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I have a major crush on this guy. He says that he likes the "popular girl," but he flirts with me. He sends me mixed signals. He...
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Mod So, I hae a major crush on my BGF for 4 years now, but for the first 2 years that I've beencrushing on him, he had a gf but they broke up. Well, he told me the reason and I'm the one who listens to his problems even though sometimes, it's irritating. Well, this year, we've been close like "close. Closer than everyone else! It's like we can't live everyday without texting/chatting/calling each other and we can't live a week or two without seeing each other personally. but sometimes he replies with one word chats. idk why. And when his cuz go here in our house, (his grandparents is our neighbor and so are they, before but they transferred house) he go here too. And he acts weird he hugs me wraps his arms around me, always likes us to be alone and suggests tha we should sit together when eating. Do u rhink he likes me too? Or should I just moveon?









 

Hey sweetie! Wow, four years is a long time to have a crush on someone!! Since he is your BGF you should try talking to him, see if he has any  feelings for you. It might be a little awkward for a while, but you guys have been friends for so long that you'll totes move past it. xo 


Caroline M.

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by ilovetaylorswiftyahaveaproblem? on 5/21/2013 11:16:59 AM

 
 



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So I'm 15 and a freshman and I've never had a boyfriend. My older brothers never dated in high school and I have trouble talking to boys. I'm scared I'm never gonna date anybody and never have my first kiss! I don't know what to do.

 

Hey girlie! Don't be afraid. Just be friendly! Don't force it, just try to face your fears and talk to some guys. They're not so scary, I promise. Good luck! xx 


Hannah M

by LAGguitar on 5/16/2013 11:06:33 PM

 
 



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I have been seeing this guy for about 7 months. He is super nice, very thoughtful, and very good-looking. It's just hard for me to show him how much he really means to me. I tell him all the time but it just seems like he doesn't realize that he means the absolute world to me. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. How do I make him believe my feelings for him are real?

 

Hey girlie! That's so sweet. Just try showing him how much you care, it's impossible to force someone else's feelings. He's probably just a little clueless. Try to figure out why it isn't clicking, but it's probably nothing you've done. Try to be specific about the things you like about him in particular. Also, keep in mind that actions speak louder than words. Best of luck! xxx


Caroline M.

by pinkpony on 5/16/2013 1:45:00 PM

 
 



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there's a guy from my school that i like and i think he likes me too but I'm not sure if he just sees me as a friend. I've liked him since October but recently I've been thinking he likes me too (by recently, I mean since maybe January). hes been calling me almost every night for the past few weeks about homework and stuff but usually we just talk and my friend says that he likes me. we talk a lot in school and he knows how my grades are (straight A+'s) and he always asks for my help with projects, homework he hasn't done, and sometimes during lunch we go into the library/media center and I help him study. also, he sometimes brags about my good grades to other people right in front of me *blush* and sometimes he reefers me as "the smartest girl in the grade". also, sometimes we walk to class or to lunch together and he always walks right up next to me, almost holding my hand. also, I'm friends with his twin sister so i see him then. do you think he likes me? help!

 

Hey chick! I definitely think he likes you! Go for it! Tell him you want to hang one-on-one, or next time you're studying, tell him you think he's really cute! Good luck, babe! xx 


Hannah M

by thelilly921 on 5/15/2013 5:49:31 PM

 
 



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Okay, so I like my bgf, and he likes me(he told me he did and I told him I liked him). Then today he told me that he doesn't want to go out with me because when we break up it would ruin our relationship(friends). But im over here like why would we have to break up? I mean, I know relationships don't last forever, but I really like him. he also said that we could hug and stuff even though we aren't going out. I don't really know what to do, please help.

 

Hey girlie, talk to him some more about it. If you like each other enough then it's worth taking that risk. Of course taking your relationship to a new level will change things, and you can never go back from that. But it could be worth it.


