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My boyfriend (or I guess ex-boyfriend) broke up with me 4 months ago and I am still not over it. I am only 15! I feel like at this age a break up should not affect me as much as it is but no matter how hard I try to move on and focus on other people and things in my life I end up balling by the end of the night. I mean I have never liked somebody so much and I was so happy with him. For Petes sake I was getting teary eyed at homecoming I was so dang happy! I have NEVER cried out of happiness. I think the because I felt that there were no problems in our relationship, the fact that we got along insanely well, and also that he was by far the nicest guy I have ever had any sort of relationship with makes it so hard to move on. But I am so sick of being upset. I really just want to feel happy again and be able to look at life on the bright side like I used to. Not holding back tears until I can't take it anymore. Any suggestions that might help me?

MOD MOD MOD MOD ok so im in 8th grade and this guy is in 6th grade. He told a couple of my friends that he was going to ask me out. He's really a nice guy sweet, cute funny, etc.. would it be wierd if i dated him and also i cant date till high school. Wouldn't it be wierder to wait till im in 9th grade and hes in 7th. im also thinking hes to young to date but i do like him. What should i do??

Two years might be a big deal, especially when you're young, but if you know him really well and think he's mature, there's no harm in giving him a chance. But if you're not allowed to date until high school, that's a bigger problem! You don't want to go against your parents' wishes, so stay friends with him for now and then talk to your parents about dating him when you're allowed next year. You might feel differently by then, so there's no need to worry about it now!

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ok so one of my good guy friends (lets call him Q) is always hugging me and like play flirts around me and i do the same but i don't think he likes me and idk if i like him like that either. He always talks to me during school but after school, we NEVER talk, and i don't want to start the convo because i might seem obnoxious.. i just miss him as a friend and don't know how to tell him to talk to me more. and he always is like lets oovoo! and when we are both online he says he can't every single time. :/ any suggestions

If online chatting isn't working out, try starting a conversation with him at lunch or after school in person. If he's one of your good friends, it won't seem obnoxious at all! Just tell him you miss hanging out and spending time together as friends. I'm sure he'd love to catch up--online might just not be the best outlet.

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I talked to my ballet teacher in mid November about Pointe and she told me that she would see how I was when the session ends. The session just ended so I am going to ask her about it when I have dance. Except that was pretty long ago, so I feel like she may have forgotten, and I don't know if she meant to talk to me. How should I bring it up??

 

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Why do some girls who JUST met a guy start dating him right
Away like when she first met him Isn't that rushing
Into things

 

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ok so this guy asked me out and i said yes, and so he wuz like "ok so we shud just meet up at the movies" and i told him that i wasnt allowed to date, but inwould gladly be his gf in skool, and after that he was lyk alright i get it see u at skool,and he hasnt txted me since. Now im confused, are we gonna b dating at skool, or did that mean he wasnt interested anymore? Help! And also, if we r dating, how do i break the ice? I mean we dont know each other THAT well, but im pretty sure as the relationship goes on we'll get to know each other better, but how to i get rid of the awkwardness at the begginning? HELPPP

 

Hey girl, sounds like you jumped into it a little too quickly if he's your bf and its still awkward. I would slow things down a bit and just get to know him. Talk to him again, ask him what he meant, cause you would still like to be with him!