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Im not sure where my BF and i stand. The first week of school, in september, we broke up. Then he begged me to get back together with him. And I said yes. Then, my BFF and my BF got into a fight. A big one. And they hate each others guts, now. So, my best friend is telling me to break up with him. And shes making good points about why. The last time i saw him wqas my schools halloween dance on OCt. 26th. We live in Nj so the hurricane has kept us out of schoo; for the past week. I told my BGF, whos like a brother to me, and is also my bfs best friend, that i was going to break up with him that night. my bgf convinced me not to. For that day at least. Now, I'm really confused. I know that breaking up with him is going to hurt him, and i domt want that. I love my bf, things are just hard. So, now i have two people telling me what to think about him and I dont even know my own opinion. Please help me!!!
XOXO!
P.S. My mods havent been showing up for like a month.

 

Hey PandaLover0330, what may work for you is making a list about your BF. Fold the paper in half(hot dog style) and on one side title it POSITIVE and the other NEGATIVE. Spend time writing things beneath each section and when you're finished compare the two. Depending on which is longer, make your decision. Hope this helps! Xoxo 

MOD MOD MOD and Mod my friend likes this girl who we knew in seventh grade..well being the shy guy as he is he never said a word to her about this but now after like three years he found her on facebook and he wants to send her a request but he is not really sure about it! He has no idea if she remembers him and he doesn't even have a clue of what he's going to say to her..Help needed! thanks

 

Hey, this is exactly what FB is for, connecting with old friends. I think he should go ahead and try it out. Right after she accepts the request, he should send her a comment or message saying something like, 'hey, I hope you remember me, we went to the same jr high...." or he could even say "hey, I haven't seen you since the 7th grade! I admit I had a bit of a crush on you back then. How are things now a days?" Good luck to your friend!