Lauren T.

by mep61600 on 5/13/2013 6:44:14 PM

 
 

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My BGF is a total sweetheart. He is nice, funny & flirty. I have a funny feeling when I talk to him even though I have never had this feeling with past crushes. Does this mean that I have a crush on my BGF?

Hey girlie,

It sounds like you might have a crush on him, but it's totally okay to not be sure how you feel! Maybe you could just keep hanging out with him as friends and see how you feel about him after a while, and if you do like him, you could ask him to dance with you at your next dance or something else casual and see how he responds. But if you're not sure whether you like him, there's no rush, so take your time figuring it out Smile

Meghan D.

by xueyunc on 5/11/2013 11:19:20 PM

 
 

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So I'm going to explain to you my dilemma. Okay. I'm fourteen and my crush is fourteen. We are going into high school. We have had a "thing" since sixth grade. When I moved here. Which isn't bad. But the thing is I kind of feel like he is "special" in a way. He can usually say what I'm thinking about. Or I'll think something and hell do it. Vice versa. And he always cheers me up and he's willing to do anything for me. And he listens and he's talked to me about things he has never talked to anyone before. I don't know. I just feel natural when I'm with him. But here's my problem. We're 14. And I can date but I choose not to. He wants to date. But my reasoning is that I want to save the chance for when we are older and more mature. But he just keeps bringing it up. My problem is I don't know what to do. He said he loves me. Should I date? Should I forget? Should I stay? And do soul mates exist? I feel like he is mine. I... I just don't know

Hey girlie,

It's up to you whether or not you want to be in a relationship, and there's no right or wrong age to start dating if it's okay with your parents and you feel like you're ready. Maybe you could think about why you're against dating and whether or not those reasons still apply to the situation with your crush. And "dating" or being in a relationship can mean whatever you want it to--it can mean just hanging out if you don't want to go on "dates". If you already spend enough time together and both like each other, there might not be much of a change to call yourselves in a relationship, but ultimately it's up to you. Maybe you could agree with him on what your definition of dating is and reach something that works for both of you!

Meghan D.

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by I Luv Carson on 5/11/2013 3:50:46 PM

 
 

I have the same problem except he says he likes me and not the popular girl. We have "history" and he just met her this year and says I just have to trust him. The reason he hasn't asked me out is because he cant be distracted by relationship stuff during finals. Lol it's hard because she's a flirt to him and he leads her on I think. I'm going to make him tell her today tho.

by chick987 on 5/11/2013 1:28:59 PM

 
 

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So today, I hanging out with my crush and 5 of my friends, and we were trying to ask him who he likes. Finally, he said that he likes one of us. When my friend said"oh I see!*wink-wink*) he laughed then said no. same thing with my other friend if it was her, he did the same, but when I asked it if it was me( with crazy flirty eyes ;) he was like maaaybe Laughing. do u think he likes me? or was he just kidding around? he also has been talking to me a lot more than normal lately. And I was in a hunger games club with him, he immediately suggested we form an alliance. Also when I said I might quit, he started acting weird and acting like he didn't want me to! I also always catch him looking at me. Do you think he likes me? He is definitely not shy, he's kinda the class clown actually.

Hey girlie,

It sounds like there is a good chance he likes you, but it's hard to be absolutely sure since he hasn't said so directly! Maybe you could ask him to dance with you next time your school has a dance, or subtly begin to act more flirty around him and see how he responds. Or if you want to be really bold, you could tell him you like him or ask him out and see how he responds!

Meghan D.

by auslly123 on 5/10/2013 9:59:05 PM

 
 

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Lynae P
Yeah we still talk just not as much and it's sort of awkward especially if she's around. Thank you!!

by cgirl751 on 5/10/2013 9:58:57 PM

 
 



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Ok so a couple months ago I started talking to this guy. My friends told him I like him even though I didn't. But they asked him his feelings on me and he said he likes me he just didn't want a relationship. Then he told one of my friends he wanted to ask me to prom. But then one of his best girl friends date ditched her so he asked her. Even though he had asked her we were still talking but then apparently he and this girl kissed at prom and he might like her but he also still likes me. It's gotten very awkward between him and I. He doesn't want to date this other girl because she leaves for college in a few months. What does all this mean for me and him and what can I do to fix this friendship/relationship?

