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My best friend lives 90 minutes away i don't really visit her. But we skype and oovoo and stuff but we don't talk anymore. I tried calling but all she would do is answer and say her brother and moms bothering her and hang up. I try contacting her on the computer but nothing works. When we did talk i tried telling her we should talk more but then she would say she lost her ipod,the charger broke, or her computer broke. I don't want to be pushy or annoying but we haven't talked in 4 months and i really need to talk to her and tell her stuff. Shes my best friend and we used to talk to about (EVERYTHING) ever day but now i feel sad a alone cause we don't talk anymore. Please Help ;(
Hey girl! Distance can be so hard! Keep up the friendship but maybe reach out to other friends too. It might help to have someone near you to talk to and hang out with!
by destine02 on 8/10/2013 10:27:02 AM
My BFF has done all of these things (except for #7. Even she would never do that)
by TiffanyTorolo on 5/16/2013 12:13:52 AM
by rainbowlious10 on 5/15/2013 3:53:23 PM
be nice one day mean the next. also dumping you and stealing ALL of your other friends at your school. and being a brat witch who has to control evrything about you. She knows who she is.......
by savygirl123 on 4/16/2013 8:05:30 PM
by 513520cb on 4/4/2013 8:45:04 PM
by distractionrainbow on 4/4/2013 6:18:04 PM
Its been days since I've "posted" mine but nothing has come even up... I just need advice.
by Madison Cinnamon on 4/3/2013 9:56:16 PM
are you serious! one comment comes up but the other doesn't!!!
by 513520cb on 4/3/2013 7:58:42 PM
how come my comments never come up?
by 513520cb on 3/30/2013 11:41:39 AM
by maggie183 on 3/27/2013 4:45:20 PM
by maggie183 on 3/27/2013 12:58:41 PM
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I just found out my BGF did something pretty bad..he made some racist comments on Facebook and now he's in big trouble with the school for it. My mom is saying I shouldn't be friends with him anymore..but I'm so confused. I've been like best friends with him for so many years and he's never said anything that sounded at all racist. I don't know what would cause him to write these things. I'm really hurt and confused...you know it's one of those times when you thought you knew somebody REALLY well but then discover you barely know them. I haven't actually talked to him about this because I don't know how to bring it up..
And I'm not allowed to have a Facebook so I don't know exactly what he said..just that it was pretty bad and directed at a couple people at my school.
I feel like I'm friends with a bad person now..should I just ditch him as a friend?? Any advice, I'd really appreciate it...I'm really sad and I don't know what to do.
by maggie183 on 3/26/2013 8:16:21 PM
by Scarlett Witch † on 3/25/2013 1:27:07 PM
by grandeninja<3 on 3/16/2013 10:02:55 PM
Hahaha. My 'best friends' have done all of those things.......:/
by cupcake53 on 3/13/2013 1:12:30 AM
by cupcake_champions on 3/11/2013 12:50:35 PM
by pookie188 on 3/8/2013 8:44:47 PM
I don't think and best friend should ever lie to you or tell you your lying! Or not trust you and all of the other ones that GL wrote
by Maddie90871 on 3/7/2013 9:52:30 AM
by mozilla10 on 3/6/2013 8:11:07 AM
by mozilla10 on 2/25/2013 8:55:33 PM
by PeculiarGurl on 2/25/2013 5:51:12 AM
by PeculiarGurl on 2/23/2013 11:07:52 PM
by Sarah1011 on 2/23/2013 12:23:45 PM
by mozilla10 on 2/23/2013 10:52:34 AM
by emmyquack on 2/18/2013 8:00:45 PM
by Avagurl on 2/18/2013 1:31:23 AM
by Olivia_Rose on 2/17/2013 8:35:59 PM
by Olivia_Rose on 2/17/2013 8:27:20 PM
When I started middle school, I didn't have many friends. I am a loner and am really quiet. I met 4 girls that I soon became best friends with. Well today when I was eating lunch with 3 out of 4 of them, I was kinda stalking them for fun, but not in a mean way. They called me a stalker. When I went up to them before our next classes after lunch began, they didn't know I was there and I said, "Hi," and they kept calling me a stalker. I feel like they are judging me because I am quiet. It wasn't my fault that they didn't know I was there. I told my friend that didn't eat with us that day about it and she said that basically became their own group, that's why she stopped eatting with us. She told me that real friends don't do that and that I should ignore them. The reason why I became a loner and a quiet person is because I have had past friendships that were destroyed by drama. So much drama that I can't stand it anymore.
by MidnightRose on 2/11/2013 4:11:52 PM
by PunkRose88 on 2/11/2013 2:56:01 AM
by iluvsqrls5 on 2/8/2013 10:24:42 PM
My two very best friends in the whole world, they just told me that they're bi. I'm okay with that, but my mom doesn't like bi girls. I tried to invite them over for a sleepover, but my mom said no. I asked her why she doesn't like bi girls, and she said it's because it's unnatural. I've talked to her about it, even fought with her, telling her that they're still my best friends, and that they're very nice people. How do I get my mom to understand that they're alright for me to hang out with?
by wildflower148 on 2/7/2013 7:43:00 PM
I need help. There's a school dance next week, and my friend Megan convinced me to do The Wobble with her at the dance. Then I talked to my other friend Ashley, convincing her to do it with us, and she agreed. Later that day, Megan says to me "Ashley just told me that you don't want to do The Wobble with us" I never said anything like that! Is Ashley trying to make me and Megan mad at each other? Do you think she was just being mean? Helen S.
by wildflower148 on 2/7/2013 7:36:10 PM
This is a message to all girls:
I had a friend for four years. In that time she hit me, yelled at me, called me name, made me feel worthless, claimed that she was perfect and that I was inferior to her.
