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Should you tell him how ya feel before school ends?

I really like this guy in my grade. The problem is, school is ending in a couple weeks. We have mutual friends, so we might run...
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I have a crush on this guy in my class and we've been friends on our classes all year but lately our conversations have been getting a lot more flirty and I don't know if he's into me too or not, but this is what I know:
-we snapchat eachother almost everyday now
-he usually stops answering me later in the day/night but he always sends the first snapchat the next day like "goodmorning (:" or "ready for today?"
-he's in a few of my classes and we usually sit next to eachother
-a few days ago,  we had a really deep conversation about it over snapchat (yeah, thats possible, I didn't know it was either) and I helped him feel better about it
-he practices sports a lot so sometimes he snapchats back really quickly and sometimes it takes like 30 minutes-1 hour so I'm not sure if he wants to talk to me a lot?
sorry, this is pretty vague but I am really confused sometimes. Thanks in advance!!!! -Sam xxxx

 

Hey girl! I would just keep trying to build a friendship with him and get to know him. Eventually, you can probably work up to a conversation about who likes who when you're more comfortable around him. If the conversation gets serious like that again though, I recommend talking to an adult and letting them know what's going on. Self-harm is super serious and he may need more help than you're equipped to give him! 

xo 


Taeler L.

by xoxsamii on 6/19/2013 7:51:29 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD?!?! please help!
In november this guy who i hardly knew got my number from a girl i know and he texted me all the time. he'd litterally text me every day and ask me all these these questions. probably two days after he first started texting me four of his friends told me that he really liked me. only problem? i didnt like him back. he kept texting me and asking who i liked and it kinda overwhelmed me plus he hardly talked to me in person so i stopped texting him and started trying to avoid him which made for some awkward encounters at school. but then i started to feel really bad and it made me realize that i miss him texting me. i guess i just like the fact that he liked me. should i text him and try to be friends??? but i feel like thatd be even more awkward than trying to avoid him... what do you think i should do?? thanks in advance!




Hey girlie, it sounds like you enjoyed getting all of that attention which is totally normal. If you can be just friends, then go right on ahead. However, if you feel as though you'll be leading him on then stay clear. You don't want to end up hurting anyone's feelings here. It could be a sticky situation. Just remember to always consider the feelings of others and not sacrifice them just because you like the attention. Hope it all works out! xx  




 
Jess D.

by lil-gingie-gymnast on 6/14/2013 4:47:41 PM

 
 



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HELP MEEEEEEE!!! I really like this guy and hes had 2 gfs in a month my friends asked him out for me but he said he doesn't no my name but yesterday he made a move on me and flits with me a lot he sits next to me does he like me and should I ask him out ??




Hey girlie. Hmmm. 2 girlfriends in 1 month? That's a warning sign right there! I mean, a month is only 4 weeks! I don't think the question is if he likes you or not, I think the real question you need to ask yourself is why do you like him and should you like him? Nevertheless, don't ask him out. Let him work for you girl! You're worth the chase! xx 
Jess D.

by 1D on 6/13/2013 1:50:21 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! I really need some help! So a few weeks ago I just randomly started to have a crush on this guy that sits next to me in my fourth hour class Biology. He's really cute, smart, nice and funny and is kinda popular but not as popular. I wouldn't consider us "Friends" we just know each other from school. The thing is I am extremely shy around him but other guys(I pretty much talk to guys all day) I am fun and outgoing. I only have literally two more days in that class with him before school is out and I want his number! How can I get him to notice me?? I've talked to him a few times like once I asked" Do you know when class is over?" "What did you get for this question?" I also sometimes so nervous that yesterday I felt nerves in my stomach! I ONLY have 2 FULL DAYS! My old crush I was really close friends with so He just gave me his number. But this crush I don't really know them so I can't get it from them. HELP ME!

