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I'm having some problems on social websites. It's actually on Instagram. I follow lots of fanpages (One Direction, Taylor Swift, and more) and on one picture someone, a stranger, commented very rude insults about One Direction. I said to them that I didn't think they should be saying these mean things, and then the person got really mad at me and started to insult me. I decided to block the person after a few replies trying to calm things down, but now I feel guilty. I know I wasn't the one saying mean things, but I get the same guilty feeling a lot when I tell people to stop the hate and they reply saying mean things to me. I don't what to do. I want to stop all the hate, but I get yelled every time I try. I don't want to stop going on Instagram, but I don't really know what to do. I'm trying to be nice, but others aren't so nice. Should I just stop commenting altogether? Thank you!

 

Hey girl, it's good of you to want to stand up to these rude people, but unfortunately these people are always going to exist. Especially on social media. I would suggest you just let it go and don't respond to them. Be on Instagram for all the photos that you want to see, not that rude comments from other people.  

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Okay so I need to get over this guys.
So I started liking him in Septemeber. He was a year older and 2 years ago we have a few classes together (band and art). I didn't like him back then. It wasnt until this year. When I started liking him I could never get the courage to tell him. So anyways he started dating a girl a while ago and it's really painful.
So like we aren't really friends or like someone that I would random walk up to And talk too. But like our parents aren't friends or anything but his dad teases me and my dad teases him. And it's not we won't talk to each other either when I talk to him and completely comfortable. Though we never really hold a conversation.
Urge it's just frustrating though cause I like him so much. I get butterfly's just thinking about him. Things that he says and does just makes me smile.
Help me it's hard watching him with another girl.

It stinks to see the guy you like with someone else, but try to be happy for him as hard as it may be! At least he is happy even if not with you. Try focusing your efforts on schoolwork and your friends and family, and get to know some other guys you might have overlooked before. Check out this post for more ideas on getting over a guy! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/10/12/How-can-I-get-over-my-ex.aspx