Then one day it was all over.
She ended it. I was not strong enough to do it first.
But something good came out of this though.
I met a real friend.
Never let someone do what that girl did to me.
You deserve better.
by WInterK on 2/5/2013 3:29:05 PM
by LilTigel on 1/31/2013 5:43:51 PM
by Abby774 on 1/30/2013 8:20:41 PM
by animalsrock22 on 1/25/2013 8:14:35 PM
my bff told me she wouldnt be my friend if i was bi or lesbiam what should i do?????
by alliyah11 on 1/20/2013 11:25:43 PM
by Breezy28 on 1/17/2013 4:14:59 PM
by lolomar on 1/17/2013 3:11:14 PM
by lalalagurl on 1/15/2013 9:12:39 PM
Its never OK to: Lie,hurt each other,tell secrets, spread rumors or make you be someone else around them, or there friends, if they do say good bye, and say hi to someone new!
by mamabear162 on 1/13/2013 5:19:55 PM
A friend should never, ever, EVER insult your other friends. whether it's because the friend whose insulting thinks your other friend is mean or dishonest, she should leave your outside life up to you and not get involved unless you are being hurt in a major way. a friend did that to me once, and i was so upset i ran to the bathroom and cried.
by fashionista997 on 1/12/2013 8:53:22 PM
Yeah that's 10 reasons why I'll NEVER forgive my friend!!!
by MountainLover456 on 1/12/2013 3:41:39 PM
they should never be jealous of something you probably dont even have
by SweetSugarBabe1357 on 1/12/2013 11:36:53 AM
#1 thing a best friend should never do is:START RUMERS ABOUT YOU
by mindless_101 on 1/11/2013 5:26:54 PM
My number-one not-OK thing a bud should never do's make you feel guilty.
by otter77 on 1/8/2013 11:17:02 PM
I think it's so STUPID when girls steal their friends/other girls bfs
I mean seriously there is plenty of fish in the sea
I mean I guess if u feel the urge to steal
Away your friends bf then go for it but let me
Say if u do u need to stop calling her your friend because
U are not a friend to her yup! Your pretty much a major
Umm what's a better word for this.... Harlet!
by redvelvetluv on 1/8/2013 8:35:54 PM
I used to have a friend who would always guilt-trip me and call me mean. friends shouldn't do that.
by dramaticstar on 1/8/2013 2:02:55 PM
She should never be friends with someone you can't stand.
by 4soccer27 on 1/7/2013 10:01:05 PM
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by Emilicious on 1/7/2013 9:53:04 PM
I sometimes make my friends feel guilty, but I don't mean to! I just kinda say "Oh, okay... " when my friends tell me I can't, say, have one of their potato chips at lunch or something. I honestly don't mean it!
by lemonlime123 on 1/7/2013 9:11:46 PM
take ur guy....twice....
by bribri4ever on 1/7/2013 9:01:15 PM
by Emilicious on 1/7/2013 8:45:15 PM
by Ljbdaisy on 1/7/2013 3:04:12 PM
by Ljbdaisy on 1/7/2013 3:01:38 PM
My best friend should never keep things important from you
by VNJ99 on 1/6/2013 8:59:47 PM
by Bananas81 on 1/6/2013 7:29:54 PM
by Sheyenne on 1/6/2013 5:53:05 PM
by Sheyenne on 1/6/2013 5:46:52 PM
by Sarah510 on 1/6/2013 12:05:48 PM
by misstomboy1 on 1/6/2013 9:55:23 AM
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by IMDoodlebug on 1/5/2013 11:13:48 PM
by WinnieGirlie on 1/5/2013 10:46:13 PM
I agree we shouldnt do those things to each other but we all sometimes make mistakes. So there are times I have slipped up and times where my friends have done the same. Its natural to make mistakes but if you do it on purpose to hurt someone that isnt right.
by fashionqn on 1/5/2013 10:32:29 PM
by lucascousin on 1/5/2013 10:31:50 PM
by WinnieGirlie on 1/5/2013 8:47:28 PM
Should point out you flaws kinda like make you feel bad. Like calling you ugly or fat because one thing it hurts, but another it's not true!
by LexiNicoleBieber on 1/5/2013 8:25:34 PM
What about things a boy bestfriend should never say or do ?