 

Hey girl. Just be like, "Hey, I know we haven't talked much this year, but I was gonna get a group together to go to the movies after school lets out, can I have your number to invite you?" and he'll probs say yes. Once you have it, you can either follow through with the movie thing (hey, it'd be fun), or just text him saying "ugh, movie's not working out, everyone's so busy! what are you up to over the summer?" and hopefully the convo will flow from there. xx

Hannah M

by iloveboyswhorap on 6/6/2013 4:07:09 PM

 
 



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Ok so i've told you guys before about me and my best friend Matt. Well I've had a crush on him since last year. This school year just ended for us, but we have a lot of events to go to together. We just finished 8th grade and next year he is transferring schools. He said he has the summer to think about it, but he is pretty dead set on going to a different school. I don't know if I should tell him i like him since he is leaving or not. It is really tough on me that he is leaving because we have been together for 9 years. We just got back from camp together and while we were there we went canoeing. My friend Cierra was in his canoe and he asked her if i liked him. She said she didn't know, (but she does, i'm happy she didn't tell him), and he said "I know she does." as in i like him. i need to know should i tell him and if i do how. I really want to just not sure when. We have Graduation, Confirmation,a pool party, and an Amusment Park. When? and Where?

 

Hey girl! It sounds like this may be best to just feel out the moment you want to tell him. If you've already made up your mind to let him know how your feeling, then you should just want for the time that feels good to you. Be comfortable and confident! Regardless of what happens, be proud you were brave! Good luck!

xo 


Taeler L.

by daisie5 on 6/1/2013 10:06:14 PM

 
 



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Me and my crush have been getting closer and we were right on that boarderline then someone else asked him out. He is a nice guy, and the girl was a 'fragile' one so he said yes to spare her feelings. They're secretly dating, but he told me straight up, so I guess that means we are still close. He still walks me to class and to the bus stop and we talk a lot. He and the girl never really talked; they only talk a bit now. She usually just follows him and when it's the 3 of us walking, it's always me and him talking. I don't want to hurt the girl, but knowing that I cant make a move on him really hurts me. He admits that it is really awkward and doesnt really like it between them. I tried telling him that if later on her breaks up with her, that would hurt her even more but he's hoping that she will break up with him, so she won't get hurt. But every time I am walking and talking alon with him, some of the girl's friends look us meanly. Help? Thx!!! Xoxo

 

Hey girl! Such a tricky situation! I would keep up the friendship, but definitely back away from trying to date him. It sounds like he's leading one or both of you on a little, and that's not fair since you both seem like nice girls. If he's not planning on breaking up with her, it's not cool to leave you hanging on until she decides to break up with him. Good luck!

 

xo 


Taeler L.

by PeculiarGurl on 6/1/2013 5:22:31 AM

 
 

I have this crush, but he has a girlfriend. I don't exactly like this girl but I try to be nice.and I am! But my crush... one day we were in gym and he called me ugly, which really shut me down, because he was my crush. but I knew that what he said wasn't true. At the end of calls my crush said,"Are we still friends?" And I said IDK. Is this a sign of a guy liking you if they are mean to you one second, then nice the next?

by mkwilli on 5/26/2013 10:42:26 PM

 
 



I have a guy friend who used to really, really like me, and I turned him down a couple times when he asked me out. Now he has a gf but he says he wants to be closer friends with me. It seems like he's flirting and he's always talking to me but I know he has a gf and he's really serious about relationships, not in a bad way. He just really, really likes her. The problem is that now I like him a LOT, and it's pretty obvious that I like him. There's like 2 weeks left of school and I don't want to mess things up between us cuz he's a great friend, but I like him a ton and it makes me feel really bad not being able to tell him and having to listen to him talk about her all the time! What do I do?

 

Hey chica! So here's what I'm thinking: You don't want to destroy this kid's relationship, but you also don't want to suffer in silence. I wouldn't mistake his talking to you a lot as a sign that he's into you, because he might just actually want to be better friends. It especially seems a little odd that he asked you out a few times, you turned him down, and now that he's unavailable, you want him again. A lot of people want things they can't have, so look at that - do you really like this guy, or do you just want him because you can't have him? Consider if you were his girlfriend - how would you feel?


