program. He was a really good friend of mine and i cant stop thinking about him. He helped me at the last dance by dancing with me when my "date" ditched me. I think he liked me as more than i friend and i think i like him. The only way i could get ahould of his would to go through a chain of friends to get his number. Is it worth it? I really think i like him and i cant stop thinking about him. Should i try to get his number?




Hey girl, you know the expression "YOLO"? I say go for it. It'll always be a question and a what-if if you just let him go, but it could be a great story if you pursue it. And a story is always better than safe regret.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by luvmonkey1313 on 9/17/2012 6:37:00 PM

 
 

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ok so this really nice (and cute) guy moved into my neighborhood recently. he's in 7th and I'm in 8th. we've become really close friends, but i want to be more than that. i really like him and i think he likes me too but im not sure. he always sits with me on the bus, even when he is bringing a friend over, smiles and waves at me in the hallways, and always is trying to make me laugh. i asked my BGF to find out if he liked me bcuz they are in the same grade and are friends. He told me that he wouldnt really answer and was being shy about it, so i asked one of my BFFS who is also in his grade and his friend, to find out. she hasnt done it yet but she is going to. until then, i dont know how to know if he likes me back. and if he does should i tell him i like him too and see if he asks me out? HELP!

 

 Hey girl, see if this link helps you out: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/09/16/advice-love-crush-dating.aspx  if he does like you, go ahead and tell him you like him back! Or, you could always be the first to say it and see for yourself.

Lauren I.

by punky99 on 9/17/2012 7:58:41 AM

 
 

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by YayaYuiki on 9/16/2012 10:40:39 PM

 
 

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My best friend well my BGF is gay. I am supper supportive with that decision. We have been friends for about a year or two but it seems like forever. Anyways on the 4th of july we played spin the bottle. it landed on me and it was his turn so we kissed. After that we are still the same. and act the same as we do. Yesterday we were hanging out and he said to me  I like you a lot. And then he kissed me. he drove me home and it was really awkward but we still had fun. then today he texted me and said have you thought about it? my problem is that he is gay or did he turn bisexual. What should I say or do when he picks me up to go to school on Monday?

Hey girl,

It sounds like he is confused, which is completely normal! He might not be sure what gender he's into, but it sounds like he's definitely into you, which is all you need to worry about Smile So if you like him, it sounds like you get along really well, and there's nothing wrong with dating him even while he's still figuring things out, as long as he knows he always has your support!

Meghan D.

by kas8897 on 9/15/2012 11:30:56 PM

 
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