by GissetR on 1/5/2013 8:01:21 PM
i think its kind of hilar that me an dmy bestie do all of this haha
by soccerbestie18 on 1/5/2013 7:43:29 PM
I thought I had this BFF and she did EVERY single one of these. :'( But we aren't friends anymore..
by neonroxursox on 1/5/2013 6:54:38 PM
my bestie ,we will call her A,embarrasses me ALOT!!!!!!it gets really annoying cus she will tell embarassing stories infront of my boyfriend and other friends that would think i was really strange if they saw me do that and acouple days ago she told my ex that i stalked him on facebook(which i dont even have a facebook) and now he is going around telling ppl that and im kinda mad at her.ive asked her to stop several times but she wont and i have another friend who does this.plzzz help cuz i still wanna be friends with them
by bking62 on 1/5/2013 6:33:31 PM
I love my bestie, but she tells some of my secrets to her boyfriend, who doesn't like me! She claims that they're a "package deal," so whatever you tell to one of them becomes common knowledge. It's so annoying; I feel like I can't tell her anything anymore! I wish her relationship didn't have to change our friendship.
by WritingChic on 1/5/2013 6:31:29 PM
Me and my friend hit each other all the time. "Playful smacks" are totally and completely fine. And we constantly insult each other. Cause we're like sisters, and thats what sisters so. Well, not me and my actual sister because she's mean, but we used to do that.
by emroxlol on 1/5/2013 5:11:11 PM
by ballerina55 on 1/5/2013 4:41:52 PM
My cousin dated my crush after I told her I like him
by pinkcupcakezrule on 1/5/2013 3:42:40 PM
by nerd_girl_lotr on 1/5/2013 3:36:28 PM
by carinaamina on 1/5/2013 3:24:44 PM
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by Sheyenne on 1/5/2013 3:20:20 PM
my friend always tells me im not as pretty as her. it used to not bother me, but now she says it in public a lot and it hurts my feelings. what should i do?
by sammyy99 on 1/5/2013 3:04:53 PM
Be rude continually. I mean one little slip up is accidental and can be looked over but continually being all mean is not okay. I had a "friend" who was really rude while i was presenting a project (talking, giggling with others, playing on electronics) and when I asked her about it and told her that it was rude and made me annoyed, she told me to get over it and then later started hugging me and saying oh my bad. She did it again and then I said that you can't just do something and then apologize just so you can do it over again. Then, she started saying "whatever" so then later on in the day she started crying and was rude all over again. SO now we're not really friends anymore.
by appleduck101 on 1/5/2013 2:31:10 PM
My friend's BFF does pretty much all of those things to her... and she said I was was ruining her (my friend). And she said she hates me but won't give a reason why... she just doesn't like me. =(
by music191 on 1/5/2013 2:18:32 PM
by svds on 1/5/2013 2:05:26 PM
Omg I used to have this friend who would make me feel SO bad about myself! She was seriously the biggest snob I've ever met idk why I was friends with her..but she would get me so sad and depressed about myself and my life and as soon as I stopped being friends with her I became SUCH a happier person! Don't let people who treat you poorly stick around in your life..they don't deserve anything from you.
by maggie183 on 1/5/2013 1:20:30 PM
Tell your crush that you like him.... Trust me... It is sooooo embarrassing!
by ChloeCouture on 1/5/2013 1:20:23 PM
by girlio93485 on 1/5/2013 1:06:08 PM
1. Gossiping about me
2. medaling in my relationships
by luvcheer87 on 1/5/2013 1:03:54 PM
They should NEVER disrespect your beliefs, interests and opinions.
by fieldhockey001 on 1/5/2013 1:00:25 PM
Best friends shouldn't be talking down to u and respect u and not boss u around and not yell and not be so self important by thinking they r better or smarter than u.
by Icecreamluver on 1/5/2013 12:49:12 PM
by Icecreamluver on 1/5/2013 12:45:32 PM
Best Friends should never lie to you, steal from you, be mean to you, or blackmail you.
All These tips are also good for what you yourself shouldn't do.
by awesomegirl4everandalways on 1/5/2013 12:35:58 PM
by Sheyenne on 1/5/2013 12:24:36 PM
My best friend one day decided she hated me and told all my friends lies about me thats the worst thing a best friend can do!
by cupcakecutie325 on 1/5/2013 12:13:37 PM
Friends should never, ever, be too clingy. It gets really annoying.
by puddinface7 on 1/5/2013 11:42:16 AM
My best friend did something like that to me. Let's just say that we're not BFFs anymore. Now that I think about it, there was a time that she did EVERY ONE of those things. x1000000000000000000000000000000000
by MountainLover456 on 1/5/2013 10:54:39 AM
Ha well I guess I need all new friends! :/
by lemondancer18 on 1/5/2013 9:37:41 AM
Lie to you
by punky99 on 1/5/2013 8:41:19 AM
My best friend should never ever blame me for something that was her fault or partially her fault.
by onyinyechi5166 on 1/5/2013 1:34:07 AM
My number one not OK thing is keeping things from people.
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