Hannah M

by Sunny79 on 5/23/2013 11:56:10 PM

 
 



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Grab you chairs because this is a pretty dramatic story.
My crush texts my friend and there were practically buds but one day he told me he liked her and he refused to ask her out and then he completely ignored her and told me off also. For the past week my friends says he is following me and looking at me a lot.I have no idea wants going on and I'm afraid to say something. What's happening? I don't know if he likes me or not. Please explain.

 

Hey babe! Boys can be totally tricky. I am sorry that he told you off and was being a little rude. You should try talking to your friend, make sure she doesn't have feelings for him because you wouldn't want to mess up your friendship. If she doesn't, you should totes try to talk to him. Just casually at first and then if you think he might like you, talk to him about your feelings. Best of luck! xx 

 


Caroline M.

by Sunblue45 on 5/22/2013 3:15:35 PM

 
 

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I have a crush on the class clown. Problem is he flirts with me and some of his friends that are girls. The other day he sent me a note saying, " If we are gonna be good friends we need to tell each other secrets" I didn't tell him i like him but just my personality. But then today he kept winking when he said something "inappropriate" but ik he was joking. With his friends that are girls he doesnt do exactly what he does with me with them. But its still weird. and he shows signs of liking me some days. the other day he told me he wanted to hug me. When i ask him if i look better wuth or without my glasses his friend answers but he gets sweaty and says " i cant answer that." Do u think he likes me as a crush??

 

Hey girlie, I think there's a definite possibility! Keep flirting with him and see if he keeps flirting back. Show him know that you like him without being too obvious about it. 


Lauren T.

by YannaRox on 5/20/2013 6:23:37 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD Me and my Boyfriend have been dating now for about a month but we have a long distant relationship, we go too different schools and i only see him on Mondays, and Thursdays After school for an hour and i talk to him on Facebook all the time, and on Saturdays he comes to say Hi but not for long cause were both busy. I Really like him and all, but is it bad to still date if were far apart?

 

Hey girlie! It may be hard to date someone that you don't go to school with but if you really like each other you should def keep dating.  School is almost over so I am sure you will see each other a lot more during the summer.  If you both keep making an effort to hang out more you will be really happy.


 


Elizabeth K.

by mozilla10 on 5/20/2013 10:48:51 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD help me if my crush flirts with me andd compliments me and is really nice to me does it mean he likesme well im not sure if he is flirting or being nice and i have no older sister to talk to please help

 

Hey girlie, it's hard to tell. If he goes out his way to be nice to you, he's probably flirting and might like you. Keep talking to him and see where things go. 


Lauren T.

by jazzy232 on 5/19/2013 8:27:30 PM

 
 

I am so confused! I really like this boy and he talks to me sometimes and he compliments me and says really nice things and it seems like he is flirting. But he doesn't really talk to me around his friends. He looks like a flirt and when he compliments me his friends say stop flirting with me and I walk away smiling. What should I do? And Im not sure he would like me as much because of my.... weight *cries* Please help. :'( 0.0

by jazzy232 on 5/19/2013 8:24:20 PM

 
 



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I really really realy like this guy~ He is super nice! He asked me to Prom and we just went to Gatsby together... But I can't tell if he likes me or if we are jsut really good friends! A lot of my friends thinks he likes me, and my mom even tells people we're dating!!! I am so confused!! I don't know if I should ask him before school ends, but I am scared if he doesn't it will ruin our friendship.... HELP!!!!!

 

Hey girlie, it sounds like he probably likes you. And if he didn't specifically ask you to prom as friends, then it might be a date. Wait until after prom and take a chance. Ask him what's going on between the two of you. If it's nothing, then it probably won't be a big deal and won't get in the way of your friendship. But if it's something, then it was definitely worth the risk. And either way at least you'll know and you won't keep wondering. 


Lauren T.

by snoopyfan2015 on 5/19/2013 7:36:30 PM

 
 

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WELL, the guy I've liked for a year is officially taken. And I am practically broken-hearted. How can I get over him? Please, I have tried everything.

