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This guy friend of mine asked me out last November, but I told him I'd rather stay friends for a while to get to know him better. He seemed to respect that, and we stayed friends, although he was still a bit flirty sometimes with his hugs and jokes.
We were talking over fb one night about two months ago and I ended up telling him about my feelings. He said he wouldn't want to lose me as a friend after we dated, so I shrugged it off and agreed to stay his friend. However, I overheard him tell his friend that he pretended not to like me cuz he'd mess things up, and that maybe we'd date down the road if he got his life together. The thing is, he hardly acts flirty with me and even flirts with other people in front of me. Was he just saying that to his friend? Im confused, help please??

 

That's tough and you're not the first one to be utterly confused by a boy. It seems to me like he was telling his friend the truth. After all, it makes sense that he wouldn't want to mess up the friendship you both have just because of a possible failed relationship. His flirting with other girls could just be his way of making you jealous, or his way of trying to get over you. I'm not sure. The best thing to do is go directly to him. Tell him you overheard him and his friend talking and ask him if what he said was true. It's better than watching him flirt with other girls and not knowing what his true feelings are, right? xoxo

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How do I focus more on school work and less on my crush?

 

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I really want some help. I have a crush on this guy, but he thinks that I'm not his type. He didn't even tell me this. One of my friends did. I feel like a loser. He likes peppy, athletic girls. I'm not peppy or athletic. I really love him and would do anything to change for him. Should I change for him?

 

Never ever ever change for a guy. They're not worth it! One day a guy will come along and love you just the way you are. So why do you want to change for some guy who doesnt? Trust me. You'll be ok and youre 100% better off without him. xoxo kerra 

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I like this guy but i don't know if he likes me,we flirt with each other all the time but sometimes he jokingly says I'm annoying does that mean anything??? and my friends asked if he liked me and we wouldn't answer what should i do to see if he likes me??
please help me.

If he says you're annoying, even jokingly, are you sure that's someone you want to be with? You deserve someone who will always respect you! If he wouldn't answer, he might have been embarrassed or not have wanted to hurt your feelings. I would focus your effort into school and your relationships with family and friends and focus on a guy who will always respect you and treat you well!