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ok, here it goes.i have had a crush on my new guyfriend for a year.last week i found out he liked my best friend. i was eventually ok with it. an hour ago, i got an email from my guyfriend saying my other friend had said she was angry at him for what he did to me. thing is, he didn't do anything! she also said she had seen his e-mails to me. i did show her one email, about him apologizing for his friend being a total jerk to me. i am very upset at my friend, and i feel very bad. What should i do?PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Hey! The important thing here is to talk to your friend and this boy in person. It seems hard, but I find that email and texting can be very emotionally distancing. Talking in person allows everyone an equal chance to tell their side of it. Good luck! 

 

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I don't want a boyfriend but I have this big crush on a guy. He is a good friend and my girlfriends want to set us up, and I said no. They keep bugging me about how they think that he likes me back and that we are "soul mates". Is it wrong to like a guy you don't want to go out with? I just dont think I'm ready for a bf. Am I leading him on? I am very confused!

 

hey! I think that's absolutely ok. there's nothing wrong with playing the field at your age. You're young, so just meet new people and make friends right now. good luck! 

MOD MOD MOD Im having trouble reading my crushes signals. I cant tell if he likes me as just a friend or if he might be startin to crush back. Ive known him for a few months, we talk almost every chance we get and were both laughing the whole time, we always walk together after this one class. Hes also got pretty good body language towards me, like he makes eye contact, and is generally squared in my direction when he talks to me. He even came up behind me this one time and started ruffling my hair ( I knew he was there, he wasnt creeping) Whats confusing me is how many people say guys who like you are shy around you. He isnt. Hes extremely outgoing. I can't tell if this is just how he is, cause Im not nervous around him, or if he doesnt like me like that. He also always smiles when he sees me in the halls, sometimes he waves. Ive taken quizzes (urs & others) & gotten good results mostly, but my friends dont have much guy experience and i want a human opinion. Im in HS if that matters

 

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What is with girls and flirting with their
Friends boyfriends I mean seriously that
Is your FRIENDS boyfriend I keep reading
Comments like my best friends boyfriend
Is so cute and I really want to make out
With my best friends boyfriend it's like seriously?!
That's your best friend why do girls do this?
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I am sure they feel bad about it, but you can't control your feelings, so those girls might have had a crush on those guys for a while, even if they're not acting on it! Of course you should never do that to a best friend though! 

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Hey so I have a bf and he's really sweet and I have liked him for a super long time and when he finally asked me out I was SUPER happy!!! But before I liked him I liked these three guys let's call them drake, jake and dan.. Well the other day I noticed drake staring at me, so I talked to him about it and he said that he has a crush on me, but I told him I have a bf so he walked away with a really sad look.. Then Jake came up to me and said he has liked me for a super long time and that im gorgeous but he knows I have a boyfriend so he walked away.. Then last night dan came up to me and asked who my best friend likes and I said im not gonna tell him cuz she's my best friend and he said well what if she told me who you liked?! and I was like ummm my boyfriend!! and I started laughing and he looked down and walked away with a really sad look! I still like all of them! What should I do!?!!?!?! thank you!! (ps. sorry for the length!)

 

Hey kkheartspink, you have a boyfriend now so you can't really talk to those guys. It's okay to be in a relationship and still think other guys are cute, but don't make a move. Eventually you'll get over them. Hope this helps! Xoxo