When to end an on-and-off relationship

I have a BF, and this is the third time we’ve been together. He dumped me twice and asked me out again. I’m not sure if he likes me or if I’m just conveniently there when he wants me to be.

Dear Confused,

I don’t know if he really likes you, but do you reeeeeally like him? Or do you just like the idea of your boyfriend asking you to get back together? If you enjoy dating him and can handle his casual attitude, OK, I guess. But since you took the time to write, it sounds like this on-again/off-again romance is not totally OK with you, which is understandable. After all, why should he make all the decisions? If you’re ready for a change, say, “See ya,” to this so-called BF.
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by Carol Weston | 2/1/2016