 

Hey cgirl751, I think there's still a possibility for a relationship between you two. Things just got a little messy with this other girl. Maybe once she leaves you two can get back to normal. Do you guys still talk? 


Lynae P.

by cgirl751 on 5/10/2013 8:23:19 PM

 
 




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in this case, to me at least, it sounds like the boy doesn't want you to know that he likes you and probably thinks that liking the "popular girl" is safe. also he might be scared because he doesn't know if you like him back, so he wants you to know that he does like someone, even if she may be unattainable. i have dealt with this scenario before recently. a boy liked me a lot, made it obvious, flirted, and even told his friends that he liked me back (mistake- because they told me haha). but I do think this boy likes you, and if you like him back, then flirt back. to me, it sounds like he likes you but is unsure what to do about it, so, like most guys do, they opt for the "safe" "popular" girl because they usually won't have to deal with as much rejection. he also may not be quite sure if he likes you, that way. he definitely seems interested, so why not?
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Hey the lilly92, mhmm maybe he wasn't sure that you liked him. He could've just assumed that the popular girl had feelings for him since they are in the same circle. So there wasn't much of a challenge to get her. To get you it may have been more difficult. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile 

 


Lynae P.

by thelilly921 on 5/10/2013 6:07:12 PM

 
 



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Ok so my BGF has a crush on this girl and she likes him. However, she's jealous of me because he had a crush on me last year and the beginning of this one. I really don't like her because she's loud and pushy. She always tries to get my BGF by himself and shut me out as much as possible. She completely ignores me whenever she's close by, doesn't even look at me, and tries to get him away. And he usually goes. He'll get up 4 or 5 times from our lunch table to go talk to her, tickle her, etc. It's SO annoying! I get that they like each other, but he's my friend too! I see him less than she does anyway. What should I do?

 

Hey flutist99, oh no. This girl sounds like trouble. She seems jealous of the bond you have with your best guy friend. At the same time you have to understand how he's feeling. Imagine if the guy you liked was interested in you too. Wouldn't you want to spend as much time around him as you can? So let him have his fun for now, and be there for him when he needs advice on approaching her. If they do get in a relationship, maybe then it would be a good time to talk to him about her. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile  


Lynae P.

by flutist99 on 5/10/2013 6:01:32 PM

 
 




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Ok, so there's this guy I've liked for the longest time. We have like 4 classes together, and everyone calls us out on flirting, but some days he's uber flirty with me, but other days he just seems kind of out of it. I don't have his phone # so for one can you give me a tip on how to ask for it? Another thing is everyone is telling me that we should just make it official already and start dating....but I'm too scared to break the ice and I'm pretty sure he's not gonna! Any ideas on what I should do?!? PS: There's three days left in the school year, so if I'm gonna do anything its gotta happen soon

 

Hey actress12345, don't be shy about breaking the ice. It seems like he really likes you too but is just a bit nervous. You could outwardly ask him or try to be slick about it. If you want to ask him try something like "Hey you send texts right? Give me your number so we can text sometime." or "I don't have your number. Wanna exchange numbers?". To be a little more tricky let him hold your phone to see something (maybe a funny picture or embarrassing text message) and then say "Oh put your number in too". Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile


Lynae P.

by actress12345 on 5/10/2013 5:19:12 PM

 
 



What does mod mod mod mean

 

Hey! "Mod mod mod" stands for "moderator moderator moderator". It usually means that the person wants a moderator to answer a question or give some advice. Hope this clears it up! xx 


Hannah M

by Jules1399 on 5/10/2013 4:14:53 PM

 
 



