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My best friend I both have boyfriends, and they're friends, too. So we wanted to go on a double date together. (Our bf's have no idea yet. But there's a small problem-she wants to go to a park-park (one with trees, a few statues, and a lot of open grass area) and I want to to the playground kind of park with swings and slides. I asked her boyfriend for "no reason", and he said he'd rather go to the playground. But I don't really know where mine would rather go. My friend said that she thinks he'd rather go to the park-park, but I'm not even sure if he'd care (wel, of course he'd care, I just mean that he probably just wants to do what would make me happy because he's really sweet that way. If we went to my friend's choice of park, we would probably walk around on the sidewalks, look at the ducks, and maybe go on the grass. If we ent to my park, then we would play on the slides, go on the swings, and probably talk a little more. Which do you think my bf would prefere?

 

Hey! You're probably right that he'd just want to go where you'd be the happiest. Try making the case to your bff that there might be more activities for you guys to do at the playground, whereas at the park after you walk around for a bit you guys might run out of things to do. good luck! 

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So I like this cutie from karate class, but I'm not sure he likes me back. I mean, he's really nice to me, kinda shy, and really funny! But he's around 2 years older than me, and he's too afraid to hold hands or call our movie dates "dates." He also has this friend who is kind of too interested in what he does and where he goes with me. Help!!! Is he interested? Is his friend interested?

If he doesn't want to say you're dating, he might not be ready for a relationship or might just want to be friends. Either way, that's not a great sign, but if you are hanging out he has at least a friendly interest in you, so keep spending time getting to know each other. Since he knows how you feel, if he decides he wants to say you're dating, he will. As for his friend, I can't tell you whether he's interested in you, but if you want to know more about him maybe you could invite the two of them to hang out in a group with you and your friends so you can get to know him better.

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Help! My mom says I'm to young to go on dates, which I'm okay with, but my boyfriend isn't really the romantic type. We've never even held hands! How do I get him to be more romantic towards me without going overboard? Thanks!

 

hey! drop some hints. suggest that you'd like to hold hands or go for a walk or something good luck!