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30 Comments | Add Yours
In my school, everyone curses, so it's not like the people there consider it bad or anything. Some guys like when girls swear because then (in my school) they feel comfortable that they can say that without offending anyone. But I think that a guy will like a girl even if they swear or curse because that's just who they are. ;)
by Misery13 on 9/25/2012 5:03:12 PM
I agree. It's ok to swear if ur like SUPER mad (i don't) but not all the time.
by ColosalMascara on 9/22/2012 11:55:31 AM
by GrassFairy on 9/20/2012 9:54:59 PM
okay soooo, theres this boy i really really like. hes kinda popular and i hang out with him frequently. but he always huggs the 8th grade girls and stuff. i have 4 out of 6 classes w/ him. at p.e today one of my friends says they think he likes me but IDK!!! he talks to my bff more than to me it seems but he does look at me a lot. idk wat to do!!!!!
by glam on 9/20/2012 7:36:27 PM
I think there are some guys who like when we swear, many dont but I think some do. I dont know why, it could be because they think we can talk on the same level.
And not all words are swear words, some are slang words. Like one of my friends think saying the word "balls" is a swear word, but most of us know it isnt, its just a slang word.
by fashionqn on 9/20/2012 1:29:17 PM
by 1Dfan99 on 9/17/2012 12:15:50 AM
hides behind nasty language? HAHAHA. your joking, right? Wow, GL... and Kemp- or whoever you are. One of my most outspoken, fun, best friends swear and she has boyfriends all the time.. and they're cute. My brother tells me that guys are into girls who aren't afriad to stand up for themselves and swearing is probably included in that.
by girlygirl22werock on 9/15/2012 7:20:59 PM
Lol my friend swore at her crush while confessing, and they sit by the teacher and it was by him!!!! He was like "Awww how sweet, do that all you want in detention!"
by YayaYuiki on 9/15/2012 3:15:38 PM
I have a friend who swears a lot and about 5 guys have liked her in one year. I have a friend who never swears and 1 guy has liked her in 3 years. I don't think guys like it when girls are rugged and whatnot, but swearing does not make you rugged.
by PuppetPrincess on 9/15/2012 7:25:24 AM
by ja3908 on 9/15/2012 12:36:50 AM
I personally don't curse, but at least I accept people who do. If we're not good friends, I'll find it abrasive, but it doesn't make you a bad person and women/girls can be as rugged or feminine as they like.
Cursing doesn't mean you're self conscious. Nope, on the contrary. I think it means you don't give a... "crap" what anyone thinks of you. This can be good or bad, but the kid who answered this question needs to get over his idea of what a girl should act like.
by Deliabreaks on 9/15/2012 12:03:21 AM
im not tryin to be rude but this article is really sexist. Guys can curse but girls hav to act like ladies. This isnt the 1950s anymore.
by deedles1621 on 9/14/2012 11:15:22 PM
I don't like how this article equates swearing with masculinity, and masculinity as something girls shouldn't have or perform.
by peaches and raspberries on 9/14/2012 10:55:38 PM
by sailaway11 on 9/14/2012 10:19:16 PM
I hate it when people cures
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by Prim on 9/14/2012 9:20:18 PM
I don't swear like, at all! Only when I'm super mad I do. Most of my friends don't swear either. Some girls who try to act all cool though swear all the time. It's annoying.
by YouCanCallMeCat on 9/14/2012 9:17:56 PM
My friends swear a lot. I hate it
by myfatsquirrel on 9/14/2012 8:50:56 PM
by clll4321 on 9/14/2012 8:45:45 PM
by cgirl109 on 9/14/2012 7:42:15 PM
by Butterflygirl14 on 9/14/2012 7:17:14 PM
by its.maddy52 on 9/14/2012 5:50:47 PM
"perfect" is spelled wrong in the 2nd paragraph, but I love that! It totally shoes that we make mistakes, even when spelling perfect
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by alison99 on 9/14/2012 5:19:48 PM
I hate it when people swear! I won't be like omg stop the swearing, but I wish they would realize you sound more mature when you don't. Swearing isn't cool lol
by unicornninja on 9/14/2012 5:13:45 PM
Wow, that guy's response is extremely sexist. Expecting all girls to be delicate, "feminine", and helpless is both ridiculous and disgusting. What people think of those who swear varies from person to person, but you should never change yourself for some girl/guy you have a crush on. If you change your habits, it should be because of you, and no one else.
by The_Lorax on 9/14/2012 5:12:16 PM
Everyone, including girls at my school curses and nobody, barley even the techers, care. But, girls, take it from a high school junior. Cussing(especially younger girls) isn't cute. You will every once in a while when you get into high school but that's okay. Cussing every 2 seconds for no reason isn't cool either. But, if you know someone who swears, let him. It's their life.
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by scamp24 on 9/14/2012 4:45:54 PM
Thank you for posting this.
I was trying to explain to one of my friends who uses foul language that it doesnt impress guys and even makes people feel uncomfortable. She said I was wrong and that I was a prude. I dont like guys who always talk nasty so I dont think guys like when we talk like that.
by fashionqn on 9/14/2012 4:22:15 PM
Not true--it varies guy-to-guy. If he's constantly cussing, why would he care if you do? If he never does, he may care, he may not. It depends on the guy.
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by Dawnstar on 9/14/2012 3:51:27 PM
by cookiemonster15 on 9/14/2012 3:38:46 PM
LOL!! I saw this right after I got home from school...where I almost got in huuuuge trouble for cursing. It just slipped out, though, in choir....
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