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if you ask out a guy what do you say? what do you say after he says yes? no? thanks!

If you want to ask a guy out, you don't have to say anything too out of the ordinary because you want it to sound natural and to sound like you! Just ask if he wants to hang out sometime! If he says yes, you can make plans about what you want to do (eating, roller skating, movie, etc.). And if he says no, it doesn't have to be awkward--just say you hope you can still be friends and leave it at that. Good luck!

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why do all the wrong guys like me? This guy in my English class sits across from me. He does a lot of the things mentioned above. I don't like him, so I'm trying to not talk to him as friendly as I talk to the other boy who sits near me in that class. I am hoping he does not think I like him, because I am simply too nice (it's a flaw, I swear) to be totally mean to him or ignore him completely. So any ideas on how to act completely uninterested (because I do not like him)? Thanks!
Also this had happened during the summer too, a guy loved me (literally. no joke) and I liked him back for a while but then did not like him as I got to know him more? Anyway he still likes/loves me and I don't return his affection. It's good that he goes to a diff school but still...how do I get him to move on? He's liked me for 5 months....and told me he loves me.

It sounds like guys like you because you're kind, which is a good thing! You don't have to be mean to the guy you don't want to lead on--you can still be nice as friends but if he tells you he likes you it's ok to be clear and say you want to just be friends with him. As for the other guy, if he still contacts you, be firm in saying you only want to be friends. He will move on in his own time.

 

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yesterday I saw my bf and my BFF kissing, I don't know what to do and I'm too angry to talk to either one of them about it, i thought I could trust my BFF but Now I can't, I don't know what to do, and they don't know I saw. It wasn't even like a short kiss it was like a make out. It makes my cry just thinking about it. Help!??! I dont know what to do!

 

 Wow girl, this is really tough and I'm sorry you have to go through this. I imagine you're confused and mad, sad and betrayed all at the same time, and these feelings are all totally normal. If ya don't want to talk to them just yet, you can go ahead and calm down and take some time to yourself to think. But when you are ready to deal with this sitch, step one is to definetly break up with this jerk. If he kissed your BFF, he is willing to cheat on you and thinks of himself himself and cares more about being selfish than he cares about your feelings. Dump him dump him dump him. You don't need a guy like him in your life. There are good guys out there that don't cheat and that will appreciate you and be great boyfriends. So when you're ready, keep an eye out for a new sweetie and I'm sure you'll find someone great. As for your BFF, I agree that she betrayed your trust and you're prob not going to be able to trust her the same again. Tell her this. Have a talk with her how you feel. like that dating dud, you deserve better than a friend that betrays your trust. Start hanging out with some of your other gal palls to help ya get over this sitch. Watch funny movies, blast T Swift, have sleepovers and do whatever you like to do with your friends. Maybe if your BFF is really sorry (and acts like it!) you guys can talk it out and one day you might be able to be friends again  (even if you arn't best friends). Good luck girl, and keep me posted. xoxo