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This may seem like a strange question to ask, but there are two guys (both seniors) who have been SUPER SUPER nice to me this year (I'm a freshman). They've been in Speech and Debate with me (as co-presidents), and they're in my Theatre class now (upper level classes). They've encouraged me and helped me with preparation for tournaments mostly, but today, one of them said that I was "really really talented" and that I "shouldn't believe anyone who tells me otherwise," and the other one wants me to be his stage manager for a play he's just written. Now, here's the thing. I want to thank them for it, but I don't really know how...I'd like to just work up the gut and tell them in person, but I don't know if I could say everything I wanted to...any suggestions? Thanks! Smile

 

Hey girlie! Sounds like you're super talented! Good job! Anyway, I think that saying thank you in person is always nice and heartfelt. Approach them and calmly say how flattered you are that they've been so nice to you this year. If this is too scary, send them a Facebook inbox or text. Hope this helps! xx 

 

 

 


Hannah M

by lpolk on 5/10/2013 4:00:15 PM

 
 



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I need some MAJOR boy help. So I really like this guy, and my friend who has known him forever helps me with what to do and say. Today, without me knowing, she pulled him aside and asked him if he though I was pretty. My friend texted me telling me that he got really red, rubbed the back of his neck with his hand, stuttered, but said, "Yeah, I think she is really pretty." Two of my other friends were with here and said that was what happened too. He has been acting different around me lately, and all I want to know is what does his behavior and his answer mean, and what can I do from here?

 

Hey girlie! Sounds like he has a crush on you! Try to sit next to him a little more often and talk to him. If he seems a little nervous or excited, it probably means he likes you too. If he seems really awkward and like he wants to leave, he might just feel really uncomfortable because your friend put him on the spot a little. I would try to ask your friends to butt out a little bit. They definitely just want to help, but they might scare him off! Try to make him feel comfortable and not awkward, and he'll warm right up. Best of luck! xx 


Hannah M

by Cait850 on 5/10/2013 3:07:45 PM

 
 

UM HELLO?!?!?!!!?!?!?! WHEN YOU ASK HIM WHO HE LIKES HE SAYS THAT TO COVER UP WHO HE LIKES! IF YOU FLIRTS WITH YOU (AND I MEAN ONLY YOU!) THEN HE LIKES YOU! WHEN HE ASKS YOU OUT HE'LL PROBABLY SAY THAT HE THINKS YOUR POPULAR TO FLATTER YOU!

by itsjustgz on 5/10/2013 9:03:49 AM

 
 



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Lately, I've felt really down about myself. I don't like my weight, my face, how I'm a drama queen, how I can't get a guy and a lot of other things. When I asked my friend for some advice for confidence boosters, she told me that I'm over confident. I don't understand at all! Please please help!

 

Hey hon! I'm sorry to hear you're so down on yourself. It's important to be confident in yourself, but if there are things you don't like about how you are, there are a couple of ways you can go about it. Firstly, your weight. Calculate your Body Mass Index, (www.nhlbi.nih.gov/guidelines/obesity/BMI/bmicalc.htm), and see if you're in the healthy range of weights. If you're overweight, try eating more fruit and going for little jogs after school. Keep in mind, weight is highly variable at this time in your life, and time usually takes care of things if you eat healthy and exercise regularly. Your face: don't be silly. You're beautiful! Now, as for the drama queen thing. If you think you make too big of a deal out of things, look at how you deal with your problems and see if you could react less. Pick your battles and only make a big deal out of things that are worthy of your time. Here's the thing: confidence has to come from within. Even models who are paid for their looks and told how beautiful they are all the time can be incredibly self-conscious. If you fix what you really don't like about yourself, and also accept some of your flaws as parts of your personality that you just can't change, confidence will come naturally. Hope this helps Smile xx


Hannah M

by Blushing-Beauty on 5/10/2013 8:30:35 AM

 
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