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I was at a party, and a guy who was there thought I was cute. Of course I'm flattered and think it was sweet, but I didn't find out through him, he told my friend and she told me. He didn't talk to me at all at the party though, so I just think he thought I was pretty and he doesn't really like me. Maybe he was shy and nervous, but I don't think that's it. Because I don't know him, I don't like him or have feelings for him. He's texted me but I never texted him him back I didn't know what to say and didn't want to lead him on. I'm just not interested in a relationship right now, but I don't want to hurt him because he never did anything to me. How do I let him know I'm not interested in a nice way?

Hey girly, it sounds like you know exactly what you do and don't want. Good for you! Seems like you have a good head on your shoulders. Really, if you ignored this text from him he probably has gotten the hint. Though, if he keeps texting you, this could get tricky. Usually, I would say to drop hints, like talk about crushing on another guy or something like that, but in this case since he isn't really a friend, the more you text him the more he might think that your interested. How did he get your phone number in the first pace? If one of your friends gave him the digits you could try something like "hey, it's nothing personal, but I hate when my friends give out my number. I'm not really into texting. Hope you have a good week" or if he tries asking you out you could say "I'm just not intrested in a relationship." Any rejection might sting a little, but he shouldn't be too hurt since he doesn't really know you and it's always better to know right away than to be lead on, like you said. Good luck, girly!

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So me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months and his best friend is a girl and it still bothers me. She tried to break us up once. But they are still close. And recently she posted a picture on instagram and they were saying "I love you" to each other. He doesnt know how i feel about her and im afraid to tell him because i dont want him to be mad at me and think that they cant be friends even though i secretly dont want them to (i know it sounds really bad) but i just dont know what to do. She always pushes him around and tells him hes cute. I know she doesnt like me.. she always talks about me and makes me jealous on purpose. im really confused about what to do and i have a feeling that she likes him even though she has a boyfriend. I want to talk to him about it soo bad but i know that if they stop talking then she will know i did something and im afraid to confront her about it since she talks about me and tells people she doesnt like me. i need help.

This is a tough one, because you don't want to come off as jealous to your boyfriend, but if she says something mean to you, it's okay to bring that up with him! You could also try talking to her in person--say you don't like what she's saying about you. She's probably jealous that he's spending more time with you, so even though it will be hard, why not try to hang out with the three of you together? If you get to know her, you'll all be able to get along. There must be something good about her if he's friends with her, right? It will be a little scary, but the best way to handle conflict is really to talk to someone in person.

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So I am in 8th grade and I have a crush on this freshman. Hes super nice and cute and he wanted to take me to his homecoming but that couldn't work out because theres not enough time because he would have to talk to his principal about taking someone outside of school. But I really like him is there anyway i could do something with him?

 

Hey! Yeah for sure, you should ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. You guys could go to a movie or grab lunch or something  

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Why an I ugly and don't say everyone is beautiful because you haven't seen and i am i have always sorta like this guy and i think he doesn't think of me as pretty so i have fanstys and dreams about me and him. I AM 13 AND HAVEN'T HAD A BOYFRIENDS OR A KISS OR A BOY EVEN THINK I WAS CUTE SO TELL ME WHY WHY WHY??????????!??????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????????????!???????

 

Hey! I felt the exact same way you did when I was younger and you know what? it got better. I'm actually really glad now that I didn't have a bunch of insignificant bfs in middle school and high school. You'll meet someone really substantial when you're older. Good guys are worth the wait. You don't need a boyfriend to validate you. Read books, have fun, and get to know who YOU are before you worry about boys. I promise you will meet someone one day.