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hey GL! so i have a prob..well you see i had a bf before but i broke up with him after two days. everytime a guy asks me out i say no! you see i have this HUGE prob with dating for some reason..once i started dating that guy i let it control my mind and not live my life. i felt weird and uncomfortable. he would send me hearts and i would never reply. i just didnt feel anything emotion and i didnt really like him as much as i thought. i want to date i really do but i always get akward like im not ready. i've rejected almost every guy that has asked me out! and im 13 and i want to date but i cant explain the feeling...help!

 

Hey girl, if you don't think you're ready then wait to date. There is no rush, you have your whole life ahead of you. Just hang out with your guy friends and get to know them, you don't need to date them just yet. Don't worry about it!  

MOD! MOD! MOD!I have known one of my good guy friends since 5th grade.We are in 9th now.I haven't really thought as him as more than a friend until recently And I have come to realize that I REAAALLLLY like this guy.He always knows how to make me smile and talking to him is the easiest thing to do in the world. Also, we slow danced at homecoming with each other in October and it was the most wonderful thing in the world. That dance meant so much to me.So why am i asking for advicec?Well last year he and one of my friends that I am just becoming really close with this year liked eachother.They never dated or became official but they had "flirtationship".Now I dont know whether I should lay off on my feelings or go for this guy that I have liked more than any other guy before.My friend claims she likes other guys but she is always unsure about her feelings and who she definately likes so I don't want her to get mad if I tell her.so,should I tell her?&how can I get out of this friendzone?

If you want to make a move, I would talk to your girl friend first just to make sure their relationship is over and so she doesn't get mad at you later! If she's fine with it, there's no reason not to dance with your guy friend at the next dance, too

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I need to get over my ex. Like, seriouly NEED to get over him. I can't stop thinking about him and its affecting everything in my life. Today started winter break so i dont have see him for 10 days, but when we get back i'm gonna need to see him everyday. Plus, we're friends on top of everything, i can't let go of our friendship (we've known each othe for years). How do I get over him????

Check out this post for tips on getting over your ex, and enjoy winter break! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/10/12/How-can-I-get-over-my-ex.aspx

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Can you help me? this is very urgent. I modded before about my group of 5 friends being called lesbian. It never bothered me heaps until my friend texted me last night and told me a group of guys (whom she had never heard of before) called her up and started saying horrible things to her about her being "lesbian". We have never even given any reason for anyone to say this. We are all totally straight. I told her to tell her parents about it coz they will know what to do. Her response was it didnt bother her. I know it is because she wont stop talking about it and how she thinks it will spread around the school. An with our school this is very likely coz gossip like that spreads super fast. People already dont make contact with my group of friends because of this rumour i dont want it to be more. What can i do???

 

Hey Enriquette96, unfortunately you can't stop rumors. All that matters is that you guys know it isn't true. People will always believe what they want to think. You just have to show them that their opinions of you don't matter. Once kids at your school see how their words and lies aren't affecting you guys, they will stop spreading the rumors. Hope this helps! Xoxo