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by Casey713 on 1/2/2013 4:55:07 PM
my and a girl use to be bff now she is my enemy I tried to makes friends with her once more but she changed. I know how that feels
by kellian on 12/28/2012 6:42:49 PM
I know how you feel, and sadly friends do change but maybe there is a way to get your friend back. You need to talk to her privately and tell her how you think she has changed and try to work this out. Your friendship is worth it definetly, and once you talk to her you can decide if she is a true friend worth keeping. If she doesn't like what you have to say and gets mad tell her how you miss her. If she still is mad maybe she isn't a true friend...and I'm sure thats really hard. I went through that same thing, and I'm very sorry some people just get influenced by others. Try to communicate how she is changing. Thanks! Good luck girlie!
by Bailey72 on 12/13/2012 7:18:27 PM
Same thing happened to me but instead of camp different classes now she is best friends with someone else and I don't mind her new friend because she is funny and kind, its just her new personality and style that seems a little different ...
by Ashie333 on 12/12/2012 4:52:06 PM
by jerjer6 on 12/7/2012 4:26:32 PM
by kk25225 on 12/2/2012 9:11:13 PM
I have a friend to we were best friends for years and years and now whenever I talk to her she just glares at me what should I do?
by kayapup1234 on 11/24/2012 1:27:10 PM
by ariel6412 on 11/20/2012 2:47:09 PM
by hinatagal on 11/18/2012 7:49:28 PM
by eflans838 on 11/18/2012 5:44:34 PM
by GL4LIFE1 on 11/18/2012 12:32:16 AM
by rockrocker101 on 11/15/2012 9:52:16 PM
I hope that your friend realizes that she has a great friend right in front of her!!!!! You are fine the way you are, so really, you need to tell your friend that you love her, but she cant just leave you in the dust!!!
by MountainLover456 on 11/14/2012 7:03:27 AM
by prettygirl4351 on 11/3/2012 10:09:54 PM
my best friend that ive known for years has been being mean to me. She has two new BFFs that supposaly was known for the same time as me. But she said i have to listen to her cause shes popular now. i said no and she said fine well you wont get anywhere in life. last night at a party i was a cat. i had n a jumpsuit. she said is that a jumpsuit. i said yes and she said, why would you wear that?. its really hurting and she says im her best feriend and the other girls are her best bests. when we were singing along to the songs at the party her and the girls would get up to eachother and sing it. she did it to me, but when she realized it was just be she frowned. The two girls like me and i like them. we are decent friends, but its like the one i told secrets and stuff to hates me now but still wont let go of me.
by themaingirl on 10/27/2012 12:38:05 PM
by Country Girl 2020 on 10/19/2012 9:18:08 AM
The same thing has happened to me, my friend started acting different and hanging out with others and giving me the cold shoulder.
My advice is that you should tell her that you feel left out and that your drifting apart. Also realize that people change and you will grow apart from your friends.
by EED13 on 10/12/2012 1:58:15 PM
MOD MOD MOD!!!
ok so i have this freind(b) and she just started playing vollyball on my team... she told anouther of my freinds(k) that im awful at vollyball... and then e and i were talking about vollyball and she told me someone told her that im really bad at it... idk why but i immediaty guessed b and she told me i was right. im not the BEST player but i dont think im bad... and it really hurts that b would say somthing like that.
by PS2905 on 10/11/2012 4:30:44 PM
by danceforever58 on 10/10/2012 4:38:40 PM
by Carrie_Underwood on 10/5/2012 3:35:28 PM
by Carrie_Underwood on 10/5/2012 2:30:09 PM
hey. im going through something very similar. last year i was best friends with a girl in some of my classes. we bacame friends quickly and started hanging out all of the time. then she became friends with the most popular girl in our grade. this pissed me off but what really angered me was that she started to ignore me. the only good things that came out of it was that i met my real bff. turns out she was in all of my classes too. lol. good luck!
by pupa413 on 10/1/2012 7:45:13 PM
by Carrie_Underwood on 10/1/2012 3:59:03 PM
by way2qt4u on 9/30/2012 10:06:50 AM
by genieinabottle on 9/29/2012 7:55:52 AM
by raeshrimp on 9/28/2012 11:03:19 PM
that is sad, but it happens to everyone at some point. you can make new friends.
by mustache on 9/27/2012 7:03:16 PM
Sounds like what happened to my "friend." The girl who she became good friends with was my exfriend and she was bullying me at the moment. My friend even knew that! She was totally brainwashed. Luckily, she moved out of state this summer
by myfatsquirrel on 9/26/2012 4:15:15 PM
I'm sorry to hear that but I know exactly where you are coming from. It's hard, but just give it some time. Definitely keep in touch with her, and it's really awesome she's still friendly, but maybe take a little bit of a break from your close relationship. Still be friendly with her and don't loose all sight, but maybe try to make some new friends. In a few years, maybe you'll get reacquainted with her and things will be better than they ever were before. I've been in this situation a few times before, so I know just what you are talking about. I know it's difficult, but just hang in there
by chocolover9257 on 9/25/2012 9:16:26 PM
It doesn't matter if ur friend is a lot younger than u it doesn't mean that you've got older that you suddenly need friends that r older
My best friend is 13 and I'm 16 and guess what she's taller than me too its always been 3 years age difference it shouldn't matter now since it didn't matter then
by Colie34720 on 9/25/2012 6:30:59 PM
Ohhhh I'm so sorry I've been acting like that to my all my friends since I got back from summer vacation in Florida! So sorry I know it must be terrible me and my BFF had a fight my first day back. But she's the only one who thinks we're BFFs we are barley even friends. I mean she's is 10 I'm 13 that's a big difference. ( but She's still taller that me) oh plz help I'm too scared to tell her I don't wanna be her friend any more.
by kellybelly44 on 9/25/2012 1:05:48 AM
The same thing happened to me except my besties completely iced me out.Then they called me an explicit name behind my back. I'm still a little scarred. Now I have them both in the same class
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by puddinface7 on 9/24/2012 8:54:58 PM
That's the way friends can be sometimes! I don't think she is purposely neglecting you but she is trying new things with some new friends. Not replacement friends, but new friends. About the tights, skirts, and sweaters... That's why I wear too! C'mon, it's cold outside girl!
by WinnieGirlie on 9/24/2012 7:52:27 PM
aww, sorry thats too bad...
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