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My dad is sexually abusing me. How can I tell my mom?

My parents were going to get a divorce because my dad sexually abused me. It was without me knowing it was abuse, I just grew...
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That's just not right. I understand your situation though. Studies show that when you grow up with something like that you are used to it no problem. But when you hit school and you see how taboo it is in public society you feel odd. In this case i would have immediately talked to my mom. Even though it's your dad try to distance yourself and try to set your own boundaries. Good Luck! Smile

by TravelCrazyChic2012 on 7/31/2013 1:54:12 PM


My friend used to sexually abuse me. But I want you to know that telling people does help! It makes it better and helps you. I told my parents about it, and they took care of it. IT GETS EASIER! You have to tell your mom. My prayers are with you. Helen S.

by cardinal11Q on 6/13/2013 4:17:30 PM


ok your dad dose not to be treating u like that so talk to ur mom about ill be praying for u ur mom can stop ur dad treating u like that so talk to here about thx love -love391

by love391 on 6/12/2013 9:06:51 PM


im soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sorry for you i will PRAY for u and please talk to your mom about that you will feel so much better and she can help you so please keep STRONG and really talk to your mom about it dont be shy shes your mom you can tell her everything she will untrstand

by LOV E193 on 6/11/2013 10:12:49 PM


your dad dose not treat you right and you sould talk to your mom about asap

by LOV E193 on 6/11/2013 10:05:20 PM


Hey babe! I am so sorry to hear all of that. Here are some helpful links. xoxo

1-800-273-TALK (8255)

Caroline M.

by daylit14 on 5/30/2013 1:02:37 PM


I know what your going through I had to go through I went through it with my grandpa during my middle school years(I was living my grandparents at the time), and I had to deal with the same things when I with him and much worse. You should find someone that will listen to you. Your mom will eventually come around like my parents did (it took them a year for them to realize the full truth and my grandma was just like your mom), but when they did realize the truth they stood by my side and defended me all the way through. As for right now, avoid your step-father if you let it go on the situation will only get worse. If he enters a room alone with you walk out of the room stay by your mom and if he's alone with you in the house go outside. He will get mad at you but take that anger he gives you and ignore it. Just walk away. If it gets bad enough find a friends house or a family members.

by winklame on 5/27/2013 1:56:11 PM


I'm so so so so so sooooo sorry! Just tell your mum and everything will turn out ok. Your mum can take you away from that situation so you can live a worry-free life.

by Kimposi1 on 5/26/2013 8:42:30 AM


OMG! Im soooo sorry that u have to go thru something like this...I wud be totally freaking out....just keep courage and pray(it helps....)

by tracy1904 on 5/25/2013 3:25:48 AM


im sorry to hear about the situation u have to deal with, please report about this automatically you shouldn't have to go through this with anybody especially your dad

by keyala0513 on 5/19/2013 8:59:44 PM


Can you tell me more about the "Covenant House" listed above? Like what it is?


Hey girlie, Covenant House is a shelter for homeless youth with locations around the country. They also have a crisis hotline for frightened youth to call if they need help.

Lauren T.

by xXMissBehavedXx on 5/19/2013 8:22:01 PM


Woah that is horrible. I am so sorry. I think it would be best if you do call the cops on him.

by Selenator4ever on 5/18/2013 10:27:28 PM


Wow. YOUR DAD IS BREAKING THE LAW. I recommend calling the police! I called on my dad once...

by gpprettygirl on 5/18/2013 8:52:29 PM


Im so sorry! keep strong!

by Emilicious on 5/18/2013 8:36:05 PM


oh my goodness! i will be praying for you! I am so sorry to hear that, and please know that by speaking up it will help, and just keep faith!

by proballerina on 5/18/2013 5:42:24 PM


I am sooo sorry. Im praying for you.

by hgrules on 5/18/2013 12:35:23 PM


I'm so sorry! Your mom is probably in denial cause she is scared for you and your dad. Listen, you CANT let him abuse you like that. Tell him that you don't like it, that it bothers you, maybe even tell him your not his Gf! If you keep letting him abuse you, you could be hurt. Please promise me you wont let him keep it up. You have a voice so use it to defend you! Trust me,if you take this advice things will be better. Good luck!

by Mavertishboydrama on 5/18/2013 12:19:59 PM


I can't even describe how angry this makes me. Adults like this... ugh. No parent that loves you should treat you like that. Like an object. No boyfriend/girlfriend either. I can't imagine this happening to me, and I really feel for this girl. It must be horrible to be pushed around in such a sexual way. Hopefully she can get out of that situation!

by rileytibbles on 5/18/2013 11:53:19 AM


He's messed up no girl should have to go through that. You should just tell him to knock it off or if he starts physically abusing you when tell him to knock it off call the abusing center

by bella0105 on 5/18/2013 10:27:20 AM


That is so wrong. No girl should have to deal with that. Good for you for trying to get help.

by Glitterheart16 on 5/18/2013 1:30:07 AM


It is so wrong what he is doing, hopefully you can get some help. Its sounds like he needs a lot of help to.

by fashionqn on 5/17/2013 11:55:42 PM


thats so messed up! and sad this girls dad is disguting I understand its her dad but any person who can do that to there own child is very sick in the head wether its a dad or mom its not right at ALL its sickeing you share the same
blood with your child thats so disguting

by redvelvetluv on 5/17/2013 8:41:17 PM


You poor thing. I can't tell you how sorry I am! I will keep you in my prayers.

by Ralinia on 5/17/2013 7:39:34 PM


I AM SO SORRY. I hope that everything gets better for you.

by carinaamina on 5/17/2013 6:22:06 PM


Honey,I'm sooooo sorry :-( I REALLY hope that this stops! GL is right though. I'm praying for you<3

by iluvmusic♥ on 5/17/2013 5:05:34 PM


Wow, omg that is soo messed up :-( Sorry for you for having to deal with this

by maggie183 on 5/17/2013 4:10:48 PM


Wow! That's tough! I hope everything turns out okay Smile

by Sweetie99 on 5/17/2013 4:04:00 PM


I'm so sorry that you have to go through that! No girl should ever have to suffer they way you and too many other girls have. Writing that letter and that fact that your mom knows about the issue is certainly a good start. I know what you're going through because I sort of speak from experience and I promise it gets better and you're 10 times stronger than you think. ( BTW, I'm here if you need someone to talk to.)Good luck!

by scamp24 on 5/17/2013 4:00:06 PM

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