Hey girlie,

Check out this article for tips on getting over a guy: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/10/12/How-can-I-get-over-my-ex.aspx. And while there definitely are tons of other guys who will appreciate how awesome you are, try getting over him by focusing on all the other great things in your life, like your family, friends or summer plans. Fill your schedule spending time with the people you love and focusing on schoolwork, and the right guy will come when the time is right!

Meghan D.

by Gigilove321 on 5/18/2013 9:17:21 PM

 
 



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i added my crush on ig and I've never met him before and then we started kiking and it was rally playful like emojis and exclamation marks and then he stopped kiking me and out of nowhere like a month later he said "you don't snap chat me back." all serious, and he never replies to mine anyways. so my "best friend" decides to start kiking him and yesterday they hung out at a carnival. I'm so angry at her, this is the 3rd chance I've given her at our friendship and i emptied my heart to her last time about how i thought she was just mean. i don't know how to flirt, i don't know what to do, i don't know how to talk to him, i just have been depressed and i needed some help from a mod or anybody who would listen. please help.

 

 Hey! I know guys seem really important right now, but friendships can last forever if you work at them. Tell your friend how she made you feel. You guys can work through it I promise. I hope this helps! Please feel better soon!


Helen S.

by cantora7789 on 5/18/2013 3:02:55 PM

 
 

I am not sure what to do! My dad doesn't let me date, but I really want to! I have a good relationship with him, but I get embarrassed really easily. Even if I am not that embarrassed, my face turns EXTREMELY red! There is this guy that I really like to and I am just so confused!

by H1M2 on 5/18/2013 12:35:42 AM

 
 

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There is this guy I have liked since December and my friend told me she caught him staring at me. So I payed a little more attention and I think he has stared at me a couple more times, but he never really talks to me. Anyways, do you think he likes me and if he does what should I do to catch his attention because I'm more of the shy type?

Hey girlie,

It's hard to know whether or not he likes you just from looking at you, because he might just happen to glance at you the same time you do at him! Maybe you could get to know him as friends and see how he acts around you then instead of just relying on glances--invite him to hang out with your friends or to sit with you at lunch! That way, you can learn more about each other in a casual setting and you can also see whether or not he acts flirty. Good luck chica!

Meghan D.

by Mady104 on 5/18/2013 12:08:44 AM

 
 

ok so there is this guy that I have had a major crush on since the 6th grade and in 6th grade we were really good friends until I told him I like him...im in eighth grade now and we never talk and if we do its so awkward... I really wanna be friends with him again and just not have it be awkward. there is definitely a chance of that but I don't know like how to get there...HELP

Hey girlie,

Maybe you could invite him to hang out with your friends so it would be less awkward, especially if you have any friends in common. That way you can still talk to him and rebuild your connection but it won't be as awkward since it won't be one on one. Good luck!
Meghan D.

by daynasaur on 5/17/2013 10:41:42 PM

 
 



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HI, so I have been crushing on this guys and we are pretty good friends, but i want there to be more. He jokes that we will get married and i dont know what to think. What is he trying to say? and also he said he wants to keep in touch over the summer but we dont have each others #s.. Does he want me to ask him, and if so how should i do it to not make it awkward, and also make me feel comfortable cuz im sorta shy.



Hey babe! It sounds like this guy is being flirty. Next time he says that you should keep in touch over the summer, say you think it's a great idea and that you should exchange numbers to make it happen and see where things go from there. Best of luck!! xox


Caroline M.

by Madison Cinnamon on 5/16/2013 4:12:40 PM

 
 



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So I like this guy who just broke up with my good friend. I'm not sure he likes me though. He hangs out with a bunch of other girls. But could things change next year? What gives? Thanks!

 

Hey girl! It's probably a good move to wait until next year, since he just broke up with your friend. It seems like since he's newly single, he wants to test out the waters, so I'd wait til next year. Things could change by then (a lot of things can happen in a summer!) so take a break from this guy and pick back up next year! Hope this helps! xx 


Hannah M

by Helena Gisele on 5/16/2013 1:49:39 AM

 
 



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Ok this will be abit long but I need advice. Ok well, this guy asked me out, I don't like him like that, so I told him about my parents rule of no dating til age 16, I am 15 now. The last time someone aaked my out I told them this willand they were dating someone else the next dayFrown. But this guy said he would wait! Now I don't know what isto do. I see him in class everyday. What should I do?

 

Hey girlie, if you don't like him then you don't want to make a commitment to him that you don't want to keep. Spend this time getting to know him better to see if maybe you really do like him more than you think you do. And then when you turn 16 you can make a real decision. 


Lauren T.

by a_school_nerd on 5/12/2013 8:47:44 PM

 
 



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So I like this guy and I think he likes me too. He always texts me first and stuff. This may sound really dumb but I'm scared of what people will think of us. I'm 5'7 and he's a couple inches shorter. He's also smaller than me i feel like we would look really awkward! He's older than me though but i still feel awkward. Does height and size really matter or am i just over worrying and thinking things?

 

Hey girlie, all that matters is that you like each other. Size and height doesn't matter. Sure, other people might stare or give you weird looks, but just ignore them. It's not important to your relationship as long as you really like each other. 


Lauren T.

by samileigh13 on 5/12/2013 7:58:35 PM

 
 



Mod Mod Mod (Preferably a Mod who is good with music)
I am auditioning for a musical, and they want me too sing a song for my audition. My range is from low A (two below middle C ) to high E (9 from middles C) on the piano. I was thinking about doing either Castle on a Cloud or In My Own (both are from Les Mis). Do you have any suggestions for broadway songs I could sing that would show off my range that are kind of slower more than jumpier? Thanks Smile

 

Hey girlie, I think the two songs that you've chosen sound like good ones. And both of those are my favorites from Les Mis! 


Lauren T.

by hermionegirl12 on 5/12/2013 5:40:36 PM

 
 



Mod mod mod!!!!!
What does mod mod mod mean????







Hey girl, it's how to get a moderator's attention to answer your questions! 
lauren r.

by Jules1399 on 5/12/2013 10:25:31 AM

 
 



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so my mom bought me this electric shaver and she won't let me use razors. It doesn't get as close as I would like. is there any way i can shave closer with it? and it hurts to shave my armpits with it, is there anyway I can do it without causing like pain or irritation? thank you so much <3




Hey girl, it could just be the type of razor you're using. Also, the hairs you are trying to shave might just be too small to catch the razor. You might have to wait two days rather than shaving just one day. 
lauren r.

by potterjay on 5/12/2013 2:25:16 AM

 
 

I'm texting my BGF/crush right now and I'm afraid the conversation might start to get boring. What are some topics to bring up that'll be fun to talk about and won't seem forced? Thankss!

Hey girlie,

Maybe you could talk about school or TV/movies/books, or something else casual and natural! And if you think the conversation is coming to an end, it's totally okay to say goodnight and that you'll talk to him soon.

Meghan D.

by xXmissbehavedXx on 5/11/2013 10:53:20 PM

 
 

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Hey girlie,

If you're not sure how she feels about you, maybe you could try subtle flirting or ask her to dance with you next time your school has a dance and see how she reacts. If you do want to tell her, you could just tell her you still want to be friends no matter how she feels and give her some time to react if she doesn't say anything right away.

Meghan D.

by MuStAcHiO on 5/11/2013 9:20:52 PM

 
 



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Hey, okay I don't know if I should tell my crush I like him! He's in 8th grade and I'm in 7th so he'll be in high school and I won't see him next year so.. Should I tell him??
Thank ya boo!!

 

Hey girl, its completely up to you. If you want him to know - tell him! 


lauren r.

by #1partier on 5/11/2013 10:22:39 AM

 
 

This article is perfect for me cause I've been asking my self this question for a while.... Smile thanks !

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